husband wants to watch me have sex with another man

[Mac]

my husband is very sexual...more so then I...and wants to watch me have sex with another man....he knows that I had sex with my boss and it is okay with him...but this is a little different and I'm unsure about it

I would normally have defended you and criticised your husband for wanting to watch you having sex with another man. However, since you are already having sex with your boss, you are very lucky that your husband is so accepting. Guess that means that you will have to let him watch if you want him to continue being accepting of your promiscous behavior. Why don't you also let him have a threesome with you and another woman?

[AndyB168]

In my dreams and fantasies - maybe.

In real life, I can't imagine our life would ever be the same again. I would feel very uncomfortable about it.

No - I definitely would not want to watch my wife having sex with another man, and can't imagine her ever wanting to watch me have sex with another women.

[CC_Baby]

In my dreams and fantasies - maybe.

In real life, I can't imagine our life would ever be the same again. I would feel very uncomfortable about it.
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I agree, Both my husband and I have fantasies involving other people, we often share our naughty fantasies when we are messing around. It's a big turn on to talk about it, but in real life I couldn't do it. In my fantasies it's all about sex, it's all about the different acts, but in real life I would worry about the emotions that may be attached to being so intimate with another person, or people. It's like in my fantasies the people aren't real, if that makes any sense. I am so crazy in love with my husband, he is the only person I want to be with in real life.

[ultimax]

wow.. u must be greatful to have the pleasure of sleeping with someone else.. though i musk ask, eventhough ur hubby has asked u to sleep woth other guy, what will happen if u give birth to that guy's baby? i mean, doesnt ur husband care if he loves u?

[Avocat]

Guest,

I read your missive with interest.

In my case, swinging intensified my sexual feelings and sense of intimacy. I view swinging as a intimate extension of your sexuality with your partner. The other physical partners are there for your pleasure as a couple. After a swinging experience, both of you can relive the experiences you had with others. It is very intense. I find it extremely intimate for my woman to perform for me with another man. And I love her to watch me with another woman. It is special experience, not shared with any other. Treat it as an intimacy building experience and that is what it will be.

[MaxtheGaul]

So Claudine, did you go ahead with it?

[bowlan]

I love watching my gal with another man. I enjoy her groans and watch the grip of your pussy on his C***. Sex is beautiful to watch.

I also love participating with the other man.

I often chuckle at men wanting more than one woman. Women have so much more sexual capacity than men.

you enjoy seeing your women dogged by someone else,
let me volunteer.i'll give her 10 inches non stop for 8 hours.i bet when i am done you will think twice about doing that again.dont worry old scratch will hold a place open for all you loving sharring people down here in h...

[murray]

I do not share your husband's kinks, but every pot has a lid and you're all consenting adults, so I do not judge his wish to see you having sex with another man or his acceptance of your affair with your boss.

But I do have one observation, to wit: those who argue that there is no humiliation to your husband inherent in such activities necessarily ignore that an entire fetish category, voluntary male cuckolds, stems from an admitted craving for precisely that -- humiliation -- as part of the arousal.

If a substantial number of people who do activity X say they do it specifically because they get turned on by humiliation, their desire to do activity X repeatedly would suggest that activity X provides humiliation. Again, I am not judging, just making an observation.

[Donny]

Tis a crazy world indeed. Of the folks I know of who have had sex while someone watched, did not regret it, some thought it just the crazyest thing they have ever done. (the watcher did not participate). Where the voyeur later participated, some liked it, some people later thought maybe it was not the right thing to do, just one of those things,others loved it, continues the practice.. Most cases involved were the backseat of a car while the front seat got to look, or not. .
I have also know several couples who told me they enjoyed rehashing with their mates their old sex escapades with others. Women would tell their hubby of tales while in college of enjoying being gangbanged, and give a play by play, etc. ususlly, matter of fact conversation.. Oh well..
and for the record, I have known of many men who knew their wife was F****** around, but generally did nothing, men are so emasculated these days .. however, someone messing around with a guys new girl, there was occasoinally violence.. just some live experiences

[murray]

One other observation, actually an expression of agreement with comments in some prior posts.

I agree with those who noted the following risks posed to the willing husband (#1 and #2 are restatements of prior posts; I added #3): (1) the lover is so much better in bed than the husband, that the wife decides to relegate the husband to spectator status or leaves the husband for the lover; (2) the sex is as good with the lover as with the husband, but the wife connects emotionally with the lover and leaves the husband for the lover; or (3) the wife is unable or unwilling to deny the emasculation and humiliation aspects or to separate same from non-sexual interaction with the husband, loses respect for the husband as a man, and leaves the husband either for the lover or another man in the future.

The risk I added in #3 can be avoided only if the wife can compartmentalize the husband's voluntary cuckoldry as sexual play and not allow it to affect non-sexual interaction with her husband. I know a couple who broke up after exploring sexual roleplay in a dominant/submissive context because the wife who assumed the dominant role lost respect for the submissive husband as a man based on the humiliation he submitted to during the roleplaying.

It's definitely emotionally risky activity and not for the meek.

Again, I'm not morally judging this consensual behavior among adults; I'm just making factual observations as to the risks posed.

[bowlan]

earth is the devils playground.
and we are all the players in the game of life.

[smiler]

This can be most enjoyable just as watching wife having sex with another woman.


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[Charlottelondon2002]

I would not go there at all

[Avocat]

One other observation, actually an expression of agreement with comments in some prior posts.
(1) the lover is so much better in bed than the husband, that the wife decides to relegate the husband to spectator status or leaves the husband for the lover; (2) the sex is as good with the lover as with the husband, but the wife connects emotionally with the lover and leaves the husband for the lover; or (3) the wife is unable or unwilling to deny the emasculation and humiliation aspects or to separate same from non-sexual interaction with the husband, loses respect for the husband as a man, and leaves the husband either for the lover or another man in the future.

It's definitely emotionally risky activity and not for the meek.

Again, I'm not morally judging this consensual behavior among adults; I'm just making factual observations as to the risks posed.

This is so off base from my experience. I do not feel humiliated when I share my gal. I love it. I love to be part of it, fully participating in the lovemaking. I am not threatened in the least, even if a man physically pleases my wife more than me. Our relationship is far more than physical sex. It is emotionally deep. She appreciates the fact I love to watch and participate. There is no threat whatsoever. Most women, in a good relationship with a man, won't pick up and leave that man because she has had good sex. Please! Why should she? Her man loves her completely and enjoys sharing her.

I just don't get the humiliation thing about supposed cuckholding. Many men who enjoy sharing their wives are sexually assertive and very competent in bed. The other man is the "cuck." He is the sex toy for the couple.

Don't piegonhold every man who enjoys sharing.

[Avocat]

earth is the devils playground.
and we are all the players in the game of life.

Why don't you quit reading these posts if you are offended so much, you moralizing idiot.