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Postby JanineST on Tue Aug 26, 2008 5:48 am

just like sex to much,so glad my husband loves to watch me.one day i would like to try to see how many i could f**k in 24 hours. :D

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Re: having sex with other men

Postby stonecastle on Tue Aug 26, 2008 5:55 pm

justawifeandmother wrote:when i have sex with another man it seems like an aphrodisiac for him. does this affect most men this way?? if it does, i recommend it to every woman suffering those sexual doldrums.
Yes many men find the idea of their wife having sex with someone else a very big turn on. Or even another woman which is usually an even bigger turn on.

Why not ask him if he would like you to have sex with another woman. I am sure he would. :lol:

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Postby krn6301 on Tue Aug 26, 2008 8:26 pm

[quote=I wish I could the be the lucky man"geena32"]my hubby has been getting off watching me f**k other men. we meet them through craigslist or other on-line meeting sites. i thought it was a great idea when my hubby first mentioned it. i have had over twenty different men in the last six months and my hubby wouldn't care if it was every day. i am a regular wife and mom except for the extra sexy fun on the side. i take my boys to ball practice and my daughter to music lessons just like every other mom. i don't wear sexy clothes, just a top and jeans with flats. i notice that my hubby is a sex maniac after i meet some one, especially if he watches. when he starts to wind down, i f**k someone else and he's all rev'ed up again. i love it!!!!!

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Postby krn6301 on Tue Aug 26, 2008 8:28 pm

I wish I could be that other man. :!:

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Postby #1 on Wed Aug 27, 2008 5:17 am

My wife and I have only been married a short time and things like this sounded so good to us.We picked our 2nd year to try having a guy f**k her.We did not want anyone to know us so we went out of town and rented a motel room.Went to a local pub and it was like fresh meat to these guys.She told this one guy what we wanted to do and said he could get a few others if we wanted.She said yes and next thing we had 4 men in the room f***ing her in everyway you could think of.I did not even know of somethings they did to her.She came so many times I lost count.Very late in the morning they were done and left us.They even gave us cards to call them again if we wanted to give it another try.The room,floor,bed and her had cum all over.Rubbers all over the place and she was still smiling but her hole was very sore.This was so wild of a thing we did yet we are not sure we will do it again.We still have the cards with the phone numbers.Hey who knows the 4th year is not that far away.

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Postby stonecastle on Wed Aug 27, 2008 2:45 pm

I think it is best if the man does not know or ever have any contact with the other men who the wife is having sex with. I think the best way to do it is for the wife to go out alone and pick up a man for sex or for her to advertise on the net on a site like illicit encounters. Then get the sex filmed and show it to her husband on her return.

For me I know that while the thought of a woman I am going out with having sex with someone else is a turn on. If I was actually watching it close up and was in the same room as the other man then it would be a turn off. For me I would have to be watching it from a long distance through binoculars or else watch film of it after.

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Postby justawifeandmother on Thu Aug 28, 2008 4:56 am

My friend, who wants to have an open marriage like i have, just left to go home. her husband has staff duty nco, therefore was not home all night. so after her kids were safely in bed, she came over here to "borrow" my husband for a couple of hours. which was fine with me. she is a woman with needs beyond what her husband can meet and sex with my husband "scratches that itch". Her husband is not a bad looking man and i would be happy to give him a tumble if he wanted. i asked her how she would feel if i f*cked her husband and she said it might bother her but if it would get him to be more open minded she could gladly look the other way. so stay tuned, i have decided to f*ck her husband and see if i can get him interested in threesomes with me and his wife. and then get him to accept a foursome with my husband having sex with his wife and me giving him the f*ck of his life. if i can get him to accept Jim with his wife, then maybe he can accept her having other men as well. it is worth a try. anybody that has any other ideas pls let me know.

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Postby davian on Thu Aug 28, 2008 3:59 pm

Hi Mary Lee, you replied to my post on this thread a week or two ago. To answer your question, after years of frustration yes I have had experience of sharing during more recent relationships, which I’ve mostly found immensely enjoyable & very much an aphrodisiac. Thanks for asking.

