Handjobs. Any techinques you men favor?

[bugrit]

LikeAVirgin,
You don't say whether your boyfriend is circumcised or not but there is one thing you have to note very carefully: raw friction on his exposed glans (bobby's helmet) is a no-no. Never let your (dry) hand rub the head of his penis because it's cringe-makingly awful! You know how a dry fingertip on your own glans feels? It's much the same - but that's not to say that he won't forgive you, he will.

Here's a run-down for you from the point of view of a male with plenty of foreskin that readily retracts fully. To dispense with the up/down problem, assume your man is on his back and that up is towards the ceiling. Let's assume also that he is aroused and that his foreskin is fully retracted exposing the glans. Begin by grasping the shaft of his penis firmly with your thumb joint towards his face. The region you want is the darker skin, just below the band of pink skin. This grip is akin to the one he probably uses himself.

Glide your hand up, taking the loose skin with you as you go. You will reach a point where you can go no further and so you should start the downward stroke. Once again go as far as you can without your hand sliding. Then back up... and down... as slowly as you like at first while you are learning. (It's nice to start slowly when you are expert at it, too.)

Remember to keep a grip of the skin that you started out with when you first grasped his penis. That skin glides over the penis and "rolls" over the glans concealing it on the up-stroke and exposing it on the down-stroke. Be cautious until you discover when your hand must change direction. As you gain confidence, speed up a little and watch and listen for his reactions. You'll soon get the hang of it.

Something that you might notice is that the skin on the shaft is silky smooth to the touch. Whilst that's desirable for intercourse, it does make things a little bit more difficult for a first-timer to give a hand-job without her hand slipping.

Finally, let me reiterate that my guidelines are from the point of view of a man who is not severely circumcised. If your boyfriend's glans is exposed when his penis is flaccid then you need advice from another quarter.

I hope this helps.

[Lynne]

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[flooperam]

He Like A Virgin,

I have never recived a hand job from someone else but hey i often give myself one .

You just need to chill, relax and enjoy. If it is not nice he will tell you and if it is nice you will see.......

you can use your other hand to play with his balls or if he is spread you can put pressure and massage the peace of flesh between his Balls and Anus... he will love that.

Main thing.... be natural, relax, USE LUBE or it will hurt... be Gentle and ask if he likes and change if not.....

Goll Luck and Happy Rubbing

[houseman]

My boyfriend has been wanting me to give him a hand job for awhile now, but I've been really hesitant because I've never given one before.

I want to make him happy and give him as much pleasure as possible, so how do I do that? I know to ask him what he likes and everything, and I will when the time comes, but do any of you men out there have any pointers that I could work with until then?

I've read on the male G-Spot, or Prostrate, and that has helped, but there must be something else you like since not all women know about it.

Ladies feel free to reply too, let me know what your man likes.

W**nking is like walking do you know
how to walk

[houseman]

LikeAVirgin,
You don't say whether your boyfriend is circumcised or not but there is one thing you have to note very carefully: raw friction on his exposed glans (bobby's helmet) is a no-no. Never let your (dry) hand rub the head of his penis because it's cringe-makingly awful! You know how a dry fingertip on your own glans feels? It's much the same - but that's not to say that he won't forgive you, he will.

Here's a run-down for you from the point of view of a male with plenty of foreskin that readily retracts fully. To dispense with the up/down problem, assume your man is on his back and that up is towards the ceiling. Let's assume also that he is aroused and that his foreskin is fully retracted exposing the glans. Begin by grasping the shaft of his penis firmly with your thumb joint towards his face. The region you want is the darker skin, just below the band of pink skin. This grip is akin to the one he probably uses himself.

Glide your hand up, taking the loose skin with you as you go. You will reach a point where you can go no further and so you should start the downward stroke. Once again go as far as you can without your hand sliding. Then back up... and down... as slowly as you like at first while you are learning. (It's nice to start slowly when you are expert at it, too.)

Remember to keep a grip of the skin that you started out with when you first grasped his penis. That skin glides over the penis and "rolls" over the glans concealing it on the up-stroke and exposing it on the down-stroke. Be cautious until you discover when your hand must change direction. As you gain confidence, speed up a little and watch and listen for his reactions. You'll soon get the hang of it.

