. wrote:It is ashame that if a man wants to look nice and do what is normally considered "feminine" he is called "gay", but if a woman does something that is considered "masculine", they are not called "lesbians".
True, it is a shame if that's what you want to do and potential girlfriends are okay with it...but don't think for a minute that girls can do masculine things and not be called dykes. If my bloke sees a big chunky woman looking extremely manly and wearing her hair in a short back and sides he generally thinks she's gay, as do I often. I don't think any less of them for it but it's just an automatic possibility in my mind when they're looking like the classic stereotypical butch gay woman. A similar thing happens to my boyfriend sometimes though because he dresses well and takes care of himself some people will assume he is gay but he doesn't mind because he knows it's mainly because of his fashionable clothes and not acting like a complete 'lad' all the time
Personally I wouldn't be that keen on my boyfriend putting polish on his nails unless we were dressing up for fancy dress or for a laugh as punks or something - I've buffed his nails to look smarter before though. If you wanna do it though, why not? It makes you different from other people















