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Postby Guest on Sun Nov 14, 2004 6:01 pm

spreading your legs in front of a mirror so you can watch your fingers? I would put chairs along both sides of my mom's full lenght mirror and adjust the mirror to see my pussy. I used this position to shave myself and looking at my bald pussy I would play with myself what seemed like hours. (Now I need to purchase a full lenght mirror for the apartment)

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Postby mostirreverent on Mon Nov 15, 2004 7:09 am

just do it, and use your imagination. try grinding against the corner of the bed while reaching out over the bed.



just remember, if it feels good, it's ok. feel sexy about it, it is your right. the mirror will help

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Postby SAHMOM69 on Tue Nov 16, 2004 3:27 am

i agree with the mirror thing. i did this when i 1st started masturbating also. i watched my fingers explore all parts of my pussy for a very long time. seeing my fingers go in and out and watching my clit swell when rubbed made things sooooo nice. :oops:

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Postby Random girl on Tue Nov 16, 2004 4:17 am

I suggest grinding against anything. I have a tendency to straddle my leg against a bathroom counter or sink and just go on from there.

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Postby Meld on Sat Nov 20, 2004 5:39 am

Girls, please know that being open about doing that, and if you like seeing your guy do it, you should share watching for mutual sexual pleasure

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Postby randomize me on Sat Nov 20, 2004 1:25 pm

Random girl wrote:I suggest grinding against anything. I have a tendency to straddle my leg against a bathroom counter or sink and just go on from there.


I'd like to be your roommate for a week, just to watch....

yours was one short but hot post...

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Re: Masterbating for beginners

Postby Freya on Sat Nov 20, 2004 5:19 pm

BabyGurl87 wrote:Yeah I am new to the masterbation world. But I just started like 2 months ago and can't get enough of it. Anyone have any tips I can do to myself. With house hold items and everything. Thanks.

Stuff the 'household items' Megan. You wanna get a wabbit! Once you've used one you'll never go back to fingers or your mum's hairburush ever again! It's those cute ears...boy are they heaven!!!! ;-)
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Postby Stephen on Sat Nov 20, 2004 5:32 pm

yeh wabbits are so cute.. But nothing is cuter than Kittens. And i mean nothing.... Are we talking about the same wabbits?
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Postby Freya on Sat Nov 20, 2004 7:58 pm

Stephen wrote:Are we talking about the same wabbits?

I dunno, are we? :-) Mine takes AA batteries, what does your's take?
More to the point, WTF does a guy do with a wabbit? No, scrub that. I don't think I want to know! :roll:
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Postby fan on Sun Nov 21, 2004 9:02 am

you know what would be even better, get your boyfriend/husband to do it for you that allwayse works. it dosent have to be sex just that :D

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Postby mom on Thu Nov 25, 2004 5:36 pm

i like to do it in front of every body so they can see my sucy cilt 8) :oops: :cry:

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Postby x KINKY x on Fri Nov 26, 2004 8:10 pm

lie on ur back / stomach and just have a feel about

move in a circular motion and if u feel like it slip in a finger or 2

i find rubbing my clit up against something a huge turn on too !

anything like a soft toy :shock: ..lol [ it works ]

i even use the edge of the pillow

im always doing it :oops:

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Postby Guest on Sat Nov 27, 2004 3:30 am

Freya wrote:

Stuff the 'household items' Megan. You wanna get a wabbit! Once you've used one you'll never go back to fingers or your mum's hairburush ever again! It's those cute ears...boy are they heaven!!!!

Not one to show off by any means but my wife bought a wabbit and although she likes the ears (girls you know waht i mean im sure!) She often boosts me (not that i'm looking for it) up by the fact I am bigger (only a bit) but especially have a fair amount of more girth.
Whats more, is that she's tells her friends (all partnered )when we are all together having a drink and a laugh about it.

Sorry rambled a bit

Back to your Q, well i am a little woried that you have just started?

just be confident with yourself and experiment. People are different and what works for one won't work for others. Just don't get caught in the bathroom!

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Postby Betty B on Tue Nov 30, 2004 10:49 am

It is never too early to use a vibrator. Try to get one. There are cheap, but nevertheless very effective ones, even on mail order.

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Re: Masterbating for beginners

Postby ConfidentAboutMeBbe on Fri Aug 07, 2009 8:11 pm

Know what? If you're so worried about being caught. While you're in the shower use the shower head, turn it to the one that's meant to be use to massage you're back and use it against your clit. I do that and get orgasms everyday! Plus if you're alone wash your hands and just massage your clit with your fingers, a mirror helps if you want to get and orgams because it turns you on in ways i can't explain.

I've never told anyone this but since no one can get my name. I'll shoot, When I'm alot I'll call my best friend,(It's a boy) and we've never had sex but he touches me and feels me insaide and out, IIt's heaven. And we're only friends : :shock: He never tod anyone though lol Anyways have fun and don't hurt yourself. Oh and remember to wash your hands.


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