Help - am I?

[julesb30]

I am engaged, but since saying yes to one question, a new person has come into my life and I find it upside down. I am physically attracted to this woman and have started an affair - this is the first time I have had these feelings. We are able to talk very openingly and honestly about feelings, yet still I am unsure. People expect marriage, kids and 'normal' life from me. I am struggling. I know how I feel about this person, but its how I felt about my fiancee in the beginning.

Help

[Guest]

I know it may sound lame, but follow your heart and not what people expect of you. YOu will forever regret it if you don't.

[DevilSyndrom]

i think you owe it to yourself to explore and you owe it to your man to break it off with him.....

don't do whats expected... do what feels right.