Still I find it very refreshing & reassuring to hear from yourself, Sally, Donna & the other women who have posted to the effect that F****** other guys works in their relationships. Also from the men who have said how much they would enjoy sharing their wife or girlfriend with other men & the women who have posted that they wished their men were like this too. As califtom put it, it makes me feel less like a freak.

Having spoken to a few male friends about it over the years, most seem very much against the idea, whether through jealousy or pride or simply cos it’s too weird for them. I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s a minority of guys who would be comfortable with, let alone turned on by, their wife or girlfriend F****** other men.

Perhaps your friend could do with considering whether her husband appears at all turned on by the fantasy before she goes much further. Does he appreciate her dressing up & getting attention from other guys (meaning strangers) whilst they are out together? How would he react if she indicated in some small way that she was attracted to, say, a ‘hot’ male film star? Or is he the sort of guy likely to become upset even by stuff like this?

For me, the best time to explore new sexual ideas in a loving relationship is when things are going well between you & whilst having sex - one of you mentions a fantasy & it’s usually fairly obvious if the response is yes, no or maybe . . .
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Postby stonecastle on Thu Aug 28, 2008 7:30 pm

By the way I don't think that I could F*** another mans' wife while he was sat near us watching as it would put me off. I would have to F*** her in private and have it filmed then shown to him.

The same with watching. If I was watching a woman I was going out with being bonked I would have to watch it on film or over a remote video link, as it would put me off if I was close to her and the guy while they were doing it. Unless she was doing it with another woman.

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Postby donna31 on Wed Sep 03, 2008 6:49 am

justawifeandmother wrote:My friend, who wants to have an open marriage like i have, just left to go home. her husband has staff duty nco, therefore was not home all night. so after her kids were safely in bed, she came over here to "borrow" my husband for a couple of hours. which was fine with me. she is a woman with needs beyond what her husband can meet and sex with my husband "scratches that itch". Her husband is not a bad looking man and i would be happy to give him a tumble if he wanted. i asked her how she would feel if i f*cked her husband and she said it might bother her but if it would get him to be more open minded she could gladly look the other way. so stay tuned, i have decided to f*ck her husband and see if i can get him interested in threesomes with me and his wife. and then get him to accept a foursome with my husband having sex with his wife and me giving him the f*ck of his life. if i can get him to accept Jim with his wife, then maybe he can accept her having other men as well. it is worth a try. anybody that has any other ideas pls let me know.



Hi Mary!!! what has happened since your last post? it has been almost a week. i don't think that you can get the husband to decide that an open marriage is what he needs by having sex with you. what i think you need to do is explain the open marriage to him and tell him how much it would benefit his wife which in turn will benefit him because she will be far more sexual with him as a result of her new found freedom. have him read my posts. i am having far more sex with my hubby than i ever did before and having a lot of sex with David. i even had sex with a pretty Jamaican girl, it was awesome. Have you had sex with a girl??? you never said that you have. any way, tell him that as a result of having liberated his wife sexually, he would be free to have sex with you. explain how it works for you and your husband. get the husbands together and maybe he will get with the program!!!!
love, Donna

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Postby Andrew MacKay on Wed Sep 03, 2008 7:30 am

donna31 wrote: if i can get him interested in threesomes with me and his wife. . . maybe he can accept her having other men as well. . . anybody that has any other ideas pls let me know.


My first wife was always bugging me about this stuff. She wasn't really sexual, but thought she was. So she was always trying to get where she thought she oughta be. She set up this deal with this guy and his Swiss wife. She was really pretty, with long black hair and a straight nose and pretty lips. So we meet and my wife heads upstairs with the husband, leaving me with the pretty Swiss wife. She smelled really nice. Real pretty tits. But I wasn't getting it up, so we just sat there feeling stupid. Normally I get it up in a blink, but I guess this deal didn't appeal to my dick. The husband came down later on. and me and the Swiss wife were just watching TV. We had tea, and they went home. I left my wife a few months later. Met a Russian woman who was really sexual (without outside help), and we make our own music every night. Three kids so far. Haven't seen my first wife since I left. Can't say I miss her after all that.

