How can guys ever compete with lesbian sex?

[lonelybrave]

Often ''lesbian'' videos are made with heterosexual females who just do it for the money and who fake their lust.If they were aroused and had dicks,they wouldn't last as long ........ because you'd see them losing an erection.With vaginas it is easy to fake.I'd like to see these videos you talk about.I'm betting a large percent is fake lust.Ever heard of women faking orgasms (and men believing it) ?

Check it out and let us know what you think - at Sapphic Erotica. I think I've seen enuf fake porno sex to know the difference, but who knows I could be wrong. It's so subtle and the build up is convincing and there's no screaming or other obvious nonsense. But I would value your opinion.

lonelybrave

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[Lola]

It already looks totally pseudo,lol.

[lonelybrave]

It already looks totally pseudo,lol.

I don't know whether you saw the actual videos or just the adv, but let's forget about those videos, or any videos.

My real question is: In real life sex between girls, or even with a girl using a vibrator, isn't it true that the pleasure the girl experiences is either longer-lasting -or- more intense than what she gets with a man?

When I read about the girls here on the forum who have done it or do it with other girls or a vibrator, they talk about how long-lasting it is or how exquisite.

Or, is there some way a guy like me can give that length of pleasure time or that intensity of pleasure to the girl? Hard cocks can be sustained for a reasonable time by the man, but they just don't last that long!

What do you ladies recommend for a man to duplicate girl-girl or vibrator sex?

Thanks.

[Guest]

It already looks totally pseudo,lol.

I don't know whether you saw the actual videos or just the adv, but let's forget about those videos, or any videos.

My real question is: In real life sex between girls, or even with a girl using a vibrator, isn't it true that the pleasure the girl experiences is either longer-lasting -or- more intense than what she gets with a man?

When I read about the girls here on the forum who have done it or do it with other girls or a vibrator, they talk about how long-lasting it is or how exquisite.

Or, is there some way a guy like me can give that length of pleasure time or that intensity of pleasure to the girl? Hard cocks can be sustained for a reasonable time by the man, but they just don't last that long!

What do you ladies recommend for a man to duplicate girl-girl or vibrator sex?

Thanks.

Isn't it true ?
There ARE no formulas.I don't get these questions that are so generalised.Longer lasting is often a matter of how people click,be it man/woman or woman/woman.
Where do you get these generalisations from ? Do you believe everything you see in porn ? A lot of it is make-believe.

What do women have that men don't have when it comes to ''lasting long'' ?
They both have tongues and fingers(and dildos

[bugrit]

What do women have that men don't have when it comes to ''lasting long'' ?

It's not what they have, it's more what don't have... they seem to be lacking a shurrup-I'm-fucked switch!

[anon]

Lonelybrave, i read your repsonse and to be honest i really had'nt thought of the male point of view and you explained it well. Women do take so much longer to orgasm than men..so fair point! Me being a horny bitch..i orgasm fairly quickly

[lonelybrave]

Lonelybrave, i read your repsonse and to be honest i really had'nt thought of the male point of view and you explained it well. Women do take so much longer to orgasm than men..so fair point! Me being a horny bitch..i orgasm fairly quickly

Thank you so very much for understanding what I was getting at, and the purpose of my question.

I only gave the videos as an example to illustrate my point, yet most people went after that part as if it was the heart of my question, leaving my central point unanswered.

I am really not stupid. I have seen my fair share of porno videos like any other man, and even though the ones I referred to are hotter and appear more real to me than any others I have ever seen, I am asking a real-life question, the answer to which may either improve or worsen my relationship with my present girlfriend or for that matter any other woman in my future. I wasn't asking about videos. I was asking and wondering about how a man could hope to give a woman as much pleasure as she can get from a vibrator or another woman. You don't have to watch real or faked videos to know the difference in intensity or length of prolonged pleasure a woman can get that way, versus the need for a hard C*** to explode sooner or later.

Thanks for at least understanding and acknowledging my question and, when you have a chance, maybe you and others can add more to your reply and suggestions.

[alone]

well im sorry if ive got this all wrong, as im a virgin so i dout really i should be commenting on this, well i could never go down on a girl as it makes me feel sick at the thought of it,

and plus i thought with men you are meant to feel safe as he holds you in his arms after,

ok thats probably me being stupid so im sorry

[HtY]

plus i thought with men you are meant to feel safe as he holds you in his arms after,

No it's wonderful and refreshing and yes you sound niaive but you are absolutely right you are meant to feel safe and you man is supposed to protect you. Sadly it doesn't always work out that way but when it does it's the best!

[Pusscat]

A quick orgasm and making love are totally different things to me. If I'm feeling horny and just want a quick release, then two minutes with my own right hand is all I need. But if I want some love and companionship then only a nice warm man will do, and it doesn't matter if he takes a while to find the places I like touched, in fact it often doesn't matter whether I come or not.

Plenty of women fantasise about having sex with other women but not many carry it through. You really shouldn't feel threatened by fantasies, and you're not in competition with a lot of play-acting women on a video. Sex should be a sharing thing, and your girlfirend has chosen to share it with you. Enjoy your relationship instead of worrying about your performance.

[lonelybrave]

Plenty of women fantasise about having sex with other women but not many carry it through. You really shouldn't feel threatened by fantasies, and you're not in competition with a lot of play-acting women on a video. Sex should be a sharing thing, and your girlfirend has chosen to share it with you. Enjoy your relationship instead of worrying about your performance.

Very well put.

Thank you, Pusscat!

[lonelybrave]

A lot has happened since I first posted my question.

Actually, it happened before then, but I just found out about it.

[Guest]

whats happened?

[bugrit]

A lot has happened since I first posted my question.

Actually, it happened before then, but I just found out about it.

whats happened?

Heh-heh! Sounds intriging... anyone want to make any guesses at the answer before lonelybrave gets back?

[riley]

im a straight women. i love men. but i've always had thoughts about lesbian experiences. i get soo turned on when i watch two women goin at it. i don't know why. i just love it. when i read the initial posting/question i was so aroused. the thought of 3-4 women pleassuring me at the same time is mind blowing. I wouldn't know what to do. i would definitley try it. but i believe that a man gives a differen't type of arousal or stimualtion to a women. yes, i might get turned on by another women but i would always go back to my men. even if they take years to figure out how i like it or we have to stop and clean up his mess before im even half way done theres nothing better then a stiff dick...