married, bored and bi-curious!

[loulindy]

Hi im reasonably newto the board. not posted very much but i read the posts a lot. im a married mum of 4 and bi curious, been married a very long time, sex is a bit boring and he doesnt seem interested any more, but I am!. Ive had 1 experience a few years ago with another woman and would like more.

Is there anyone else in the same position as me? Id love to chat to another woman maybe more.

I cant confide in any of my friends about my feelings, got no one to talk to about it.

Im in the southampton area by the way.

[bralessmac]

Hi loulindy
Welcome! While I'm not bored with my man, I just can't get him inside me often enough, he just can't really cope with me more than twice a day! I've not had the pleasure of pleasuring another woman, but that is only because I'm so busy pleasuring myself! I've got this gorgeous friend who I really should seduce, but she's so conservative it will be a lot of work and I don't know whether I have the energy for it!

Its quite usual to be bi-curious! Nothing wrong with that.

I'm also in the UK - Hemel Hempstead! Feel free to chat here, everryone is really friendly!

Hi im reasonably newto the board. not posted very much but i read the posts a lot. im a married mum of 4 and bi curious, been married a very long time, sex is a bit boring and he doesnt seem interested any more, but I am!. Ive had 1 experience a few years ago with another woman and would like more.

Is there anyone else in the same position as me? Id love to chat to another woman maybe more.

I cant confide in any of my friends about my feelings, got no one to talk to about it.

Im in the southampton area by the way.

[loulindy]

Thanks for your reply.Im not really bored with him, just a bit fed up I suppose. I still love him but dont fancy him any more. I would love a female friend to have a bit of fun with now and again.

[verycurious1]

I know exactly what you mean. I've lived with my man a long time and have just grown apart from him gradually. He's the father of my children and part of me will always love him, but fancy him? God no, all sexual attraction has just disappeared over the years

[secretsally]

Hi ladies

I love my man. We have been together nearly 20 years and still have great sex life. He does it for me, always will.

But I am surrounded by some lovely women - work colleagues and friends. Who I fantasise about regularly.

[BritchesAR]

Well, its good to hear that other feel the way i think my wife feels. thanks for bring it up and i wish you all the best. Do your husbands support your interest or would you keep something bi from him?

[loulindy]

Hi. My hubby has an idea how i feel. But weve never really talked about it. Not a lot of communication in our marriage. Not for the want of me trying! So i think if i ever met anyone i would keep it quiet from him.

[BritchesAR]

I understand, and appreciate your reply. I didnt know i was being read our not till now. I want to be open where she can be too. Our marriage has lost alot of communications and really we didnt have much to start with. Thats why i'm here, to understand how bi women think, what they like, dont like, what they get turned on by and so on. She is closed off and i'm left with our situation...3 kids and a marriage that i want to keep and from what she tells me she wants to keep yet we live day by day just doing the normal things and not living. I want her to discover her wants, expand on her bi likes (more details on my post) and really i want whats best for her - to be open with herself. No question she has to want this as well but if i set up the surroundings thats confortable for her she might decide to help herself. Thats all i can do it make it easy for her to be open with herserlf and me if she wants.

Again thanks for the reply

[Danielle85T]

I'm not married, but I am bored and bi-curious

[Danielle85T]

grr double-post

[Angel Kandi]

As per SecretSally's post.. but married 5 years.

[BritchesAR]

does your husband know about your interest?

[Angel Kandi]

Yep.

[secretsally]

Hi AK - my hubby knows too.

[2pairsofpinklips]

hi Loulindy,

I'm in a very similar situation to yours. I've been married to the same man for many years and our sex life is almost zero. He's lost all interest in it, once we decided we didn't want any more children he just gave up. He said there's no point anymore and then declared we're too old for sex. So I spend my time fantasizing about women, I've always been interested but have had no sexual experiences with them, which is something I regret. I'm new here and I'm enjoying reading all the posts and I'm thrilled to see I'm not the only one with this dilema.