having sex with other men

[justawifeandmother]

the aftermath has always been that Jim is happy that i have enjoyed myself. He doesn't fear competition and knows what is important is not how my climaxes with other men compare to the ones with him, but that my heart is always his, that i always seek my "lovemaking" from him even if i am enjoying good sex with someone else. you have to let go of that is he better than me thing. sex is not a competitive sport. Jim and i have a lot of sex that is just us two and it is spectacular. that is our personal intimate time. we separate love and f*cking. they are not the same thing. in an open relationship, your wife will have sessions that she enjoys more than maybe a session she just had with you, but you should be glad that she was well pleased sexually. Her joy in sex should be your joy also. My husband is thrilled if i have super orgasms with someone else. it made me happy and that is what counts with him.

[califtom]

the aftermath has always been that Jim is happy that i have enjoyed myself. He doesn't fear competition and knows what is important is not how my climaxes with other men compare to the ones with him, but that my heart is always his, that i always seek my "lovemaking" from him even if i am enjoying good sex with someone else. you have to let go of that is he better than me thing. sex is not a competitive sport. Jim and i have a lot of sex that is just us two and it is spectacular. that is our personal intimate time. we separate love and f*cking. they are not the same thing. in an open relationship, your wife will have sessions that she enjoys more than maybe a session she just had with you, but you should be glad that she was well pleased sexually. Her joy in sex should be your joy also. My husband is thrilled if i have super orgasms with someone else. it made me happy and that is what counts with him.

I too do not fear competition, I know my wife's body and exactly what she likes. I make her cum repeatedly everytime we make love and the sex is amazing. But the thought of seeing her with another man is just so new and such a foreign idea to me at this point that I don't know what would happen if I actually saw it taking place. I think this is something we maybe have to take slowly. When she went with another guy a few nights ago my initial reaction was extreme sadness and anger, but mostly because she would not answer her phone afterwards or well into the next day. I thought I would freak out when she told me the details, but instead I became very aroused and masturbated later that night thinking about it. The problem we are having now, is she is afraid that I don't care about her because I am not as angry as she had expected. I am having a difficult time expressing to her that I do care about her and love her more than anything on this earth, but that for some reason her having sex with another man makes me extremely excited.

[justawifeandmother]

have your wife read this forum. have her read my threads and those of donna31. hers is called nervous about being a hot wife or something like that. a lot of wrong expectations are going on in your relationship. sounds like someone is having to prove something to the other. that is definitely a drawback.

[sally wey]

what has the aftermath with you and your husband been though? do you still enjoy sex with just him alone or do you prefer it with other men? I don't want to have a relationship where she enjoys sex with other men more than she does with me.

Hi, Im Sally, my husband and I have been having extra sexual fun for quite awhile now, I no longer have sex with my husband John,
we make love and one on one love making is fanastic, no other man alone can please me like John dies, I have only had one on one a few times with other men, its been mostly MFMs some FMFs and we have swopped,
I dont know about other women but John is the tops for me and always will be, Im a very lucky wife, love Sally

[sally wey]

have your wife read this forum. have her read my threads and those of donna31. hers is called nervous about being a hot wife or something like that. a lot of wrong expectations are going on in your relationship. sounds like someone is having to prove something to the other. that is definitely a drawback.

Hi Sally here, have just read your post, its really nice to read about others, as you will see by what is on the end, I love threesomes but they have to be with my hisband, I have had two other men at once but prefer one to be John, love Sally

[sally wey]

