I came across this thread by mistake but have some pretty strong thoughts on it. As i happened to pop into the middle where a guy was questioning whether it was cheating.... and some women said or implied it was all good fun and werem't excited or at least that was the air about it.
First im an x male stripper from the 90's. 2nd im still related to the industry (porn that is).
My oppinions are (and do with them what you will)
much of the cfnm stuff on the web like party-hc drunk-sorgy wam-sexorgy are prdominately staged...although i know a few of the male strippers and they do partys like that as well but when filmed many of the women there are pros.
from my experience even the tame venues ive been to. the women are mostly if not all excited. and the ones that dont participate do it out of shyness not monogomy. Most themselves wouldn't breath a word to a boyfriend or husband what went on let alone they went.
Sex (intercourse not just oral) is available even at the most tame for the pretiest and/or the right price...whether publicly or behind the scenes. This goes for private parties as well from the ones ive planned/booked and so say my competitors (the ones i know at least).
I could go on but wont at least about the above.....
However, WOMEN beware condom.... or not many of these strippers are gay and or bi.... I know of 3 (stripper) aquantences that have died of aids. though that you'll catch something from one or two experiences....shrug
Now maybe im only seing the post about the tamest of tame..but theres my 2pence.
I am prdominately on the east coast US....but have done the tour stuff...so am not speaking from my bum
