How many men turn down there partner when they want

[Guest]

I'm always up for sex with my wife,but only get it twice a week,mostly these are quickies,i try it on two or three other times but get nowhere.

So i'm thinking next time she comes on to me,i'll turn her down,even though i'll be gagging for it.

How do your partners take it when you turn them down?

Joe

[jodi]

Watch it Joe, it will turn in to a bad game in the long run....She said NO he said NO and nobody has fun!!

[buddy]

My hubby has only turned it down once in 16 yrs
Didn't think he knew how to say no.lol He only turned it down cause he was really unwell.
Never said no since

[boredddd]

I've haven't really been "turned down" by my dh, but I've been put on hold...

I was all over him and he's like "you really want it don't you?" well duh
then he says "later"!!!

Well he got drunk and later never came...makes me not want to be the aggressor. He wants me to start it then when I do he says "later"
f**k that bs.

[libby]

My hubby has only turned it down once in 16 yrs
Didn't think he knew how to say no.lol He only turned it down cause he was really unwell.
Never said no since

who can say no to a hussy

good on you 16 years a good percentage of couples these days seem to give up after a few years
we are now up to 23 years an still there

[buddy]

My hubby has only turned it down once in 16 yrs
Didn't think he knew how to say no.lol He only turned it down cause he was really unwell.
Never said no since

who can say no to a hussy

good on you 16 years a good percentage of couples these days seem to give up after a few years
we are now up to 23 years an still there

23 years Libby? good for you
I got a way to go yet then.lol. See, you been a hussy longer than me.

[Guest]

I've said no. I've been married for 20 years and my wife is in the mood about once every two weeks. Sometimes this has gotten me so angry that I simply refuse as well. Of course this is a vicious cycle. Nevertheless I found her reaction to the first time that I turned her down (about 5 years ago) very enlightening. She stormed out of the bedroom and in the morning asked me if I wanted to separate. I said no, and pointed out that she has denied me sexual pleasure hundreds (if not thousands) of times without me acting like it is the end of the world. Do all women feel so self-entitled?

[shelly]

i'm up for it any day!!!

[Guest]

Ive been married 7 years, togher for 10, my wife is an amazing woman and I could not imagine life without her, we met in Holywood and lived n LA for 2 years, travelled around the world with her, now sttled in UK.

We still have good sessions, althogh careful as no cotraception & 3 kids, and don't want any more. I only had to look at her and she was pregnant. Slowed alittle lately as I ve been to see the doc,(July) waiting for all clear, then she's ad it!!!
Cheers

[Guest]

I turned down my girlfriend once when I was tired (couldn't sleep because or the previous nights beating) and she beat me so badly it will never happen again.

[Guest]

I dont look at it as being turned down. I look at it the way it is - my gf just doesnt want to right now. If she did that once a week or once a day i wouldnt care. Im her partner not someone she has to do anything for or anything with just cause id like to.

[mchosay]

I dont look at it as being turned down. I look at it the way it is - my gf just doesnt want to right now. If she did that once a week or once a day i wouldnt care. Im her partner not someone she has to do anything for or anything with just cause id like to.

I suppose i feel the same way although i can't help feelin that small bit of rejection, more often than not she is up for it and i can usualy get her in the right mood if not
but i don't often turn her down if she wants it then she will get it but i am the one who innitiates sex most times.

[realist]

Well, I have turned the tables on my wife of 28 years. She gave me every excuse in the book so many times I got sick of it. Especially after finding out recently that she was cheating on me. Now I'm the one who says no all the time. I've given up on a decent sex life with her. She is very dependent on me for just about everything so she isn't going to leave me. She is worried that I am going to leave her. Now she is desperate to regain my trust but she won't get it. Even when we do have sex it isn't very good for her. I make her work for it and if I can I try like hell to lose the erection. I can't resist the bj but when I get in her I think of her cheating on me and it works.

I hate her for what she did.

[joffa from down under]

Well, I have turned the tables on my wife of 28 years. She gave me every excuse in the book so many times I got sick of it. Especially after finding out recently that she was cheating on me. Now I'm the one who says no all the time. I've given up on a decent sex life with her. She is very dependent on me for just about everything so she isn't going to leave me. She is worried that I am going to leave her. Now she is desperate to regain my trust but she won't get it. Even when we do have sex it isn't very good for her. I make her work for it and if I can I try like hell to lose the erection. I can't resist the bj but when I get in her I think of her cheating on me and it works.

I hate her for what she did.

Man O Man I hope for theirsakes you don't have any children. What a sad bitter hateful existence you live in.

Do yourself a favor and get over it and start to enjoy the reason why you spent 28 years with this woman in the first place.

[Guest]

Are we talking about men here?

What planet is this? I never heard of a man turning a woman down for sex!

Mind you, I live "downunder", where men eat steel for breakfast, titanium for lunch and engine blocks for dinner!

I have never turned my wifer down for sex ever! Okay I have passed out from being drunk, but willfully turning a horny woman down?

One would have to be f'kin insane!!