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davian wrote:The number of men you hear of through forum threads like this one who seem to fantasize or get excited about their wives or girlfriends with other men amazes me. I have had such thoughts of these since I was a teenager with my first steady girlfriend & thought I was a freak, as I never met a guy in person - a friend, acquaintance or work colleague - who admitted that it turned them on. Nor have any of my girlfriends to this day been with a guy who wanted it, except for me.
justawifeandmother wrote:davian wrote:The number of men you hear of through forum threads like this one who seem to fantasize or get excited about their wives or girlfriends with other men amazes me. I have had such thoughts of these since I was a teenager with my first steady girlfriend & thought I was a freak, as I never met a guy in person - a friend, acquaintance or work colleague - who admitted that it turned them on. Nor have any of my girlfriends to this day been with a guy who wanted it, except for me.
you sound like a sweetheart to me. hey, it is too bad you don't know my hubby. He would bring you home and enjoy watching you undress me. there are lots of me out there who have this belief, fantasy, lifestyle, whatever you want to call it. you are not alone. did you ever try to get a girlfriend to try it out???? i tell you what. 3somes are the best. two men and a woman and the guys try to F*** her till she can't F*** any more. you would love it. most men are too ashamed /afraid to be honest about it. what they don't realize is that most of us women want to be f*cked and f*cked by a lot of different men. it is just not socially acceptable yet?? i hope you get lucky and find a woman that will give you what you need.
justawifeandmother wrote:i know i couldn't last a week, let alone a month. i don't think that i could ever give this up. my husband would have a fit if i even joked about stopping. i go out about once a week right now. when hubby is in the field, i go out every night. it is hard to describe the feeling when that new C*** is entering me. nothing excites me more. because i am a mom, i have to wait till the kids are asleep before i go out. if my husband is in the field (he is army) i get my next door neighbor to watch my kids. she wished her husband would let her go out like me. she wants to go with me one night when she can get away from her husband. i stick to army men. i like soldiers and because of testing requirements for HIV in the service, army men are safer than the general population. i always keep my activities with soldier in other battalions, not the one my husband is in. We do know two couples in his battalion that we swap with. i did have for a long time a young German lover. he lives downstairs from us. i was his first and i will treasure that for a long time. he has a girlfriend now and doesn't come to see me any more, but it was sweet when he did. i don't know how a woman can have a good sex life with just the same man all the time. i love meeting and seducing a new man. i love a man' penis and love looking, touching, sucking a new one. i hope more and more women open up and explore their sexuality.
califtom wrote:I have finally come to the realization that the thought of my wife having sex with another man excites me. I thought I was insane and completely alone until I found this site and started reading some of the posts here. my fantasies about this are not as extreme as some of what I have read here, and I still have alot of fear about the aftermath. I have masturbated many times thinking about the men my wife has been with before, and often times imagine them doing to her what I am doing while we are having sex. My feelings are unexplainable. I am jealous, angry, hurt but very excited and turned on at the same time. I told her to go with another man a few nights ago and she finally did. At first I was hurt, but I was actually getting aroused when she told me what she did. We have still not made the decision for her to do it in front of me, but I am starting to think more about it. We love each other very very much, but we enjoy unusual sex at times. Our sex life is wonderful, but this fantasy is growing more in my head by the day. I have watched her with women several times and it was great, but my wife is obviously more attracted to men. I don't know why I am so aroused at the thought of my wife having sex with other people. For those who have done this, did it strengthen your relationship or did it damage it? Any advice anyone can give me would be appreciated. It is good at least to know that I am not alone.
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