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Postby Female Guest on Sat Mar 11, 2006 7:38 am

. wrote:You seem very close to your son but I think massaging his penis until he ejaculates is going too far.
Is there a reason why he can't massage his penis?


Yes, we have become very close. It's just him and me at home, and we are all each other has.

He says he does try to train his penis on his own like I tell him to, but he says he ends up just masturbating and it's hard for him to stay on it for any length of time. I am not only trained in massage, but I will devote nearly two hours, three times a week on him, so he may someday be able to live a normal life and date girls. I wont quit after ejaculating once in 10 minutes like he does trying to do it alone. When I massage him I use two hands and work it in a professional tissue massage.

When I do it, his first ejaculation wont happen for maybe 15-20 minutes, since I am massaging him, not maturbating him as he ends up doing on his own when he is trying to be doing what I taught him. On his own he gets bored after the first ejaculation, and does someting else. When I train and massage his penis tissue, I will continue on him after the first cum, and he will produce 3 ejaculations in all every session before we are considered finished. We decided that I will do all the massage, and he doesn't need to worry about trying to massage, and free to enjoy normal masturbation for pleasure.

It's heart breaking to me that he will not date with it in this condition, and I am devoted to helping him all I can. We have become closer than ever in our lives, and are going through this together. In the beginning his penis was like a horseshoe at the tip, and when he would orgasm, it would actually shoot backward, we are in my opinion 50 percent of the way there, and his ejaculations squirt upward not backward at this point. I am hoping with all my heart, that in 6 more months, he will be as close to recovered as to pass off as totaly normal in appearance and performance.

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Postby Female Guest on Sat Mar 11, 2006 8:07 am

PS:

6 months ago when this all surfaced after finding him asleep in his room. We had been sharing our home with a family friend. I was never actually married to his father who had left us some years earlier. After our friend who boarded with us found out about the therapy I had been administering to my son 3 days a week, she left not able to comprehend the situation, thinking it was just weird. I have endured a ot, and sacrificed a lot. I am only asking on the outside chance that anyone here may have any information or experience as how to rectify this type of condition, that may assist and/or improve upon the results we have so far achieved.

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Postby Edith on Sun Mar 12, 2006 6:40 am

Several years ago my son lost both his hands in an industrial accident.
I had to bathe him and take him to the toilet which involves holding his penis and wiping his bottom.
At no time did he get an erection.
It was very embarrassing for both of us at first but we have got used to it.

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Postby sarz on Sun Mar 12, 2006 10:09 am

im sorry but its just wrong that you gerk off your son i know you are doing it for a reason but what 19 year old wants that from his mother, i think you should seek advice for some one that will go about the situation in a different way

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Postby Joyce on Sun Mar 12, 2006 2:53 pm

I also agree it is wrong but if as you say there has been an improvement and you are both happy doing it I would reluctantly say carry on but the ejaculation worries me. It is just not on for a son to ejaculate in front of his mother.

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Postby Female Guest on Sun Mar 12, 2006 10:44 pm

Thank you for the responses so far.

Please let me explain that all I am doing and interested in, is the massaging, and training. The ejaculations are a consequence of that, but certainly in no way are the purpose. I must guage the length of the sessions according to when, and how many times it happens, because the different states of his penis dictate the type of massage I can perform, and since it is unavoidable that he will become erect and ejaculate, we have set the length of the sessions accordingly, which is 3 ejaculations before we both are agreeable that it is a good time to call it quits for the sessions.

I thought it best to explain that before anyone misunderstands any further, as did my former housemate and friend. Please try to see that this is a medical treatment/therapy, and I hope you will respect that.

Thank you.

