How can lesbian parents make good parents?

[Guest]

get up on the wrong side of the bed today?

[nikko2]

How can lesbian parents make good parents?

I dont believe any kid should be brought up by gay couples. The kids will get like brainwashed in those situations and it will effect their ways of making choices in life.
Childeren should be brought up in normal man/wife realations with all the good and bad things.

Cant see any good in 2 man hating lesbains could bring up a kid without influencing that negativity.

[noodles]

How can lesbian parents make good parents?

I dont believe any kid should be brought up by gay couples. The kids will get like brainwashed in those situations and it will effect their ways of making choices in life.
Childeren should be brought up in normal man/wife realations with all the good and bad things.

Cant see any good in 2 man hating lesbains could bring up a kid without influencing that negativity.

Oh ignorance is bliss

[nikko2]

How can lesbian parents make good parents?

I dont believe any kid should be brought up by gay couples. The kids will get like brainwashed in those situations and it will effect their ways of making choices in life.
Childeren should be brought up in normal man/wife realations with all the good and bad things.

Cant see any good in 2 man hating lesbains could bring up a kid without influencing that negativity.

Oh ignorance is bliss

I compleetly agree

[Guest]

do you think salman rushdie cares?

[Guest]

How can lesbian parents make good parents?

I dont believe any kid should be brought up by gay couples. The kids will get like brainwashed in those situations and it will effect their ways of making choices in life.
Childeren should be brought up in normal man/wife realations with all the good and bad things.

Cant see any good in 2 man hating lesbains could bring up a kid without influencing that negativity.

Oh ignorance is bliss

I compleetly agree

So we both agree then that your ignorance is bliss - excellent.

[noodles]

Above is me and I have to say Nikko, either you know one very twisted lesbian or have no concept of anything outside your small world

brainwashed?
effect ways of making choices?
influencing?
man hating?

Really Nikko - what DO you mean. You so far off the mark its actually quite funny.

Just a couple of examples for you - 2 lesbian couples, one daughter 19 the other 19 almost 20. One training to be a nurse, straight and been with boyfriend for almost 2 years. The other girl is also at University training to be a Human Rights Lawyer (has the second highest marks in her year so far). Just split up from boyfriend of over a year to concentrate on studies. Their choices seem fine to me. They are not brainwashed and definitely dont hate men. They both give a S*** about the world and the people in it. I know one of them very well and can honestly say she's a gem of a person.

If children are brought up well and loved and cared for, at most they will be fine individuals - whoever thier parents are. Having witnessed this first hand (with gay and straight parents) your ignorance, tho understandable feels way off the 'true' picture.

[nikko2]

Noodles,

first I want to say that inglisch is not my first language and I use maybe words that are not correct to what I wanted to say.

And yes I know some very twisted lesbians and I heard them say to the daughter ( 7-8 years she had then )of a friend of me that you cant trust man and remarks like ''see, man are not nice'' stuff like that when we came in his room on visit. We all lived in a occupied hotel those days.
The story what he does in that place with his kids is a very hard, sad story and bit to personal to post public. (Would do it tru pm if I ever receive the activation code for my account, some email problem we have a lot in this house )
And always had the feeling when I did meet lesbains that if a look could kill I was 3 feet under already. I am a nice,honest hard working guy, I am hard headed ( I know that ) and always say what I think, if you like it or not against any one. Maybe that is a reason

What I mean with ''effect ways of making choices?'' is because of those remarks I heard, she is growing up and she hears stuff like that she will get a reformed way of the world and so it efects her choices and I dont mean on her sexual preference but just in general.

The examples you gave of the 2 lesbian couples is what you know and what your experiences are but the experiences I had with lesbians are far from good. My experiences with bi.sexual friends I have are good( friend. no relation). Nice open minded and telling you about problems she has with girlfriend, work stuff like that but as soon a lesbian comes in the room the atmosphere changed directly. I dont know how to put it in words realy, its all small details that I sense and hear.
Then from my experiences the question raised here over gay couples raising kids is not good, but hee that is my opinion.

If children are brought up well and loved and cared for, at most they will be fine individuals - whoever thier parents are. Having witnessed this first hand (with gay and straight parents) your ignorance, tho understandable feels way off the 'true' picture.

Ignorance I would not say, my opinion is based on my exeriences if that view is diferent then yours we discuss why we think like that.
And about ''children are brought up well and loved and cared for'' is for me a must, I absolutly love kids and if see some one does harm to a kid I go over the red.

[Guest]

What are you afraid of?


They may be wonderful parents to this child.

His birth parents were pretty crap.

Are you confusing homosexuality for ***p***?

[Guest]

I dont remember addressing you, you thick tw@t.

[Guest]

Ok.. I'll let you win your arguement against the ignorant of the facts.

I'll let you remain in your own world pet.

So Marlena, every homosexual is a potential pedophile? Does that mean every heterosexual man is a potential child molester (you said they were seperate).

Would you be just as concerned if he was placed with a heterosexual couple?

You have a problem of putting the horse before the cart.

No wonder you and drinker get along so well.

[Gladys]

What about the rights of the child? The child of any gay couple is going to have to face derision and mockery by other children at school.

[dd gomez]

Gays and lesbians don't count the mockery and derision. They pretend it doesn't exist and won't happen.

[jinjin]

Hmm... Trying to justify more intolerance with pre-existing intolerance.

[dd gomez]

It's a matter of facing the facts of real life today and not sacrificing the rights of the child by not making the child a political pawn.