men and anul play

[new2this]

my boyfreind and i like to experiment and try out things all the time.
he loves the idea of anul sex, but im really not up for it, i dont mind him sometimes playing around it and maybe slipping a finger up it when i am really turned on and then i dont really notice it.
once while we were doing "69" he was playing around my anul so i did the same back to his, he didnt seem to mind but i couldnt do much, i jus played around the outside and a tiny bit in.
then another time while giving him a blow job i did the same but put my finger right in, he came straight away. (not sure if the finger helped or he was jus ready to come anyway) when i tried it again then he told me no, so i dint do it for a while, then the other week he let me do it again.
do many men like this sort of thig?
i dont really know what im doing, i htink he kind of likes it but im not sure.... if you like it, what do you like done down there? i jus get a wet finger and circle around his hole and slowly go in-do i go in and out then or stay in and move aroun?
thankyou

[spankyguy]

Every guy is different, some like it some don't, some think it makes them gay

He came instantly because with your finger in his ass you probably massaged his prostate, theres an erogenous zone there, talk to him ask him what he likes.

[Guest]

My girlfriend did it too me twice and it was awesome, but she hasnt done it in a long time.

I dont like asking her to do it but i wish she did it more often.

[new2this]

well ill keep doing it then when he is good, and ask him then? i think he is abit embaresed about it tho. especially when we are out with freinds and everyones talking about sex, i dont want 2 admit i do it to him and i dont think he wants 2 admit he has it done,
thanks

[lazlow]

My partner does it to me now and then. The prostate is a weird thing, if you massage it right, it can make the man feel like he is having an orgasm without actually cumming. And when a girl does it to you whilst you are cumming it makes it a lot more intense.

As others have said, it depends on the man if they like it or not. I don't believe it makes you gay in any way, as you are simply exploring each other's bodies, and pleasuring each other...

[new2this]

where exactly s this gland?
say if he is laying down on his back, and i am giving head, do i put a finger nd rub up to the top wall to his stomach like? or do i rub down to the bottom wall to his back like? (sorry i cant explain any better)

[lazlow]

rub up to the top wall to his stomach like?

[new2this]

ok thanks, cant wait for him to come home now and show him what i have learnt

[chris1922]

my boyfreind and i like to experiment and try out things all the time.
he loves the idea of anul sex, but im really not up for it, i dont mind him sometimes playing around it and maybe slipping a finger up it when i am really turned on and then i dont really notice it.
once while we were doing "69" he was playing around my anul so i did the same back to his, he didnt seem to mind but i couldnt do much, i jus played around the outside and a tiny bit in.
then another time while giving him a blow job i did the same but put my finger right in, he came straight away. (not sure if the finger helped or he was jus ready to come anyway) when i tried it again then he told me no, so i dint do it for a while, then the other week he let me do it again.
do many men like this sort of thig?
i dont really know what im doing, i htink he kind of likes it but im not sure.... if you like it, what do you like done down there? i jus get a wet finger and circle around his hole and slowly go in-do i go in and out then or stay in and move aroun?
thankyou

First of all, it an Anus. Learn to spell. Anal is the term you are looking for, as in Anal sex.
Secondly, as a guy, I love it, penetration as well. Makes me come soooo hard !

[Guest]

Anuses are from crapping from. What kind of diseases are you spreading doing these disgusting things. Puke!!!