Ladies, have you ever been unfaithful?

[TwistedMind]

I did get involved to one guy at work before, it didn't last long. But we never engaged into sex nor foreplay.

[Rhodie]

I did get involved to one guy at work before, it didn't last long. But we never engaged into sex nor foreplay.

Define "get involved"

[caught bf]

i decided to take a look at bf's computer other night when he asleep cos got very curious after he made odd comment. at pub i asked gf sitting at table with me and bf if she had seen that guy over there's ass cos it was cute? she said no but would take look, bf said yes it is. he was very drunk but still freaked me out! so when he slept i looked through his computer files and found some very weird stuff about him wanting eat cream-pies i wondered if he bi before but thought not, now seems he must be so am going to surprise him with creamy pie to eat but not tell him it creamy ahead of time and see look on face when he realizes or i tell him after. men dont do men and women dont do women in my book of right and wrong rules or do people 'cheat', a bit diff if a planned and agreed thing but no cheating! bf is on way to being ex since i to disgusted with the idea of a homo bf.

[Rhodie]

i decided to take a look at bf's computer other night when he asleep cos got very curious after he made odd comment. at pub i asked gf sitting at table with me and bf if she had seen that guy over there's ass cos it was cute? she said no but would take look, bf said yes it is. he was very drunk but still freaked me out! so when he slept i looked through his computer files and found some very weird stuff about him wanting eat cream-pies i wondered if he bi before but thought not, now seems he must be so am going to surprise him with creamy pie to eat but not tell him it creamy ahead of time and see look on face when he realizes or i tell him after. men dont do men and women dont do women in my book of right and wrong rules or do people 'cheat', a bit diff if a planned and agreed thing but no cheating! bf is on way to being ex since i to disgusted with the idea of a homo bf.

I thought that a cream-pie is when when a man cums in a woman and then it drips out and he eats it?

[Mr B]

So basically you're going to cheat on him and let him lick another mans cum...all because he looked something up on his pc?

[Rhodie]

i decided to take a look at bf's computer other night when he asleep cos got very curious after he made odd comment. at pub i asked gf sitting at table with me and bf if she had seen that guy over there's ass cos it was cute? she said no but would take look, bf said yes it is. he was very drunk but still freaked me out! so when he slept i looked through his computer files and found some very weird stuff about him wanting eat cream-pies i wondered if he bi before but thought not, now seems he must be so am going to surprise him with creamy pie to eat but not tell him it creamy ahead of time and see look on face when he realizes or i tell him after. men dont do men and women dont do women in my book of right and wrong rules or do people 'cheat', a bit diff if a planned and agreed thing but no cheating! bf is on way to being ex since i to disgusted with the idea of a homo bf.

So what happened?

[donna31]

my husband and i have taken cheating out of our marriage by adopting an open marriage lifestyle. in the last 2 months, i have had good sex with another man about 15 times with my husbands knowledge and permission. it is so much easier this way. if you need other sex partners it is best to be honest with your spouse and try to find a way to meet your needs and your spouses need for a stable relationship. if there is no way to compromise then you should either be monogamous or opt out of the relationship all together. it would fairer that way. i recommend if your approached by your spouse to pursue an open marriage don't automatically reject the idea. think about it. it may be what you need to.

[Guest]

Have you ever been unfaithful? yes a few times
How did it happen? 1st time funeral
How long did it last?1st one 1 night,but some of the others months
Did your partner ever find out? no
What was your partners reaction?
Are you still together? oh yes
Was the sex good? some of them was, then some just ok
Would you do it again / are you still doing it? still with one

[shrimper]

Donna31 has it right. Moral arguments notwithstanding, if the partner has the knowledge and you have the partner's permission its not cheating.