I am very confused and hurting at the moment......I have been seeing a girl for 8 weeks (early days I know) but since my divorce some 3 years ago I have had a fair few short 'flings I suppose' but have always lost interest despite the girls chasing me to stay!
Well in this case I have just fallen for her big time and the more I see of her the more I fall for her.
The trouble is she has started to blow hot and cold......this has really knocked me back because in the first few weeks she just could not keep her hands off me and was saying the most caring passionate things!
She even went and had a contraceptive implant.
The problem is she is now saying she feels funny??....sometimes just crys....and one minute she is like she was......I mean wow sooo hot and all over me again......next day or even later that day she is a bit distant.
I have asked her were I stand but she says she can't quite 'put her finger on why she has backed off'??........Now I know this is all wrong but for the first time in my life I have started to chase her sending her messages telling her how much I care for her and that I am hurting.
She called me today and said she really doe not know what to do but feels that I am am now 'drowning her' and I will force her into making a rash decision!...
The confusing thing for me is that I stopped sending her txtx and calling and then she sends me a txt asking if I was ok and how is work etc......?......but not the txt she used to send telling me how much she fancied me etc....
Any advice welcome.....I really like this girl shall I back right off and just see what she ends up deciding?.....I have never been this side of the fence and it hurts BIG TIME.
BTW....we are both divorced and have two kids each...very similar ages that get on well together.........she said to me she has never had anybody fall for her in the way I have and this has taken her a back....she is also wondering about teh effects of the implant as her sex drive is not what it was........again BTW sex between us was electric!......she has moments when she wants sex with me but before the implant she was like a nympho !!...LOL
Pleae help advise me
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