husband wants to watch me have sex with another man

[conniejones73@yahoo.com]

This is something we do regularly. There is nothing better than watching your SO being pleasured whilst you watch or join in.

For all those of you who oppose it, dont knock until u try!!

[Blackrat]

There are so many threads similar to this one about the fantasy of sharing a wife/gf. And that is what it is, a FANTASY. Flirting and teasing have always played a part in relationships and doing it to make your partner jealous is a way of keeping them interested. Sometimes this occurs spontaneously but can also be planned as an activity (wife and I have done it). But that is where it should end. Once you pass that point you are risking so much Why?

If you have no feelings for the new sexual participant then sex is just a mechanistic activity - is that how it is with your full time partner as well? Mechanistic sex with no emotional attachment?

If you have feelings for the new sexual participant then you run the risk of those emotions boiling over into something uncontrollable.

This fantasy is a MALE fantasy. Sex is mainly in the brain and that is where these fantasies should remain, in the male brain.

I sometimes think that some guys are so bone idle they get someone else to do the banging so they can sit back and just have a w***, probably watching the footy at the same time

[MaxtheGaul]

This fantasy is a MALE fantasy. Sex is mainly in the brain and that is where these fantasies should remain, in the male brain.

NO it isn't. It's also very much a FEMALE fantasy. I know lots of women, including my g/f who get off on this one - it's just that some of them want to share two men and some want one of each.

[animallover15]

And would you mind if she put it into practice Max???

[Blackrat]

This fantasy is a MALE fantasy. Sex is mainly in the brain and that is where these fantasies should remain, in the male brain.

NO it isn't. It's also very much a FEMALE fantasy. I know lots of women, including my g/f who get off on this one - it's just that some of them want to share two men and some want one of each.

Why? Because that's what you want her to do.

[Guest]

I agree with some of the posts on here. There definitely is a movement towards cuckolding in society. I think the media, women's sexual liberation, etc.. has made men feel somewhat inadequate/imasculine even if they're not. They cope with these feelings of inadequateness by learning to "throw in the towel".

Watching a porn star F*** your wife silly for an hour or two removes the husband from pressure to perform and to satsify. He can comfortably make his life a variation of pornography with his wife as the leading star.

A typical husband who's been married for a number of years often feels bad about himself as his wife seems to go cold on him in the bedroom. It eventually happens in every relationship. He eventually stops instigating sex (fearing more rejection) and turns to porn. He feels like a failure as a man/husband and feels sexually inadequate. All the media feeds him these "bigger is better" messages and he starts to blame his dick size. The idea of just learning to cope with it by getting a well hung F*** machine to come in and satisfy her is like better than becoming a porn junkie, and it relieves him of performance pressures if he were to do it himself - something the wife had made him feel a failure at for some time.

It definitely is demasculating to men.

But there's also an evolutional perspective to this. Men release hundreds of millions more sperm when there has been a possibility of infidelity by his partner. When he's F****** his wife day after day he only releases enough sperm to top her off from yesterday's sperm injection. If he fucks someone (instead of his wife) he releases hundreds of millions more sperm even if he just f*cked his wife. His body is programmed to guage his odds of fertilizing the woman at hand and releases sperm according to those odds. This way he saves sperm (when he topps of his wife) for other possible women, while flooding his wife with hundreds of millions of more sperm if he suspects she's been with another male. This sperm release is felt in arousal. Men get aroused when the possibility of sperm competition is present.

A study in Australia showed that when couples struggle to conceive a child, they can increase his chances of being fertile by having the husband watch MFM porn. Seeing two men and a woman automatically makes him more aroused and shoot more sperm from his sexual competitive programming. He senses a possibility of sperm competition by the MFM porm that makes him shoot the maximum amount of sperm.

[Guest]

Yes competition is arousal definitely.. not only competition... we're also voyeurs and we get aroused by porn. So seeing real life porn and feeling competition can be an unexpected turn on but also can be a HEAVY turn off.

