Help, my boyfriend is turning himself into a sissy

[jlynn]

I think your initial encouragement openned Pandora's box so to speak. Your boyfriend discovered his feminine side!!! He found that feminine things are actually pretty nice, pedicured feet, a waxed body, nice lingerie.... All this is certainly nicer than the male equivalent, coarse feet, hairy body, and ugly boxers!!!

I know because the same thing happened to me. My wife introduced me to femininity, and I really like it. Now she is not very confortable with it, but I feel better wearing panties, having my french pedicure, and the way my body feels when waxed. I'm trying to take better care of my skin now, and use moisturizers, etc.

I haven't gone as far as your boyfriend and probably never will. I haven't shaped my eyebrows or got tanned with a bikini on, or applied makeup. I only do feminine things that are between my wife and me.

Oh, I do prefer sleeping in a nightie!! You should buy some for your boy friend!!!! He will love you for it.

Also, please nurture your boyfriends feminine side. In the long run you will be glad you did. I say this because it is obvious that as your boyfreind experiments with his femininity, he is becoming more and more submissive to you!!! He probably had a submissive personality all along and this is bringing it to the surface.

I believe female led relationships are in the long run more stable and nurturing. Good luck!!

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[jlynn]

Further to my post earlier today, please check out the web site: www.aroundherfinger.com. I thing you'll agree, your boy friend has submissive tendencies. If you follow the advice on this site, I believe that not only will your girl friends be amazed, they'll be envious.

[gbjessflrt]

Thank you all, especially jlynn for those interesting links. He is very much wrapped around my finger nowadays and I think those links articulate his long-term wishes very well. I will present them to him/her. I've taken to calling him a "her" lately because there is very little that's masculine left. She likes that very much. I also started requiring her to wear girlie clothes only (nothing too bad, just replacing boxers with panties, wardrobe with girlie shorts and Ts and so forth). I found some resources for learning more about a guy's sissy side and am starting to incorporate them into our play. Friends have noticed and even asked me about her shaving her legs and waxing her eyebrows but the conversation was much better received by friends than I originally thought it would be. We are having a lot of fun! I'll post a real report a little later but wanted to say thank you to all who have given their feedback, it's been very helpful to me.

[Silver]

If you need any advice, then please ask. I have been open to my feminine side for a long time now, at first I fought it hard but then discovered, there was no point, it was too strong.

I can also be quite submissive, so if I can help you on that score as well, let me know

[Double D]

Keep going with your boyfriend! You can mold him into anything you want, and as long as he/she is willing, and you're up to it, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!

If you're willing to tread into deeper water, check out this website www.natural-or-not.com and let your imagination run wild!

[girly guy]

well you don't like him becuz he is a sissy well if it helps i like to dress up as a women everyday in public

[pink nails]

here's the thing i also have a sissy boyfriend. and the other night when he was sleeping i striped him to his panties and then i put some shiny pink lip stick on him, some blue eye shadow on his eyes and then i painted his nails bright pink and his toenails hot red then i went and grabbed to apples and a bra and put it on him. then i put a short skirt on him and a nice cute little tank top on him. then when he woke up he was so shocked to see himself dressed up like a girl then i told him you have to go to work in this outfit and you have to go to school in this outfit

[Guest]

Hmmm....

[Guest]

here's the thing i also have a sissy boyfriend. and the other night when he was sleeping i striped him to his <A HREF="http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/" target="_blank">panties</A> and then i put some shiny pink lip stick on him, some blue eye shadow on his eyes and then i painted his nails bright pink and his toenails hot red then i went and grabbed to apples and a bra and put it on him. then i put a short skirt on him and a nice cute little tank top on him. then when he woke up he was so shocked to see himself dressed up like a girl then i told him you have to go to work in this outfit and you have to go to school in this outfit

It's a shame you're not my girlfriend... ;p

[pink nails]

hmmm . .. .. well if i was ur girlfriend you would no longer be considered a man

[pink nails]

besides i would never go out with you

[stan]

Thank you all, especially jlynn for those interesting links. He is very much wrapped around my finger nowadays and I think those links articulate his long-term wishes very well. I will present them to him/her. I've taken to calling him a "her" lately because there is very little that's masculine left. She likes that very much. I also started requiring her to wear girlie clothes only (nothing too bad, just replacing boxers with <A HREF="http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/" target="_blank">panties</A>, wardrobe with girlie shorts and Ts and so forth). I found some resources for learning more about a guy's sissy side and am starting to incorporate them into our play. Friends have noticed and even asked me about her shaving her legs and waxing her eyebrows but the conversation was much better received by friends than I originally thought it would be. We are having a lot of fun! I'll post a real report a little later but wanted to say thank you to all who have given their feedback, it's been very helpful to me.

Here are few suggestions:

Insist that he keeps his body hairless - nothing harmful and can be much fun;

Get him a chastity device for Xmas - I would recommend a CB2000 or "Curve" (try having a look at altairboy.com website - this would put you totally in control and he/she will love it. Have fun with it - make him wear it work. Wear the key on a chain round your neck where everyone can see it.

Throw away alll his male undies/sleepwear and insist he wear panties and nighties from now on.

His/her toe nails should remain painted at all times.

Do not do anything you are uncomfortable with, but be prepared to push his/her limits eg going out en femme and HAVE FUN.

Remember, he will be all the more happy if you are calling the shots. You should TELL HIM what to do and what to wear. He will love that. If you doubt me just TRY IT.

Don't worry too much about what your girlfriends think - I bet their men would love to be dominated too. Show him off to your circle of friends and dont spare his blushes!! He will love you al the more for it.

[Guest]

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I don't know what to do. I encouraged it at first because it turned me on a little and I thought it was harmless. But now he's taking big steps that are obvious and making me a uncomfortable. Some time ago at his request, I got him a full body wax and he has kept bare ever since, even during summer wearing shorts around our friends. I was prepared to cover for him if asked though no one did. Next, he bought a drawer full of panties and through away his boxers. Now he is on to wearing women's shorts and jeans in public (earthtones at least but they look obvious to me). Last week took the cake, he was late coming home so I went out without him. He joined me and friends at a bar later. I noticed something was odd but couldn't place what until one of my friends whispered to me when he went to the bathroom, "did he just get his eyebrows waxed, my god they are thinner than mine." My heart sank, that was it. I got a good look when he returned and he got my glares back, they were more shapely than any woman's at the table. That wasn't all either, when we got back home, he waited buck naked for me in the bedroom, he had gone to the tanning bed wearing my two piece bikini! I didn't know whether to strangle him or just laugh hysterically and leave. So, I told him how unhappy I was about all his treatments today and told him not to do it again. I care for him a great deal and he is warm and loving. I just don't know what to do about his behavior especially when he is doing things intentionally to be noticed by others that I don't want to have to answer to. Has anyone had to deal with this? Help, I need advice on how to proceed.

too late, he has already become a sissy

[Guest]

What's with all the sissies?