having sex with other men

[justawifeandmother]

my husband has been encouraging me to have sex with other men and it has been an enjoyable experience for me. i am a normal 32 year old wife and mother and i never thought when i first married that i would be doing this. i was surprised to find my self thinking about getting with another man for some no strings attached sex after about 6 years of marriage. it so bothered me that i felt i needed to discuss this with my husband. i told him all about it and said if he wanted i would get therapy. he said why waste all that money on therapy when the best therapy would be some good sex with another man. i couldn't believe he meant it at first, so i called him on it and said if he meant what he said, i could arrange something within a day or two. he said go ahead. and i did. it was very therapeutic. what surprised me the most is how it has made my husband so much more sexual with me. when i have sex with another man it seems like an aphrodisiac for him. does this affect most men this way?? if it does, i recommend it to every woman suffering those sexual doldrums.

[geena32]

my hubby has been getting off watching me f**k other men. we meet them through craigslist or other on-line meeting sites. i thought it was a great idea when my hubby first mentioned it. i have had over twenty different men in the last six months and my hubby wouldn't care if it was every day. i am a regular wife and mom except for the extra sexy fun on the side. i take my boys to ball practice and my daughter to music lessons just like every other mom. i don't wear sexy clothes, just a top and jeans with flats. i notice that my hubby is a sex maniac after i meet some one, especially if he watches. when he starts to wind down, i f**k someone else and he's all rev'ed up again. i love it!!!!!

[Guest]

my hubby has been getting off watching me f**k other men. we meet them through craigslist or other on-line meeting sites. i thought it was a great idea when my hubby first mentioned it. i have had over twenty different men in the last six months and my hubby wouldn't care if it was every day. i am a regular wife and mom except for the extra sexy fun on the side. i take my boys to ball practice and my daughter to music lessons just like every other mom. i don't wear sexy clothes, just a top and jeans with flats. i notice that my hubby is a sex maniac after i meet some one, especially if he watches. when he starts to wind down, i f**k someone else and he's all rev'ed up again. i love it!!!!!

i wish i could do what you are doing but, my husband is always against it. he said i would leave if i did it with other guys and he don't want to loose me. i told him i wouldn't leave cause i wouldn't have it hide it if he let me. i sneak and do it but it isn't the same. you are so lucky.

[tina69]

we were at a party when someone was talking about sex outside the marriage and the husband was cool with it.on the way home me and my husband talked about it and i said it would be something i would not mind doing if he was ok with it.when we got home we had amazing sex as we talked more about it. about 2 weeks later i had to meet him at dinner dance party. he was late and i had a few dances with this one gent it was just what i needed.i told him he was making me hot and maybe we should do something about it.he had a room at the hotel so we went there and i had sex with him in so many ways. i must have come a dozen times and he was young so he lasted a very long time,each time.after i ran back down to my table and my husband was waiting for me.he knew as soon as he saw me what i was doing.he was so hard just waiting for me to tell him the details that he came in his pants.now we been doing it for several years. it still brings great excitement to the both of us.

[Guest]

I think these situations can catch you unawares.

I would never have countenanced this ever happening in my marriage but once when in Spain on holiday with my wife and her workmate who was married to my friend, we had a great day by the pool and with a bit to drink, I said I was going upstairs to shower and change, which I did, but as I was drying off in the room, my friends wife came in and seemingly oblivious to the fact that I was naked, she sat down to chat to me!

She admired my C*** and held it as it grew hard, then started sucking on it slowly and gently, I freaked out and worried we would get caught and pushed her away, whereupon she pulled her dress over her head and took her panties off. I couldn't help myself as I just f*cked her and as quickly as I could too, but too late as my wife and friend appeared in the room. What followed was an impromptu swap session and to be honest, I still, many years later, get so hard thinking about how I watched my wife being stripped naked and f*cked by my friend.

It was never discussed again and as far as I'm concerned it never continued after we came home, but we're still good friends although we've never been on holiday again together. It just happened and it was great at the time. No regrets...

[Guest]

wow i wish my partner was okay with this. i'd love to F*** so many other men!!! he isn't okay with it though. in fact it makes him insecure and jealous. i don't know why he bothers fighting it. someday i'll wear down his resistance and have the orgy i've been waiting for.

[sylvangirl]

i know there are far more sexually adventurous women than the moralizers would like to admit exists. i have always been a woman who loved a variety of men. i have to admit, my panties, if i am wearing any, come off pretty easy. i was forking hay to the horses in the barn one a rainy day, when a contractor, my husband hired, came in to get out of the rain. he was sooooo hot hot hot. i did say a word to him. just walked over and began to unbuckle his pants. we were naked and f**king in the hay loft when my husband came in. since i was on top, i saw him. when he looked up at us, because of the noise we were making, i gave him a friendly wave. he just smiled and shook his head and left laughing to him self. later after supper, i told my husband all the details and had a great session with him. Nothing gets him harder or hotter than me telling him about other men f**king me.

