Natasha2007 wrote:Hi
I am longing to have a child, and was wondering if any of you know about an association where I can be introduced to a man who also wants to be a co-parent someone that wants to have involvement with his child. Would love to hear from anyone who knows.
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What is your status? And do you really need a co-parent not a man who wants to start a family? Or are you just happy to accept that as time is running out for you to have a child?
One of my closest friends looked into finding a donor a while back as she is approaching 40 and hasn't had any children but hasn't been able to find a man to committ to her and have a family with. In the end she decided not to go with it as she felt she would rather not have a child than settle for less than she really wants. She also didn't feel she could give a child everything it needed as a lone parent, like she said if she ended up a lone parent through no fault of her own sure she would do everything she could to give her kid a great life, but she didn't want to chose that to start with. I have to say I respect her a lot for her decision, putting the potential childs needs before her own just shows what a great Mum she would make.
I am happy to say she has recently started a relationship with a great guy who is a similar age and also desperate to start a family, so fingers crossed it will all work out in the end.