Once on a party at my friend's big house I ended up sleeping in one of the rooms... one of my friends came into the room and started shagging his gf while I was there sleeping. They didn't know I was there because there were only lights on the big beauty mirror shining. I woke up because of the noise and stood up and saw my friend naked with his thing in the girl. When I realized the whole situation I wasn't embarassed.. i was utterly disgusted and closed my eyes and went quietely away while those two remained silent. When I got out I was left so disgusted. If I imagine seeing my GF shagged by someone else who I know or don't know... i feel completly sick. I can't even watch porn anymore thanks to this real life experience. When I look at porn with my eyes and feel that "reality feeling " that this S*** could be real and if I saw it live with my very own eyes I would turn around and go away.

So there are definietly mechanisms to turn you on and turn you off

[Guest]

I could NEVER let my wife take on lovers. It would rip up my insides and I'd probably just become very depressed and worried.

I just don't think many women can separate sex from love. If more women liked porn like men do and could just see it as a sexual release (nothing more) then more men might be open to this kind of thing. But women need to have a relationship of some sort with their lovers. They need to feel something. They want to F*** the same guy over and over, as opposed to different people with no attachment. That's a serious threat to the relationship. Men are better programmed to serial F*** - F*** some girl, never get her name, and never look back.

The only aspect of this cuckolding lifestyle that I think is sexy is stuff like the porn series "Please Bang My Wife". These are scenes where married couples come to "Please Bang My Wife" and the husband watches while a well endowed porn star comes out and fucks the crap out of his wife. There's little talking between the wife and the porn star other than basic introductions and her telling the porn star what she will and won't allow. There's no second dates, or phone number exchanges, it's just raw sex.

This kind of thing is kind of arousing to me because it's just raw sex. You are basically looking for the prime F*** machines available (guys with huge dicks that can F*** for hours) and having them F*** your wife to multiple orgasms and then it's over and you and your wife go home and it's back to your normal lives.

If sex could be separated from love/relationships in the way this series depicts it then I could see married couples more likely to engage in this kind of activity. But in the real world women aren't programmed for this kind of sex.

[MaxtheGaul]

This fantasy is a MALE fantasy. Sex is mainly in the brain and that is where these fantasies should remain, in the male brain.

NO it isn't. It's also very much a FEMALE fantasy. I know lots of women, including my g/f who get off on this one - it's just that some of them want to share two men and some want one of each.

Why? Because that's what you want her to do.

No because it is her fantasy not mine.

[MaxtheGaul]

And would you mind if she put it into practice Max???

It's an interesting one because if it was something she really wanted to do I probably would agree, but I wouldn't encourage or facilitate it. I would agree because she, like me has one life and I don't want to be an agent that prevents her from fulfilling that life in the way that works best for her, and ultimately she must own and be responsible for how she lives that life - I'm just committed to being with her for the rest of it.

[paul32]

i would love to watch my wife get shaged silly but it will never happen she says no way so i respect her wishes for that its her body at the end of the day

[Guest]

i would love to watch my wife get shaged silly but it will never happen she says no way so i respect her wishes for that its her body at the end of the day

Just curious. Does she think less of you or do you think it's negatively impacted your relationship for having asked her about it?

[paul32]

no not at all she does not mind me saying or thinking about it she just woudent do it

[Blackrat]

star in front of your husband turn you on or turn you off?[/quote]
This is not REAL!! The whole lot is make believe. They are all porn actors, not just the bloke doing the banging. They are appealing to male fantasies and making people believe it is OK to do. If you read some of the so called "quotes" they say things like "Our sex life has been great since........".

B*******S!!!! They are actors NOT real people. They dont have feelings that can be hurt, no jealousy, no low self esteem, etc.

The reality is a lot different as many people have found to their cost

[tinaspade]

I would love to watch my bf screw another girl. I don't know that we'll ever go through with it, but it's a fantasy of mine. Anyone else have that/fantasize about it?