[wishful]

my husband is a deacon in the largest church in our small southern American town and he will not even talk of anything that could be thought different (improper!) let alone do anything that may be thought different. i so desperately want a real sex life and i want my husband to want me to be happy in a sexual way. he throws out clothing i buy that he does not approve of and even threw away open toed shoes saying they are harlot shoes. if only he knew that i would rather be a harlot than what i am now. i am going to Birmingham this next week for a meeting of Sunday school administrators to learn new teaching methods. i am determined to meet a man and have sex. what i really mean is, i want to get the f**king of my life. i have gone as far as heavy petting before with a visitor to our community. my husband was attending night services and i left him in the church (it was too hot and i felt faint!!) and i met the gentleman in the park. we soon were on a country road in his car. i felt so deliciously common with his hands under my bra. i am so lonely. i envy you hun.

[7year itch]

Here in my part of SW USA there is a term many use
known of as 'the 7 year itch' which refers to
married(or steady anyway) couples getting a
yearning for extra relationship sex,
-at around 7 years together.

It seems more than some type of urban legend for
*certain, since adverts are seen from both genders
where they say things like

''looking to scratch itch with NSA,
(maybe regularly with the right person.
Discretion assured.''

It seems both a wrong, and an exciting thing
to many people. Must say some friends have
children looking more like other friends bf or hubby
is the bio dad, which leads me to wonder:

Are people doing it not using protection?
* That seems far to risky to me with all the
disease around these days!

[sally wey]

my husband has been encouraging me to have sex with other men and it has been an enjoyable experience for me. i am a normal 32 year old wife and mother and i never thought when i first married that i would be doing this. i was surprised to find my self thinking about getting with another man for some no strings attached sex after about 6 years of marriage. it so bothered me that i felt i needed to discuss this with my husband. i told him all about it and said if he wanted i would get therapy. he said why waste all that money on therapy when the best therapy would be some good sex with another man. i couldn't believe he meant it at first, so i called him on it and said if he meant what he said, i could arrange something within a day or two. he said go ahead. and i did. it was very therapeutic. what surprised me the most is how it has made my husband so much more sexual with me. when i have sex with another man it seems like an aphrodisiac for him. does this affect most men this way?? if it does, i recommend it to every woman suffering those sexual doldrums.

Hi Im Sally, my husband John and I have been having extra sexual pursuits for quite a few years now,
I dont go out on my own but John's always with me, I prefer MFMs though we have swopped and had FMFs,
on our first MFM, I had the biggest orgasm of my life and John ejaculated watching me, we had sex afterwards and it was terrific, John seemed to keep an erection on all week,
yes it seems like an aphrodisiac for John, love Sally

[meagan]

having a open or swingers marriage for us has been the best thing ever.my husband loves to watch or just listen.and i love sex of all kinds.he is the one who wanted it in the beginning and i still am not sure what he comes away with.but me i have such a great time getting f*** with all these guys.seems as if i come out the winner all the time.

[danw]

your other post has you having sex with a teenager. get your stories straight.

[justawifeandmother]

your other post has you having sex with a teenager. get your stories straight.

what conflict? different posts, different subjects. this thread is about how we started the lifestyle and the aphrodisiac effect it has on my husband. the other thread was about a recent incident (initiating UDO into sex) while we are stationed in Germany. i will be soon posting another thread about a weekend long threesome with my hubby and a long time friend of his. don't you understand how a forum works...nobody's sex life is about one thing and the threads should be. so a different thread for a different subject.

[dawes]

your other post has you having sex with a teenager. get your stories straight.

are you obsessive compulsive? because you are so worried that she has different experiences detailed in different threads, it makes me believe that you are. i thought the thread about sex with the teenager was hot and she couldn't have been much older than him. if it bothers you that different threads have different things than read only one thread and read it over and over and over. the initial post will always be the same. will that make u happy?????

[Hotel_Whiskey]

Here in my part of SW USA there is a term many use
known of as 'the 7 year itch' which refers to
married(or steady anyway) couples getting a
yearning for extra relationship sex,
-at around 7 years together.

It seems more than some type of urban legend for
*certain, since adverts are seen from both genders
where they say things like

''looking to scratch itch with NSA,
(maybe regularly with the right person.
Discretion assured.''

It seems both a wrong, and an exciting thing
to many people. Must say some friends have
children looking more like other friends bf or hubby
is the bio dad, which leads me to wonder:

Are people doing it not using protection?
* That seems far to risky to me with all the
disease around these days!

Lol, seven years?! I lasted about a month with my last guy before doing this!!!
x x x