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Postby justaifeandmother on Wed Sep 03, 2008 3:26 pm

Hi girls!! just a quick update. We decided the best thing to do was for me to do nothing. we decided my making a move on my friends husband was too drastic and could lead to serious problems. we think it is best that she just tells him what she needs and then wait and see how he responds. she will tell him she knows a married couple they can swap with, but wont reveal who we are until he wants to swap. in the mean time, she can come by and borrow Jim as needed. Jim says she is very nice and a very considerate sexually. He feels her husband is indeed a lucky guy and hopes he will understand her rather than have some preprogrammed knee-jerk reaction. Jim says he doesn't like how so many men are clueless about sex and their wives. he says he can't understand why so many men think that their wives should only be turned on by them and yet they are always looking at other women.

To answer your question, Donna. i still have not had sex with a woman, but the idea in interesting. i saw a young soldier at the px yesterday and decided he looked pretty good.. he was 19 and single and i am 33 with husand and kids,, so we were a perfect match for a quick good F***. i took him for a drive into the german countryside and parked by a river. i took a blanket we use for picnics out of the trunk and we found a isolated field with tall grasses. we went out to the center of the field and spread the blanket out. my young fb went to the edge of the field to see if we could been seen and he couldn't see where i was lying down. when he got back to where we spread the blanket, he found me naked and fingering myself to get me wet and ready. He quickly stripped and lay beside me. i sucked his c*ck for a few minutes and then lay on my back with my knees to my breasts and told his to f*ck me. for a young guy, he was pretty good. He had a nice c*ck and i enjoyed how it felt tremendously. i had been horny all morning, so i came pretty quickly. He seemed pretty proud of himself for that. after he came, i had him stay inside me until he was hard again and we F*cked for another good 30 minutes and i had several more small but good orgasms. after he came a second time, we got dressed and i took him back to the px. i never got his name and never told him mine. i bet he will remember me for a long time though. Sally, you getting any more strange????????

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Postby donna31 on Thu Sep 04, 2008 3:14 am

sex with a young hunk in a field on a sunny day is the stuff a woman dreams about. i have had sex on the beach many times, but never out in a field. well, Melvin is going to be scouting field locations as soon as the weather here permits. in the daytime too!!!!!!! i always had sex on the beach at night; you would get arrested during the day. how many men have you been with since your husband told you to go out and have a good time????? i still have only had the one, but there is a handsome older man who may get with men. he is married and is not in a permissive relationship. i have been talking to him and he doesn't want to meet me at home. He said he is not keen on having my husband being there. i am trying to decide to forgo meeting him or meet him in a motel which is what he wants. have you got together with those two german guys again? we all want to hear about when you do. i agree that it is best to let your friend handle her husband, but are you still letting her "borrow" your husband? go get those two germans....i think i would have held on to that tree all night.
love, Donna

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Postby justawifeandmother on Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:43 am

