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nervous getting started as hot wife

Postby donna31 on Mon Jul 28, 2008 9:56 pm

I am a bit nervous. My husband and I have decided on a hot wife lifestyle about 5 months ago. However, I have not had sex yet with another man. My husband is anxious for me to start and I admit i am too. It is just that I am looking for the right man. I think I have the one picked out, but I am a little scared to ask him. I am really attracted to the idea of being able to have sex with whom i choose and be able to go home and tell my husband all about it. I've wanted to be able to sit down with a girlfriend or my sister talk it all out but I don't think they would understand. My husband suggested doing it here. I have to admit I have had a lot of men hitting on me since we decided for me to be a hot wife. I am enjoying that a lot. I am dressing a bit more provocative and I am getting noticed.. I have never shown much cleavage before and it is fun how men are looking now. My skirt is shorter too. I quit wearing panties with my minis when I go to the club with the girls. At one club, I was felt up by a friend of my husband. He was excited because I had no panties on. He wanted to take it further but I felt he was not the one I wanted to do it with first. I think about all the men I can have and I get all excited and masturbate

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Postby Hellbound maybe on Tue Jul 29, 2008 3:40 am

I've been 'an extra piece' to a HotWife before.
Quite an interesting change to my normal
moral code of conduct! In the particular situation
I was approached about:
'The hubby' had had prostate surgery which means
castrated and wanted 'out of love' to make certain
wife remained a satisfied partner, so I agreed
to
'be the stud' since I had nothing going-on
relationship wise anyway and felt altruistic about it
since I'm very well equipped and wife seemed
quite motivated to accommodate my Largeness
type of thing.
It got to weird for me when the HotWife told of
how Much Pleasure she was getting from hubby
orally pleasuring her on 'clean-up/out detail afterward since that's *Way to FarOut for my
moral compass to accept! Being "His ONLY"! seems most frequent thought women feel comfortable with, - therefore I recomend you NOT DO THIS!
I want a Faithful to ME ONLY Woman! Tell ME about yourself hun, maybe we Hook-Up Forever hun.

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Re: nervous getting started as hot wife

Postby sally wey on Tue Jul 29, 2008 12:51 pm

donna31 wrote:I am a bit nervous. My husband is anxious for me to start and I admit i am too. It is just that I am looking for the right man. I think I have the one picked out, but I am a little scared to ask him.

hello Donna, Im Sally, it is very important that you choose the man,
this is how John and I went about doing it,
After I pointed out the men I think I would like, John would then get talking to them,
it wasn't long before the other man would join us at our table,
then I would ask John if he wanted to dance, John would make an excuse
like having to go to the loo,
I would then ask the other man to dance, as a woman you can take from there.(after a while we would ask him if he wanted to have a drink at our house,)
only you can tell if you think you can pull it off for a threesome,
hope this helps, let us know, have cut off points that only you and your partner knows, love Sally
Im a housewife, we live in DEVON england and we love the countryside, we are into threesomes, and love sex

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made the call

Postby donna31 on Tue Jul 29, 2008 5:34 pm

i made the initial contact today; to be exact: 30 minutes ago. i was so excited i could hardly talk to him. i was literally breathless. when he came in the office i felt a tingle of excitement between my legs. we did the small talk at first; the weather, the office, traffic on W street, that sorta thing. i asked him where he has been since he had not be by the office the past few days (he deliver the mail} and he said he took a few vacation days. i stood closer to him than i have ever done before and i bent over the counter so my top will bulge open and he could see the top of my breasts. i squeezed them together so he could see better. he said he had been boating in the intercoastal waterway on a small sailboat. i said it sounded nice and then said i would love to go boating sometime and looked him dead in the eye. his eyes widened and he said he will have to see about that. i said that i have bought a Thong bikini and would love a chance to wear it. oh i was so outrageously bold. he asked if my husband would be coming too and i said he doesn't have to. i gave him my cell phone number and he said he will call a set up the day and time. DID I DO GOOD or what??????my god, i want to go into the john and masturbate

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Re: made the call

Postby sally wey on Tue Jul 29, 2008 7:26 pm

donna31 wrote:i made the initial contact today; to be exact: 30 minutes ago. i was so excited i could hardly talk to him. i was literally breathless. when he came in the office i felt a tingle of excitement between my legs. we did the small talk at first; the weather, the office, traffic on W street, that sorta thing. i asked him where he has been since he had not be by the office the past few days (he deliver the mail} and he said he took a few vacation days. i stood closer to him than i have ever done before and i bent over the counter so my top will bulge open and he could see the top of my breasts. i squeezed them together so he could see better. he said he had been boating in the intercoastal waterway on a small sailboat. i said it sounded nice and then said i would love to go boating sometime and looked him dead in the eye. his eyes widened and he said he will have to see about that. i said that i have bought a Thong bikini and would love a chance to wear it. oh i was so outrageously bold. he asked if my husband would be coming too and i said he doesn't have to. i gave him my cell phone number and he said he will call a set up the day and time. DID I DO GOOD or what??????my god, i want to go into the john and masturbate


well Donna, you made the first move, flirting in its self is fun,
keep us posted on how you get on, and if you tell your partner,
and his reaction to it,
after you make it with him why not try and get him in a threesome,
love Sally
Im a housewife, we live in DEVON england and we love the countryside, we are into threesomes, and love sex