Hi Sally, I am Mary Lee. Nice to meet you. I have been reading your posts and you sound like quite a dame. Sexy one too. i have been following the posts of the girl nervous about getting started, donna. She really impressed me by how bold she is and how she got right into it. I thing it would have been harder for me to start if it weren't for the dare of my husband. If he dares me to do something or tells me i am chicken, i have to prove him wrong. I can't wait to see if she goes all the way with Koreene. i want to get in bed with her husband Melvin. I like him alright. Some time you should write the details of one of your threesomes with another man. I would love tto hear the details. I keep thinking about doing a detailed one like Donna but i just don't have the time and it takes me a long time to type. As you can tell, i like picking up guys rather than more arranged meetings. I like the independence of it. i can't keep my legs together and with Jim i am glad i don't have to try to. Jim is a honey and i loved that he brought Udo to me so i could be his first girl he had sex with. i have not had sex with another woman yet, but what donna is doing is getting me interested. Do you think she really is going to perform oral sex on Koreene. I know Koreene is going to do her. i hope Koreene does Melvin too, that would be way cool. I think Melvin deserves it. I am happy when we swap and Jim get to F*** another woman. i like to watch his face when he is getting a blow job. He is so cute! i don't know about you, but when ever i meet a nice man and am attracted to him, i think a lot about his C*** and him putting his C*** in me. that is really the one thing i can't live without, the feeling of a new C*** entering me. that is when i cum the best. Write back soon, love Mary Lee.

Hi Mary Lee, Sally here, loved your post, I to would love to be over there with Donna, I have never been into interraceial sex however I wouldn't mind being with Koreena catch you later love Sally

[justawifeandmother]

Sally, just a question or two. did u read the post about me picking up the two german youths? Have you ever done something like that? i love the raw undiluted sex of that kind of pickup. the sex outdoors holding to a tree was a first and pretty much fun. i like being taken from behind so it was great. if you have done something like that before, how did you like it. was it like raw sex like it was for me?? u like sex outdoors?? just nosy.

[donna31]

hi, i just want to tell you i like your posts and the post about the Germans and the park was hot. i can't wait until i get that bold. i am just starting out and it has been great. keep posting babe.

[sally wey]

Sally, just a question or two. did u read the post about me picking up the two german youths? Have you ever done something like that? i love the raw undiluted sex of that kind of pickup. the sex outdoors holding to a tree was a first and pretty much fun. i like being taken from behind so it was great. if you have done something like that before, how did you like it. was it like raw sex like it was for me?? u like sex outdoors?? just nosy.

Hi, yes I read your post about, the two german lads, and yes I have had two lads in their early twenties,
it hapened one sat. night, John and I had gone out to our club, and decided to go to a chinese restaurant,
it was quite full so we shared a table with two lads, one had worked with John on the motorway as a chain boy,
the other one was stroking my thigh up past the stockings to bare flesh,
anyway they got up to go but went to the rest room,
I told John and he asked if I wanted them, I said yes if we could,
we got up so as to cut them off, John told me that I would have to be bold, John asked them if they would wait with me so he could go,
as soon as John was out of sight I asked him if he would rather go all the way and F*** me, I was shocked at my own boldness,
they asked about John and I told them he was already tired and a sleeping tablet would do the rest,
John pretended to fall asleep and the two F*** me about three times ach, it was F***ing great, I had never been so bold in my life,
if you E-mail me I could send on the full story, love Sally

[sally wey]

hi, i just want to tell you i like your posts and the post about the Germans and the park was hot. i can't wait until i get that bold. i am just starting out and it has been great. keep posting babe.

Hi Donna, glad you found Mary Lee's post, your post were fabulous, and fleena shoulds terrific, have you and melvin had sex with her yet?
Donna as you progress with extra sexual fun you will get bolder,
what I like the best really is being undressed by two men, after which one plays with my vagina and the other with my breast, WOW, love to all your sex friends, wish I could join you in the states, love Sally

[califtom]

what has the aftermath with you and your husband been though? do you still enjoy sex with just him alone or do you prefer it with other men? I don't want to have a relationship where she enjoys sex with other men more than she does with me.

Hi, Im Sally, my husband and I have been having extra sexual fun for quite awhile now, I no longer have sex with my husband John,
we make love and one on one love making is fanastic, no other man alone can please me like John dies, I have only had one on one a few times with other men, its been mostly MFMs some FMFs and we have swopped,
I dont know about other women but John is the tops for me and always will be, Im a very lucky wife, love Sally

Hey thanks for all the responses theyve been very helpful. I don't feel like such a freak now and I think there's a chance we could do something along these lines that would make us both happy. I don't know if I'm ready to actually watch another man penetrate my wife at this point, but something less than that for now I think I could handle. I think the fact she went with another man the other night and it made me love her more is a positive sign. thanks again for the helpful advice.

