not goin well

[worried_08]

can any 1 help me, i jst found out on saturday dat im 5 weeks pregnant and i went to the doctors to day and they told me i have an ectopic pregnancy, does any 1 know how long ur baby can survive like this??

[Mr B]

I cant believe the doctor didnt tell you. You need to phone him/her and ask

[worried_08]

should the doc have told me how long it can survive??
ive been doin loads of research about ectopic pregnancies and its scaring me. i started bleeding yesterday when i came home from the doctors and right this minuite am im writing this message im gettin a lot of pain in my lower abdomen and in my back, should i go to the hospitial and get this checked out???

wb asap

[Mr B]

If you're worried about anything you should go back to hospital. Before you go you should write down all the questions you want to ask in case you forget. You shouldnt be sitting there worried, get it sorted tomorrow.

[worried_08]

i havent been to the hospitial yet, it was just the doctors i was at and they said if i had any pains in my stomach to go dwn and explain to the maternity ward wats goin on n they can get me a scan. the only thing is i havent tld my boyfriend im pregnant and if i was to menation wat an ectopic pregnancy is he would break his heart, i believe the baby is going to die any way, if it doesnt in the felopian tube the doctors will have to kill it as it wont b able go grow inside da felopian tube.

do you think im wrong for nat telling him?
i just fell its better having one broken heart instead of 2

[Mr B]

No i dont think its wrong not telling him