by Pyretta on Thu Apr 05, 2007 10:24 am
hi there - i dont mean to get involved in this situation, but i dont see how publically bashing each other is going to help this young lady out, The fact is she is 14 and pregnant, she needs to take the responsiblity of her actions, but the schools and parents are also to blame, We all do stupid things in our lives which we regret, but the past shapes who we are today.
I dont condone having a baby at 14 - im 28 and im not ready to have children, but i also know how heart breaking it is to get rid of a baby, unfortunately i was raped when i was 18 by an ex boyfriend and i ended up pregnant, i carry alot of guilt about having an abortion but i couldnt cope with having him being part of my life after the beatings and abuse i suffered.
i really hope it works out for u hun and im sure that your parents will be supportive in which ever decision you make.
Love and light xx