Hi Donna! just relaxing right now. got the hubby off to work and the kids off to school. you asked me how many men i have had since we started our version of an open marriage. i married Jim when i was 18 and he was 21. i am 33 now (birthday last week) so i have been married for 14 years. we have had an open marriage for 8 years now. during the first year that i was having sex with other men, i really f*cked like crazy. i wanted to get as much in as i could in case Jim changed his attitude and expected me to be monogamous again. i did at least four gang bangs in the first six months. i like to have more than one man once in a while. i think two or three is perfect. i haven't done any gang bangs since then. that first year i did at least 55-60 men. when i realized Jim was not changing his mind i paced myself for a while. had about 2 new men a month. of course i was still f*cking other men that i already had sex with so i had a man other than my husband about 4 times a week. so in the first two years about 90 different men. over the next four years i was really busy with kids and got out less often and may had a new man every other month. that brings the total to about 115 or so. since my kids are older now , i have more opportunities to go out. also about three years ago, we added swapping with other couples so that increased the number of men too. we swap about three times a month for the last two years. often it is with couples we frequently get together with so those are real friendships as well. so i would say i would have averaged about 3 new men a month for two years. i think that puts me at about 160 - 170 men since we started this 8 years ago. one way or another, with my husband, with couples we swap with, or with men i meet alone one on one, sometimes two or three on one, i have sex almost every day. often twice or three times in a day. i can't keep my legs together, i can tell you that. but i have always wanted to be a slut. i am able to have all the men i want and still run my household, take care of my husband and kids, work(when stateside) and participate in military community NCO wife activities. i have time for only one hobby and my hobby, lucky for me, is sex. Don't get with that older man, Donna, he sounds too sneaky for me. if you are found out by his wife, then you will be part of a divorce case or at least embarrassed/harassed by the wife. Leave sleeping dogs be i always say. the reason i have been successful in having no repercussions for my activities is that i am very discreet where i do it and careful with whom i do it. i like young unattached soldiers who don't want or not interested in having a relationship. i like the occasional meetings like the one in the park by the bahnhof, where everybody walks away on different paths and never meet again. i have completely backed out of my friends situation. i must of lost my mind to get involved. she can borrow Jim as much as she wants. it is fine with me. oh, i don't know if you read that old post where i told about being the german youth who lives below us first sexual experience. well, he asked to get together with me again. Udo asked if he could "visit" with me this afternoon. He is 19 now and i broke his cherry when he was just turning 17. i love that expression, it is so Army ..."to break his cherry" that is exactly how Jim asked me when he brought it up. well, i got housework to do and two peach pies to bake. Jim been muttering that he hasn't seen a peach pie since "Christ was a corporal". one thing i have learned since i married Jim, is to take a hint.

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my first threesome

Postby sally wey on Thu Sep 04, 2008 9:22 am



with the exception of Ron, most of the men only lasted awhile, and Ron was about the only other man that I had seperate from John on his own,
Donna and Mary you should write on wifelovers stories, I think you both would get rave reports for writing, love Sally