[donna31]

Hey Hey, Mary Lee, Donna here. you been quiet. who is new? keep us posted pls. i have been having the time of my life lately. thanks for reading my posts. love, donna

[justawifeandmother]

Hi Sally, Hi Donna!!!! it turns out a friend of mine, whom i never told about my extra-marital adventures, reads this forum and recognized me as the author of this thread. She came to my house yesterday and when i opened the door she suddenly gave me a very long hug, something she has never done before. She immediately told me she had been reading my posts and said that she had been wanting to do the same thing for a couple of years now, but didn't have the courage to tell her husband. She was very interested in the men, how many, how long have i been F****** other men, how much did i really like it, what was it like to touch another man's c*ck, how does it really feel when they penetrate, was really as good as i describe, did Jim really like for me to have sex with other men, was he excited by my adventures, did i know donna, was donna in germany too, etc etc. you get the idea. i got her to tell me about her and what she felt her needs were. she had tears in her eyes as she told me how she ached to have sex with another man, how she thought about it everyday and how she combed the internet looking for sites that would give her information and a little comfort. i told her how I just came out and told Jim i needed sex from other men, telling her honesty is the best policy. and the fastest way to reach her goal. I said she needs to find out her husbands attitude towards it. i asked how stable was their marriage. she said she has 4 kids and has been married for 16 years. in all that time, she has only had sex with her husband. she said several times she almost cheated on him and just couldn't go through with it. She wished her husband would have an open mind like Jim. i said she should stay for dinner and after dinner she could talk to Jim. She said she had to go fix dinner for her husband and kids, but would be back later in the evening. just before she left, she told me that she wished she was the one that had met the two german boys at the bahnhof gasthaus. i told Jim about her after the kids had finished eating and went to watch tv. he know her husband and said he is a good soldier. i said what kind of man is he, i care if he is a good soldier. but all Jim could say was that he seemed like a good sort of person. no help here. Jim's focus is good soldier or bad soldier. she got back about ten, saying she waited till her husband went to bed and kids were busy playing video games. she told them she was going to see me and would be back in a couple of hours. we talked a while and i went in to make sure the kids were asleep before we got into what she wanted to talk about most. but after a while we couldn't come up with a good approach to discuss this with her husband. i think the best thing is for the four of us to go out to dinner and she should tell him what she wants and we give her support and him reassurance. you guys have any ideas. it is a touchy situation with Jim being a senior NCO and my friend's husband being a rank above him. also the narrow minded US army would have kittens if it thought its members were engaging in wife swapping and open marriages. as we were drinking coffee i felt very sorry for her and reached out and held her hand. i told if she wanted, Jim and her could use the bedroom for a while. i said it would be good for her. she looked at Jim; he stood up and held out his hand. she took it and he led her to the bed room. when she left, she was a much happier woman. but that doesn't solve her problem. i think it is easier to convince a woman to have sex with other men than it is to convince a husband to let her. any ideas? Donna? Sally? anybody else?????

[sally wey]

Hi Mary Lee, the way that John and I started was of course in the bedroom when making love, I cant remember who said it first,
I think it was me, I kept saying every now and then, I wish you had more hands to caresse my body with, soon John started saying it (this could be vice versa of course)
another way is get together at your home, put on some soft music while chatting,
you and your friend wear ome sexy clothes (not too much) after a while start dancing,
I dont have to tell any girls how to turn it on when dancing, there is of course sex games,
hope this helps love Sally

[spraygun]

i provide a service for couples whos husband enjoys the thought of his wife/gf having sex with other guys. its more common that you would think.

i regularly service 6 women of varying ages and without exception they all say that it helps thier relationship.

The guys know about me but do not consider me a theat since i am not looking for a relationship with the females.

i garantee muti orgasiums which is manly achieved by 2-3 hours of oral for the females pleasure coupled with massage of the g spot.

i tend to have repeated penatration about 5-6 times during the session which is most unusal in a regular relationship/marriage.