husband wants to watch me have sex with another man

[paul32]

o yes i would love it

[Gape it babe]

My wife and I had talked about a three some with another man for a while now.
We finally experienced it during the summer, basically we acted out my wifes fantasy of having oral sex with a stranger.
Through the web we found a black guy with a huge penis (not difficult) we all then met up in a remote country lane.
My wife then sucked and deep throated the guy to completion whilst the guy filmed it for us, I had decided to stay outside this time, I then had sex with her in a field after the guy had gone, she was so wet I just slipped in.
Must say it was very horny for all concerned and we have a superb porno film as a momento.

[Blackrat]

My wife and I had talked about a three some with another man for a while now.
We finally experienced it during the summer, basically we acted out my wifes fantasy of having oral sex with a stranger.
Through the web we found a black guy with a huge penis (not difficult) we all then met up in a remote country lane.
My wife then sucked and deep throated the guy to completion whilst the guy filmed it for us, I had decided to stay outside this time, I then had sex with her in a field after the guy had gone, she was so wet I just slipped in.
Must say it was very horny for all concerned and we have a superb porno film as a momento.

[wildchild]

o yes i would love it

so sad

[wildchild]

star in front of your husband turn you on or turn you off?

This is not REAL!! The whole lot is make believe. They are all porn actors, not just the bloke doing the banging. They are appealing to male fantasies and making people believe it is OK to do. If you read some of the so called "quotes" they say things like "Our sex life has been great since........".

B*******S!!!! They are actors NOT real people. They dont have feelings that can be hurt, no jealousy, no low self esteem, etc.

The reality is a lot different as many people have found to their cost

[oyster100]

My wife was talking about a fantasy of going to a orgy (she would like to suck a lots of mens cocks one after the other and then be f**** not by all them maybe 1 or 2 while I watch, she would also like me to suck the
men off after they have f***** her.

[gsex122]

My girlfriend has already enjoyed three guys and I got to watch one, what I would really love to watch is my girlfriend getting intimate with a guy, kissing him, holding him, caressing each other and enjoying every minute of his big C***. That would really turn me on, and to hear her scream for three hours striaght from the pleasure of his big C*** satisfying her tight like never before, that turns me on. I don'y know why, but it is extremely sexy, hot and wow to watch my girlfriend really enjoy other C***.

[Guest]

I just don't think many women can separate sex from love. But in the real world women aren't programmed for this kind of sex.

Maybe this is simply what society has tried to make us believe? My wife and I both had adventures outside marriage, but mine were painstaking and bad for our relationship; while hers were quite the opposite. I would even never have found out if she hadn't told me.
We recently read a well documented article on cuckoldry http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-science-of-cuckoldry/. according to which women need more variation where sex partners are concerned, i.o.w. going astray is more natural for women than for men, and hols much less risk for their marital relationship too.My wife agrees on that wholeheartedly and refers to our own experience which is indeed entirely in line with this position.

[MaxtheGaul]

Maybe this is simply what society has tried to make us believe? My wife and I both had adventures outside marriage, but mine were painstaking and bad for our relationship; while hers were quite the opposite. I would even never have found out if she hadn't told me.
We recently read a well documented article on cuckoldry http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-science-of-cuckoldry/. according to which women need more variation where sex partners are concerned, i.o.w. going astray is more natural for women than for men, and hols much less risk for their marital relationship too.My wife agrees on that wholeheartedly and refers to our own experience which is indeed entirely in line with this position.

Having had a bit of experience of both, I can say that when the wife has strayed, as long as she has been open about it and has not been seeking to end her marriage it has caused almost no problem, I know of much fewer cases where the converse is true unless the wife concerned has given her permission in advance.

Maybe this is why I am happy to let my g/f off the leash and trust her judgement, but she wants to know before I do anything. (So far neither has happened).

[Guest]

Similar situation here... As I mentioned, due to my clumsiness my going astray caused a lot of burden on our relationship and my wife doesn't want to go through this again (and neither do I as a matter of fact...). As of consequence, we recently changed the rules. Though theoretically we both keep the right to go astray, for some time my wife will be the only one to make use of it, i.o.w. we're headed for a one-way open marriage based on two rules: my wife will report any extra-marital sex she gets involved in, my part of the deal being that I will not seek any adventures of my own (the term "seek" is crucial: my wife does not object my having extra-marital sex as long as it does not interfere with our relationship).
Is this cuckoldry?Cuckolds are supposed to get excited about their wives' extra-marital exploits, some will even take part in them, and I'm not interested in that. My wife coined a new term, she says I'm a polyamorous cuckold, and I can live with that. Let's see what happens.

[MaxtheGaul]

Cuckolds are supposed to get excited about their wives' extra-marital exploits, some will even take part in them, and I'm not interested in that.

I've never taken part, but I have to admit to being excited when my g/fs (or ex-wife) tell me about things that they have been up to. As long as they do it seems to do no damage to our relationship at all.

[MaxtheGaul]

We recently read a well documented article on cuckoldry http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-science-of-cuckoldry/.

Interesting article.

[Guest]

Interesting article.

You can say that again!
My wife for one is pleased because through this article I came to fully understand that her occasional need for other sex partners is genuine, and moreover has nothing to do with me. Too bad she says that we were not aware of cuckolding when she had her first adventures and I gave her hell about it, it would have saved us so much misery.

The author is also quite right in saying that wider acceptance of this lifestyle will diminish the number of broken up marriages, and as paradoxically as it may seem, we both feel that in the end it will lead to better opportunities for males to go astray without disrupting their marital relationship.

[pleidiol]

My first wife came from a very sexually liberated family and soon after we were married she told me that she had lost her virginity to her two older brothers at quite an early age and had continued to have sex with them ever since and just because we were married, she intended to continue to do so. However, that was not all, she also said that she wanted them to have sex with me as well. She had always encouraged me to dress in girl's clothes, which I must admit I enjoyed and we had frequently gone out as two girls together. She said that when they came to visit us I was to be dressed and to act towards them as if I was a girl.
I now realised why she had regularly used a dildosThey were both big boys in every sense of the word and I must admit that it was highly exciting for the four of us to be together and to see her taking the biggest penises I had ever seen in one or the other of her orifices whilst the same thing was happening to me. Her brothers visited us quite regularly, either together, or sometimes singly but always gave us both the same amount of attention. This may seem horribly depraved or disgusting to many people and possibly illegal, but we were all consenting adults and enjoyed what we were doing. My wife and I eventually split up, but this activity in no way contributed to our split.

I married again, and often had the pleasure of watching my wife with other men or being given a full run down on what had happened if I was not present, but never again had the satisfaction of pleasuring another man.

I am widowed now, but have never regretted any of my sexual adventures.

[Rhodie]

I think that the overriding factor in being a cuckold is wanting your woman to receive the maximum pleasure she can - and in a man's mind this means the biggest c*** she can. Obviously this isn't true but it is what we think. Also knowing that she is experiencing all the adrenaline and excitement of having sex with someone for the first time, knowing what pleasure she is getting is a powerful aphrodisiac. The fear of loss and the humiliation is also a great aphrodisiac. In the end all parties are winners - The wife gets to have sex with whoever she wants, the lover gets laid and the husband receives the most pleasure of the lot!

Unfortunately, my current wife only fantasises about it. I wish there were some hotwives that would be willing to take her under their wing...