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hey Sally, check this out

Postby donna31 on Wed Jul 30, 2008 3:09 am

i wish you were here Sally. David ( the cute delivery man) called me. i hadn't been home for more than 30 minutes. this call was was very encouraging and my husband will be pleased, because he is going to get his wish. David asked me what's up. i knew he wanted to know the score with me and i asked him what did he want to be up. he replied by saying he wanted my knees on my chest with my legs up over his shoulders. that just sent a thrill through me. i said that is a possibility. he asked if i was playing with him or did i have serious intentions of getting together with him. i told him i was hot and willing. he asked me again about Melvin (my husband) and i said Melvin is cool with me enjoying myself. he said he is taking his boat out again Saturday. did i want to go then. i gushed like a little girl saying yes yes yes. it is set and i am so excited that i am nervous. I told David he could pick me up at home if he wanted so he will know that it is cool with my husband for him to be with me. i can't wait for Mel to get home. I want to get myself off now but i want to wait so Mel can lick me happy. i did realize it could be so easy once you break the ice. Dave said he thought my cleavage was impressive and that he looked forward to seeing me in the Thong. he said i could be topless on the boat if i wanted. I plan to leave the top at home. that will make my husband so horny seeing it laying on the coffee table knowing i'm wearing just the bottom. Did i do good, Sally??? i feel so bold.

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Re: hey Sally, check this out

Postby sally wey on Wed Jul 30, 2008 9:50 am

well done Donna,how did melvin react to you telling him about your date with David, if I was in your place I would want David to undress me,
I remember my first threesome, (I didn't go with other men on my own until much later)
on this occassion I was like a school girl on my first date, and when he undressed me it was a great thrill,
when I had an orgasm,John ejaculated with out me touching him,
keep me informed, love Sally
PS I wish others would join us in this,
Im a housewife, we live in DEVON england and we love the countryside, we are into threesomes, and love sex

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Sally

Postby donna31 on Wed Jul 30, 2008 11:31 am

it was wonderful. i ordered pizza and had it here when Mel got home. i had chilled a bottle of lambrusco. we had the pizza and wine in the den. the den has an old dutch tile fire place and a thick rug on the floor in front of the fireplace. we sat on the rug for our supper. before Mel got home i changed into a pair of really loose shorts and a tee shirt. no panties, no bra. if i place my legs just right you can see down the short's legs and see my naked pussy. my nipples are a little dark and you can see them through a white tee shirt. he saw how i was dressed when he came through the door and ran up the stairs two at a time to change in his shorts and tee shirt. he said he liked the informal look for supper. while we ate he would look down my shorts and take his finger, stick it in the shorts leg and run it up and down my pussy. i of course had every intention of getting him really worked up before telling him the news. i asked him all about his day and we chatted about doing some things to the house. pretty soon his hands were all over me, under the tee shirt and he had my shorts down to my ankle. i pulled his shorts down and took his C*** in my hand and in as innocent a voice as i could muster i said "by the way, i gave my number to David today and he called right after i got home." Mel didn't say a word, his C*** got suddenly hard. i said, "that is still ok, isn't it"? he was breathing real hard and said "yes, yes it is. what happened"?? i told him about the boat and how i flirted with David and how David was concerned about him. i told him how i was going to wear my new Thong bikini on the boat and how David was going to have his eyes pop out. i didn't tell him about leaving the top home, so that will be a surprise for him. when i told him that David said how he wanted my legs over his shoulders, Mel's C*** really stiffened hard. it has never felt so hard before. Mel asked if i intended to f**k David Saturday. his voice was so thick sounding. i said i hope to do it and that my pussy really tingles when i think about David's C*** entering it. he asked what else i intended to do. and i told him how i would like to suck his C***. Mel asked how would i do it and i described to him how i would take it in my mouth and how i wanted to lick it. that was when i felt my hand get wet. Mel had cum all over my hand and i had even begun to stroke it. I think telling Melvin about the date went well. we spent a long time on the den rug f**king and just cuddling and talking. i promised i would tell him everything. Mel asked me to take the camera and get a picture of me on the boat. He specified he want it nude and after i had been f**ked. He said he wanted to see what i would look like after my first experience. i think i will take the camera. maybe i can get David to pose nude for me. i think what inspired me to push on like this was your friendly comments. they have helped. you made it seem so simple and really it was. now to get the deed done.