how we started and how we went about achieving our fantasy,
John and I (Im Sally) have written some of our stories on here, there have been questions about how couples get started in MFMs,FMFs, etc,
John and I like a lot of couples started first by talking about our fantasies in the bedroom during sex,one night and after a night of passion we again talked, the subject came up about John me and another man and about him joining us in a MFM,
the next evening, (the kids were at their grandparents for the weekend) as we were getting ready to go out, we talked again, this time the subject was about who to invite, I asked who should we have, John said that the choice of the man would be up to me as only I knew with whom I fancied having sex with, (our first choice was with Mike with whom I went to school with but only saw him once, he was working away at this time)
I asked about Ron, (he was someone that we both knew slightly) John agreed with my choice,
we now went about setting the ground rules, we both said at this time 1/ NO ORAL 2/ no anus, 3/ no sex with another unless both were present, 4/ if it looked like someone else could find out it would stop for the night, 5/ no close friends, 6/ no relations,
now the question as to how to get to meet up with Ron, we knew where he went out for a drink on a saturday night so we went to that pub, after talking to Ron for a while we mentioned that we were going to our club where there was music and dancing,and would he like to join us,
Ron and I got up dancing and very soon I could feel his manhood pressing against me, nothing was said this saturday, the next week-end we again went to our club together and again we danced,
now this night Ron came home with us for a night-cap, we put some of our music on and Ron and I danced, John went and got the drinks (he took his time) now Rons hands were roaming over my body and his manhood again pressing up against me,
I must say at this moment in time I was very turned on, my arms were up around Ron's neck to give him full access to my body, and he explored as much as he dared at this time, John brought our drinks in and Ron and I settled into the three seater settee, John sat opposite in the chair, (I will cut out some here)
again the next week-end we met up again, and Ron came back to our home, John again went to get the drinks and Ron and I sat on the settee, shortly after that when John was out of the room I said to Ron "John and I are thinking of having a threesome and would he (Ron) like to join us"
you should have seen his face, Ron said "are you kidding I would love the chance, do you mean now" I asked what time his wife exspected him home, Ron's answer was "she never knows when I get home" I told him that I would have to let John know that we are going to do it, I went to John and said "Rons up for a threesome tonight" reply "ok go for it"
I kissed John and then went back to Ron, I smiled at him and sat down on the settee, we immediately started kissing, Ron's fingers were soon undoing the buttons on my blouse, I was now really getting turn-on, this was the first time in over ten years that another man other than John was starting to undress me,
Ron had taken off my blouse and was fiddling with the clip at the back of my skirt, soon my skirt was there on the ground and I was only in my matching light blue bra,panties, and suspender belt and dark stockings,
as John walked into the room, Ron's hand slipped down the front of my panties and his fingers were playing with my clitorus, John placed our drinks on the table and came and sat beside me, I lifted myself up a little and John slid my panties off, as soon as they were off my thighs opened wide to allow Ron more access to my vagina, Ron's fingers were now deep inside me and John's fingers were tickling my clitorus, my breathing was now heaving with desire,
John took his fingers from me and undid my bra releasing my breast to which Ron bent down and took my left nipple in his mouth and nibbled and sucked on it, Ron's hand went to my left thigh and John's to my right where they unclipped my stockings and slid them down and off,then Ron took off my suspender belt and now I was totally naked between two men for the first time in my life,
while Ron continued to kiss and caresse me John stripped off, John took over from what Ron had been doing to me and Ron then stripped off and joined us again,
now I didn't know what to do, I had four hands and two lips kissing and feeling my body, my body would move one way then the other trying to anticipate where they would feel/kiss next,
this went on for what seems ages, I was trying to catch hold of their penis but always forgot when both their fingers were inside me, soon I was saying "for gods sake F*** me, F*** me" I think Ron would have f*cked me there and then but John said "lets go to the bedroom"
John told me to go ahead while he locked up, I took Ron by the hand and led him up the stairs to our bedroom, as I lay on the bed Ron laid down beside me on my left and we were soon back to feeling each other up, this time I had no difficulty in holding Ron's C*** and it felt good and hard,
soon John joined us and now once again I had the double pleasure of hands and lips going all over me,and as they both caressed me once again my body moved and the pleasure began building up and as I had my first orgasm for the night I cried for F*** sake F*** me,(it was agreed that Ron would be the first) my pleasure built up and as it reach its peak I pulled Ron over and into me, my hips started to move immediately to match his thrust, and very soon my legs shot straight up and shook and shook,(John told me later that when my legs were shaking with an orgasm, he shot his cum,it was the first time since his early teens,) I dont know how long it took for me to culm down and at that moment I didn't know if Ron had cum in me or not,
I now knew that John was deep in me and I was F****** him for all I was worth, I quickly had another orgasm followed by another when I felt John cum inside me, John rolled off me,
before I could get my breath back Ron got between my thighs and once again was pounding me, this time as I had yet another orgasm I felt Ron shooting his cum in me,Ron got off of me,
I was just about relaxing when John got on top of me and we began F****** again, this time I didnt know how many times I came, I had now been f*cked four times in quick succession, hands were slowly circling my breasts and stomach bring me back to earth as they say,but
Ron had not had enough and was again sliding his C*** in and out, I was so tired that I could only make slow movements in response, Ron took quite sometime to cum this time, I had a few more orgasms then we fell asleep for a while,
I heard a sound and Ron was going to get dressed and leave, he leaned over me and gave me a long opened mouth kiss, John woke up and let Ron out, I asked John what he must think of me, John's reply was " hey we entered this together" I said about the bloody big orgasm I had and John again said " this is the reason we went for it isn't it?"
The reason I had such a huge powerful orgasm wasn't because Ron was super good, it was the first time I had been undressed, fingered and f*cked by another man and with my husband there made it super, the excitement was beyond believe, Ron called in just after lunch on the sunday to see if there was any regets, Ron and us still have MFMs and our only reget is we should have started earlier than we did, we have had FMFs, and swops,
Im a housewife, we live in DEVON england and we love the countryside, we are into threesomes, and love sex

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