Mums who talk to their little kids like shyte

[Guest]

This license issue is simply RACIST.

I mean white parents would pay loads less per year for their monochrome kids than coloured parents !

[Conservative Voter]

I think it's a BRILLIANT idea.
Single women popping out kid's, from multiple farthers left, right & centre with no means of supporting them. Then spend the rest of their miserable lives sponging off the state. I hope it becomes world policy & the sooner the better

[xXx.Lesley.xXx]

Erm..... lets see, you seem to think its the womans fault she falls for the wrong kind of men? I don't think so. It's totally unfair. Men are the ones that leave them in that situation. Spineless b*stards that they are.

[An4l McNasty]

The big feller's right lesley,
One Woman, One Child.

[xXx.Lesley.xXx]

Hmmmm An4l McNasty, Conservative Voter, you sound awfully simular! And that other muppet guest that posted earlier too. All a bunch of idiots!!! Glad they keep ppl like you locked into a padded room!

[Sugartits]

Oh come now Lesley, i think they made the thread quite lively

[P_1984d]

Wow, calm down there!! Haha

I think we're forgetting the topic here, I think there's no excuse for parents to treat their kids like shite, or even curse at them. But hey, no amount of complaing from us lot will ever change that!

[Tessa2]

I remember being at a car boot sale a while back. I saw a young mum with a little lad in a pushchair - he was upset coz he wanted a little MacDonalds happy meal toy from this stall - it was only 10p. She leaned down to him in the buggy and screamed at him "YOU'RE GETTING F**K ALL YOU LITTLE S**T". Her spit was flying in his face and everyone within a 20 ft radius was totally gobsmacked.

I honestly think the little boy's heart was about to break, and I dont think it was because he couldn't have the toy I wanted to give the little lad a hug.

Just because they are children doesn't mean we shouldn't treat them with respect. They are little people in their own right.

[P_1984d]

I also hate women who favourtise. They say they love all their kids the same, but its just so obvious they dont! My own aunt does this and it drives me crazy.

[xXx.Lesley.xXx]

OMG Tessa2 I'd of said something to her! That is totally unacceptable! Its one thing shouting at them but swearing too!

Im a very outspoken person and i'll tell it like it is wether it be on here or to a person in real life.

[TipsyDipsy]

I agree i've lost count of the times i've seen young mums them swearing and dragging their kids along. I'm not talking about the parents that get their hair off and raise their voices that's discipline but the ones that you see really shouting and swearing.
Personally I waited 8 years with my then boyfriend now husband before I even would think of having children so in some ways i do agree with SOME of what Conservative wrote. I do think girls get pregnant at hast and repent at leisure then blame their children in a way. Its hard on your own and i couldn't do it. And i think its the single parents more than any other who lose their temper through stress because they have taken on a responsibility that really should be shared. Children are a gift but not on your own and not if you can't support them.

[xXx.Lesley.xXx]

So as well as young mothers you also gettin at single parents now? Its not always the case. Some ppl have shorter tempers than others. Even the women who are in their 30's and married speak to and treat their kids in this way.

Not every young mum treats their kids bad. I love mine to bits and would dream of harming them in any way wether it be in public or in the privacy of our home.

I dont blame my oldest for being born. It was my decision to keep him and thats the best decisio ive made in all my life.

My mum is a single parent to me and my 2 brothers and never once did she shout and swear or me or my brothers. But my friends mum who was married, had tons of money and everything used to beat her up cos she had a short temper.

All children need is a lot f love and attention. If you have that to offer then you sorted. I have plenty of that. My kids are very well behaved and my oldest is turning into a very polite and pleasent young boy.

[Conservative Voter]

TipsyDipsy is the perfect example of sensible motherhood.
I really do wish there were more women like you TipsyDipsy, the country would be a much better place if there were. Thank you. x

[xXx.Lesley.xXx]

So I'm not a sensible person? And a lot of other ppl are not?

Just cos I'm a young age it doesn't mean I cant have a life still. It doesnt mean I'm gonna blame my kids for the slightest bit thing that ever goes wrong. You are truely pathetic.

[TipsyDipsy]

I'm sorry Lesley I really didn't mean it to come across in the judgemental way it has. I have a few really good friends who make wonderful mothers and they are on their own. Just because I chose to do things differently does not mean that I meant to come across as sanctimonious as I did. I was never put in the position of an accidental pregnancy. If I had been I would have probably made the most of it like you and made do best I can, I admire you for that. Things worked out for me and I had my daughter when I was ready but life does not always work that way. I was generalizing a lot when I made the comparison that most people who are short tempered are mostly single mothers i realize that now I was just thinking of how hard it would be. Sometimes you read back on posts you've made and realize how close minded they sound. I apologize if I offended you.
And Conservative although I'm flattered by you putting me on a idealistic pedestal of what women should be as I mentioned above I was never put in the position of an accidental pregnancy so never had to make those choices.