Looking for a Co-parent

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Re: Looking for a Co-parent

Postby Bi-Becks on Tue Oct 30, 2007 11:34 am

Natasha2007 wrote:Hi
I am longing to have a child, and was wondering if any of you know about an association where I can be introduced to a man who also wants to be a co-parent someone that wants to have involvement with his child. Would love to hear from anyone who knows.
xx


What is your status? And do you really need a co-parent not a man who wants to start a family? Or are you just happy to accept that as time is running out for you to have a child?

One of my closest friends looked into finding a donor a while back as she is approaching 40 and hasn't had any children but hasn't been able to find a man to committ to her and have a family with. In the end she decided not to go with it as she felt she would rather not have a child than settle for less than she really wants. She also didn't feel she could give a child everything it needed as a lone parent, like she said if she ended up a lone parent through no fault of her own sure she would do everything she could to give her kid a great life, but she didn't want to chose that to start with. I have to say I respect her a lot for her decision, putting the potential childs needs before her own just shows what a great Mum she would make.

I am happy to say she has recently started a relationship with a great guy who is a similar age and also desperate to start a family, so fingers crossed it will all work out in the end.

Guest
 

Postby Guest on Thu Jul 31, 2008 10:38 pm

A little tip for those of you who are clearly ignorant - most gay people had heterosexual parents, ie a mum and a dad.

So what type of household you are brought up in bears no relation into whether you will be heterosexual, homosexual or bi-sexual.

I too, am looking into becoming a mum through donor insemination, and I also want the dad to be involved.

good luck

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Postby guest2222 on Tue Aug 26, 2008 6:40 pm

Dear Natasha ignore the ignorant.

Your dream is possible and many have done that and many long for doing it. Don/t worry, it is nothing wrong with it, nothing bad and even nothing unusual - it is an alternative way. And you know what? Co-parenting can be more beneficial as both parents know exactly what they want, have planned and agreed on everything and broken home would never be an option for such a baby. All over the world there are men who would love to be parents. I suggest not to put adverts yourself because these disguisting assholes will offer their shitty sperm for money but look for adverts already put by men - these people know what they want and will do their best for your child. By the way, don't go to websites which ask you to pay - they are rip offs! Spend more time but find genuine ads, woman! Google it, read magazines and newspapers and don't hurry... But don't buy, ok? You'll be fine, and your baby will be absolutely happy, believe me :)

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