I got a lapdance for hubby & his friends!!

[MarriedMom]

Hi ho everyone. I just wanted to share a story with you guys/gals to get your perspective on it. I was a ... ahem... naughty girl this past Saturday.

Me and hubby, along with three of his closest male friends, all went to a local titty bar to hang out, drink and play a little pool. Needless to say, we all got a bit tipsy, and I got really brave. I'm not bisexual/lesbian, but I do truly admire a nice female figure. Well.. lol... My hubby's best buddy Kevin, spotted a stripper that was really hot. He joked with me that I needed to get a lapdance from her so they could watch, and I said, "SURE!" SO... there I was, being straddled by a hot brunette wearing nothing but a gstrings, while my husband and his pals all sat around and watched. I gotta say, it was a bit akward at first, but after the stripper "did her thing" for a while, I started to get REEEALLY turned on by this girl. I started getting into the routine with her, grinding against her and stroking her (even though touching is supposed to be a no-no). She let me squeeze her breasts and smack her ass for the boys. By the time the dance was over, my husband was crawling all over me, his friends were all trying to hide their boners, and I for the first time in my life began questioning myself about whether I really would ever be able to have sex with a woman. LOL

The only thing about the whole experience that somewhat bugs me, is the fact that I turned on my husband's friends. I would NEVER do anything with them, and quite frankly, they are all FARRR from my type. I guess the thing that turned me on so much about the whole experience was seeing how my husband reacted to me getting into it while his friends were watching. It's almost like he had "bragging rights" afterwards that his wife was cool enough to do that for him and his best pals.

SO... any girls out there that have ever done something similar? And for the guys reading this, if your wife/gf got a lapdance in front of you AND your best friends, would that turn you on or piss you off? I just had a really interesting sexually arousing experience due to the whole thing, and I wanted to see how others reacted/felt after doing something similar to what I did.

MM

P.S. By the way, sex the next day (we were too drunk to F*** that night... lol) was awesome. Hubby and I came so hard I think we lost a few gallons of fluid.

[iceman]

MM

P.S. By the way, sex the next day (we were too drunk to F*** that night... lol) was awesome. Hubby and I came so hard I think we lost a few gallons of fluid.

Be honest, did you “loose-lots of gallons of fluid- yourself” the next day with the lapdance woman (who got you REEAALLY turned on) on ya mind as well or not?

[Edit] if you did “loose lots of gallons of fluids-yourself” with the lapdancer on ya mind as well, ya might consider to actual give “sex with a woman” a try!
If you seriously consider something like that, I would definitely recommend to talk about that to your hubby!
The chance that your hubby (seeing that he was very aroused with the lapdancer) objects, is probably at the minimum!
Hell he even might want to join you! [/Edit]


That your hubby’s friends were aroused by you and the lapdancer performance is not a surprise!
Somehow, (two women, getting turned on by / into each other) Is a “men’s fantasy”?!?

About being pissed or turned on myself, as my wife was doing that in front of my buddies?
My buddies are turned on already only by my wife’s presence as it is, stand alone making it a lot worse with the “men’s fantasy”!

In short; I will be pissed!


~iceman

[Centaur]

I'd love it!

Way to go girl

[andy_yorks]

I'd love my wife to do this

[andy_yorks]

In fact I'm going to ask her now

[MarriedMom]

LOL Good luck with the proposal on that andy. My experience was totally out on a whim... it wasn't planned or anything. Maybe that's the approach you should take. Find one that has pool tables and other entertainment than just strippers. Just in case. Heh.

My hubby was completely cool about the lapdance, and he never showed signs of jealousy when the dance was going on. BUT... later on, one of his buddies (Glen) was chatting it up with me while we were watching strippers on the stage, and I found out later from one of the other guys there with us that my husband was "bitching" about Glen flirting with me. I didn't think hubby had a problem with it, but for him to get a little jealousy streak just because I was talking to one of his friends makes me wonder.

Come to find out, Glen has a crush on me. I didn't know it until my husband's other friend (Marlon) told me when he told me about my husband ranting about Glen flirting with me. Hubby has known for a while that Glen has the hots for me, but he never told me. I guess he had some ideas in his head that Glen was turned on by me and he didn't like the fact that I was having a good time talking to him. I dunno, maybe it was just him running his mouth while he was boozed up. He gets very vocal after having some beer. Shoot, that's usually the best time for me to get him to talk about things is after he's had one too many. LOL Just to clarify things, Glen is TOTALLY NOT my type, and I derived no sexual pleasure whatsoever from knowing he was watching me get a lapdance.

It was fun, but I wonder if hubby would ever do it again. What are some signs from men that they are bothered by something? If you were bothered by your wife/gf doing something like what I did, would you flat out tell her, or would you stew on it and not say anything? Just curious to know if I should ask him about how he felt about it or just drop it.

MM

[iceman]

If you were bothered by your wife/gf doing something like what I did, would you flat out tell her, or would you stew on it and not say anything?

MM

Nor women or men are all alike, which means that some of them will keep it to her/himself and some won’t!

Personally?
I would just “flat out tell her”

~iceman

[timson]

I would get rather pissed off if my girlfriend was getting a lapdance, just as I would expect her to be pissed at me for getting a lapdance, no it wouldn't turn me on at all watching a woman having a lapdance from another woman, it would just make me jelous and cause issues in our relationship and get me questioning her sexuality, becasue in my opinon if your a straight bloke having a bisexual girlfriend just doesn't work... as i talk from experience with an ex.