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Postby sally wey on Wed Jul 30, 2008 4:16 pm

Hi Donna, its fairly easy to get a man to have sex, yours a little bit more difficult with David know that melvin approves,
next is getting David or another into bed with you both there, thats a huge ego boost, and oh boy what fun,
I'm glad my comments helped, and in one of your post you said you wished I was there,
if I was there who knows I might have taken a fancy to Milvin for Saturday, ha ha, have lots of fun, love Sally,
PS you know once you start its hard to stop, and always remember that a new love/sex partner is more exciting than it really is,
Im a housewife, we live in DEVON england and we love the countryside, we are into threesomes, and love sex

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he called again Sally

Postby donna31 on Thu Jul 31, 2008 12:53 am

David called again today to see if i am sure i want to go through with the "boat ride" and if Melvin really is cool with us getting together. i think he sounded unsure if he was wanting to do this or maybe i am so anxious for this to come off that i am reading too much into the tone of his voice. he asked if i was shaved and if i like a man that is shaved. that is good isn't it. he didn't say if he was shaved. i answered the question by saying it is all good to me; as long as the tool works, i don't care if grass is growing on the shed. i am completely shaved because i like to wear the tiniest thongs i can find and i like it to fit skin tight. i like the looks i get on the beach when i sport that camel toe look. this has been a new look for me this summer. my husband encouraged me to be sexy as i can. when i would get stares from men it would get us very excited and we would have hot sex that night. David asked if he could see me tonight for a drink. i really can't make it, i have to teach reading tonight to a plumber. I volunteer with Literacy Volunteers of America twice a week. the plumber is an apprentice wanting to go for his license, but he can't read well enough to pass his test. Melvin is teaching reading to a young boy from a troubled home. the family didn't make the kids go to school and the parents did drugs. we go to a high school where we can use the classrooms and library. i hope this refusal to go for a drink won't cause him to think i am changing my mind about Saturday. i am looking forward to that "boat ride" and so is Melvin. you think every thing is still good?

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Postby sally wey on Thu Jul 31, 2008 3:12 pm

Hello Donna, nice to hear from you again, I think you are too anxious, just be your natural self, I'm very sure that you will be able to pull it off,
he may be a little concerned, after all how many men gets asked to meet the husband before taking his wife out for a day of sex,
If need be ask David if he would rather meet you somewhere else instead of at you house, maybe if you played a little harder to get would make David happier,
keep the dialgue simple and not to heavy, some men dont like it on a plate if you know what I mean,
IF David know's that you do voluntry work you wont be able to just go for drinks etc, also being married should let him know also,
just relax and enjoy all the bits and pieces of getting chatted up, love Sally
Im a housewife, we live in DEVON england and we love the countryside, we are into threesomes, and love sex

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Postby sally wey on Thu Jul 31, 2008 6:31 pm


Hi Donna, I dont know if this is allowed or not, weywey86@yahoo.co.uk
Sally
Im a housewife, we live in DEVON england and we love the countryside, we are into threesomes, and love sex

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Postby donna31 on Fri Aug 01, 2008 8:20 pm

David brought our parcels today about lunch. i was the only one in the front, the receptionist was out to lunch, the boss was in his office taking his power nap and everybody else was out on calls. David said he was disappointed that my top was too high and he couldn't get a peek. i took him down the salesmen's hallway and i let him feel my breasts. he said he can't wait until saturday and i said you can't wait until tomorrow?? he asked for a kiss. he said he didn't want to just do it and mess up my makeup. i told him i had been hoping for a kiss. we kissed a couple of times and he put his hand under my skirt and rubbed my pussy. it was really a turn on because anyone of the salesmen could have come back while we were messing a round. he asked what time he was to pick me up and i suggested 9am and he said he will be there. i can't wait either.

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Postby splinkygb on Sun Aug 03, 2008 5:29 am

Donna: You are sexy. Wish there were women like you in my office! 8)
Fit, intelligent, muscular & modest too! ;-)

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Postby sally wey on Sun Aug 03, 2008 10:58 am

donna31 wrote:David brought our parcels today about lunch. i was the only one in the front, the receptionist was out to lunch, the boss was in his office taking his power nap and everybody else was out on calls. David said he was disappointed that my top was too high and he couldn't get a peek. i took him down the salesmen's hallway and i let him feel my breasts. he said he can't wait until saturday and i said you can't wait until tomorrow?? he asked for a kiss. he said he didn't want to just do it and mess up my makeup. i told him i had been hoping for a kiss. we kissed a couple of times and he put his hand under my skirt and rubbed my pussy. it was really a turn on because anyone of the salesmen could have come back while we were messing a round. he asked what time he was to pick me up and i suggested 9am and he said he will be there. i can't wait either.
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hope everything went well on saturday with David and Melvin enjoyed you telling him, hope your legs arnt too bowed, catch you later love Sally
Im a housewife, we live in DEVON england and we love the countryside, we are into threesomes, and love sex

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