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Postby Now_Registered on Mon Mar 13, 2006 12:45 am

I have some thoughts here, Female Guest, first a question. I have heard of the penis having a sharp curve upward, though there was no actual diagnosis or term for it. Peyronies disease is kind of different, in effect, it is an injury to the penile tissue that when healed leaves a curvature, usually left or right, and can be quite painful. You mentioned that the only real pain he feels is when you are trying to straighten it, is that correct? Also, you have already taken him to a doctor, you didn't mention if it were a urologist. I would hope your regular doctor could be accurate in identifying your sons condition, but you are attempting to straighten out what curved on its own, even though the doc said nothing medically was wrong. You are still concerned, so I would seek a second opinion about it. Get him into a urologist, and see what he/she has to say. If they tell you nothing is wrong with your son, I would probably advise ceasing your own treatments, and let nature take its course. No two men have an identical penis, some have a curve, some don't. You can find all kind of slight differences from one to another.

Best of luck!

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Postby Female Guest on Mon Mar 13, 2006 1:23 am

Thanks.

We have been to a few doctors and yes we were referred to a urologist during that time. They all said normal. It still did not change my son's attitude towards it, and quite frankly, I could understand his concern fully. Back then he would ejaculate backward towards himself because while hard his penis pointed back at his own body. It was not something I nor him wanted to, or could ignore. He could not live a normal life, so neither could I. I want the best in life for him, naturally because I am his mother.

At this point his orgasm shoot straight upward, not backward. It is working. I am fully accustomed to the sessions as is he. It is not a problem for me, and he thanks me nearly everyday for helping him. He never misses a session, even if it means missing his favorite things to do. He is very discipline on his own at being right there on every evening we had worked out for the week. I don't see any reason to quit what is working, so we likely wont stop the treatments until and if he is comfortable eneough with his appearance or it's completely normal looking. I am confident we will achieve it.

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Postby Guest on Mon Mar 13, 2006 6:27 am

I fully support what you are doing.
I care for my elderly mother which means taking a shower with her and wiping her bottom after she has been to the toilet.
Some people say that it is wrong and that I should get a female helper.

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Postby Guest on Mon Mar 13, 2006 6:15 pm

. wrote:I fully support what you are doing.
I care for my elderly mother which means taking a shower with her and wiping her bottom after she has been to the toilet.
Some people say that it is wrong and that I should get a female helper.


I think the fact that you take care of her is awesome. I would rather a loving family member do this than a stranger. I'm sure your mother feels the same way. I know it's very awkward or ebarassing at first, but like a lot of things that are new to us, we get used to it, and do our best. I felt very awkward doing this myself at first, and my son did as well, I know it was embarassing for us both, but we talked, and agreed to give it a chance. We are both glad we did.

It's always still a bit awkward for us both, but a lot less. People in situations like you and I, tend to find ways of making it work. Like my son will just take all his clothes off and lay there with his eyes closed, and that makes it easier for us both somehow. It works for us, and it's worth it at any rate.

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Postby nikappeal on Mon Mar 13, 2006 6:58 pm

He should see a doctor for this, not his mother! Its a bit sickening.

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Postby nikappeal on Mon Mar 13, 2006 7:00 pm

Edith wrote:Several years ago my son lost both his hands in an industrial accident.
I had to bathe him and take him to the toilet which involves holding his penis and wiping his bottom.
At no time did he get an erection.
It was very embarrassing for both of us at first but we have got used to it.


Her son has his hands!

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Postby TonyM on Mon Mar 13, 2006 7:05 pm

Female guest, are you undressed too & do you get arosed when massaging?

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Postby Female Guest on Mon Mar 13, 2006 7:11 pm

The doctors wnated to charge us an arm and a leg for surgery. I am gratedul that they diagnosed him as not having a medical problem, but this is an emotional issue for him that is destroying his young adult life.

The treatment he is getting at home is in fact working. I don't where to find a doctor who does this, besides that if my son would even do it then. I don't understand what is "sickening" about it as you called it, and frankly I am offended and saddened that you do not see the actual point of my post and what is going on. You are looking at the situation the same way as my ex-friend, who I could care less that is gone if she can't see past her own perverted mindless thoughts.

If this had been my son's arm or neck, no one would think twice, very sad that a serious condition can not be discussed maturely.

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Postby TonyM on Mon Mar 13, 2006 7:31 pm

do you get arosed

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