help me please....unsure

[potatohead]

My last period was on December 10 2005, and lasted only 4 days.
now i am over due, i am on the mini pill, which is taken late somedays.

I have been having pains like that of a period, but only very very light and just spots of brown blood.
Nipples have also been sore, but this happens with my period also.

I know you will say to take a test, but i am too nervous to take one.
My partner and I are both students, and I am a daycare teacher and I dont think i could terminate if i am pregnant.

I hope period is just late.

[teog]

take a test theres no point in posting how would we know?

[potatohead]

You may know sympotoms, or have been in a similar situation....
or have some helpful encouragement, suggestions etc.

my last cycle was 8 weeks late i must add, this is now over 9 weeks.

[guest20NDM]

Sounds like you are pregnant to me,if I were you I would take the test now. It is not the end of the world, my husband and I are college students and have a now 2 month old. Things where at first a bit scary, but everthing will be fine. I am here if you want to talk more. I am 20 by the way not sure how old you are. But beind young and a mom is hard at first but a lot of things come so natural. Good luck and let me know if you are. If you need any support I am here.

NDM

[@ngel]

Everyone is scared at first, and it takes time for all of us to adjust. I'm not young, 30, and just found out I'm pregnant with our 4th. It was a shock, and it will take some changes, but it will all be okay in the end.

I'm guessing you have taken a test now that it has been another week. how did it come out? also you know that you can make it late by being nervous about pregnancy.

[potatohead]

period started last week, 1 week ago today, sympotoms and signs were backwards to normal.

was worried about sore breasts and all, but the bleeding started, and was light at the start, and then really heavy near the end, and i was quite unwell with it also, could have been an early miscarriage but i am not so sure. (there was unusual bleeding to the normal).

So all sorted, hopefully the next period wont bother me so much.
I am finding each cycle is coming later and later, so its getting very hard to tell, and it does worry me greatly.

Im not worried about having a baby, my partner however does not think he would be able to cope...
so all's good for now, thanks for the help.

[potatohead]

Congrats on the findings of child # 4

Im the 4th and its not too bad being one of 4!

Live it up, and enjoy, i believe these things are meant to be.
A child comes into a persons life for a reason, how you deal with it, is not part of the plan, but its every intension that you welcome the child in as you know is right.