Something that you might notice is that the skin on the shaft is silky smooth to the touch. Whilst that's desirable for intercourse, it does make things a little bit more difficult for a first-timer to give a hand-job without her hand slipping.

Finally, let me reiterate that my guidelines are from the point of view of a man who is not severely circumcised. If your boyfriend's glans is exposed when his penis is flaccid then you need advice from another quarter.

I hope this helps.

W**nking is very complicated isnt it

[Burst Tyre]

The main problem with girls giving a hand job, in my experience anyway (and it's been the same with everyone of them) is that they go at it like they're digging the road up with a jack-hammer! I suppose it's the same as having your vibro set on driller-killer speed! I find Slow, smooth, and gentle touches, especilaly with your fingernails on the head of the penis works everytime for me.

Nuff said!

[USA man]

Definately oil him first if just using your hand. Saliva works especially when directly applied You can W*** him using your undies... my favorite! Definately stand behind him and reach around to do it... unless he's chubby. Change speeds, direction and strok length.
Have fun

[wajmmjqa]

The previous poster was correct: it's best to stand or lay behind him and wrap your right hand around from the side. Chances are, your b/f wanks quite a bit and this will put your hand in roughly the same position he uses.

Be sure to use good lubrication.

Change pace once in a while. You can also have a lot of fun with him running your nails up his back, legs or buttocks.

If he has any kind of clothing fetish, you can enhace his experience by wearing sexy clothes while you stroke him. Seeing your nylon covered legs, for instance, may really push him over the top.

Don't be affraid to talk to him while you're doing it. If you know certain things turn him on, you can tell him what you'll do to him (or NOT do to him) if he comes (or DOESN'T come).

Be confident! Jerking off a guy means having him by the genitals. This act of giving up control to a woman can be one of the biggest turn-ons of a handjob. Play it up. Act in charge. Even if you're new at this, come across like you know what you're doing and he'll be at your mercy. If he's into teasing, you can even fool around with this a few times, and stop right before he comes. It'll drive him crazy, but you'll leave him horny as hell and willing to do anything for you to finish the job.

Finally, have fun.

[DevilSyndrom]

The previous poster was correct: it's best to stand or lay behind him and wrap your right hand around from the side. Chances are, your b/f wanks quite a bit and this will put your hand in roughly the same position he uses.

Be sure to use good lubrication.

Change pace once in a while. You can also have a lot of fun with him running your nails up his back, legs or buttocks.

If he has any kind of clothing fetish, you can enhace his experience by wearing sexy clothes while you stroke him. Seeing your nylon covered legs, for instance, may really push him over the top.

Don't be affraid to talk to him while you're doing it. If you know certain things turn him on, you can tell him what you'll do to him (or NOT do to him) if he comes (or DOESN'T come).

Be confident! Jerking off a guy means having him by the genitals. This act of giving up control to a woman can be one of the biggest turn-ons of a handjob. Play it up. Act in charge. Even if you're new at this, come across like you know what you're doing and he'll be at your mercy. If he's into teasing, you can even fool around with this a few times, and stop right before he comes. It'll drive him crazy, but you'll leave him horny as hell and willing to do anything for you to finish the job.

Finally, have fun.

damm..... you sound like you have the hand that must be experienced!

[BigJoe]

Check with Jenny, I'm sure she can give you some pointers.
This babe knows handjobs!
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[romulaszi]

Use a full shaft motion, while rotating hand around diameter..

needs lube if you perform fast

[phdiver]

one more comment.

some times (at the start) it helps to hold the base real firmly with the other hand

[x KINKY x]

everything ive read in here seems to be good advice

just make sure u relax , use one hand on his dick , one cupping and massging his balls he'd love this !!

also , when u W*** him off u could be naked / top half naked and tease him by rubbing ur hard nipples on the tip of his cick and maybe tit W*** him for a sec so u can lick his C*** aswell as W*** him off atthe same time

talk dirty to him aswell and ask how much he likes it / if he wants u 2 go faster ? how bad he's been ? and how horny he is making you....all these work [ if hes the type of guy who loves talking dirty - and lets face it thats the majority of guys ]

enjoy hope it goes / went well

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[unatural]

I think it is sick to play with yourself and someone else. I have never done it to a man and never will. I enjoy what God planned.