Mad, Stupid, or Both?!?!

[Cambridge]

Everyone has to come to his or her own conclusion. I think s’alot took some time and thought it through and came to her own conclusion. And, thank goodness, it was the right one. Good for her.

Bouncy had asked her to tell us if he contacted her again, and frankly I was interested too. She’s just coming back on that.

S’alot, I hope by what he says you can see what a sad act he is. I hope you follow verve’s advice and never speak to him again. But, if you should run into him or something, I would love to hear you ask him if he’d like you to send the txt message along to his wife…obviously, it was intended for her.

[Bouncy]

Hello,

Just thought I'd give you an update. I got a text earlier, werent expecting it! Basically it said 'im missing ur eyes, im missing ur smile and im missing the way you make me feel. Ive always liked u, always will'. And that was pretty much it! I haven't replied, i dont want to get drawn in. Think I want him to leave me alone now.

Thats it, said I'd let you know so i did x

He's trying to draw you back in emotionally. He avoided saying directly that you stood him up, but he's telling you how much he misses you. It's emotional blackmail. People who toy with other's emotions like that are scum. He's always liked you and always will but he married someone else? Give me a break!

You are fortunate that you have a group of people here who can recognise jerk speak. This guy's a jerk.

[smilesalot]

Thank you, I really appreciate it.

I am glad I stood him up now that I know what was on his mind. I used to really enjoy his company and had feelings for him but he lost me when he married someone else so to be quite honest, he can say and think what he likes. I'm just going to ignore him from now on, he'll find some other bit on the side im sure.

Men eh, Im glad Im single!

[Verve]

Thank you, I really appreciate it.

I am glad I stood him up now that I know what was on his mind. I used to really enjoy his company and had feelings for him but he lost me when he married someone else so to be quite honest, he can say and think what he likes. I'm just going to ignore him from now on, he'll find some other bit on the side im sure.

Men eh, Im glad Im single!

Just be careful... He did get to you emotionally. You responded and you made a post about him (that we do appreciate). Best of luck to you, you can do it.

[smilesalot]

I do admit he does still get to me slightly, which is why I stood him up in the end, I don't want to repeat history. I don't regret being with him (even tho it was wrong) but I wouldn't do it again. I've realised its time to move on. If anyone messes my life up, it should be me lol, not some ex who's feeling sorry for himself. I've got a feeling he's applying to work at the same place as me because of what people have said, I really hope not but I'll deal with that problem if I ever get it.

Thanks again, I will get there x

[Cambridge]

I do admit he does still get to me slightly, which is why I stood him up in the end, I don't want to repeat history. I don't regret being with him (even tho it was wrong) but I wouldn't do it again. I've realised its time to move on. If anyone messes my life up, it should be me lol, not some ex who's feeling sorry for himself. I've got a feeling he's applying to work at the same place as me because of what people have said, I really hope not but I'll deal with that problem if I ever get it.

Thanks again, I will get there x

You are strong. Don't ever forget that.