Peeing in public!

[Janet1986]

Like others I've had my desperate moments, and when possible I'd certainly prefer to discretely pee outside, but sometimes being discrete is impossible. I'm not modest, but I won't go around pulling my pants and panties down, or my skirt up and panties, down on a busy street. So in those moments I've ended up desperate looking for a toilet, but on occasion not making it on time and soaking myself, or finally finding one and just as I got there beginning to wet myself. I know this is not unusual, but it can be pretty embarrasing especially if you're wearing pants or jeans. God, that's happened to me when I've had to get home with soaked pants on...you get more thana few looks. I've even a few times after I've wet myself, gone into a store to buy dry clothes; and yes, the female sales people were very sympathetic, and one time she said that the same thing happened to her.

[Elaine271]

I sometimes go in my pants when I can't get to a bathroom. I usually wear skirts when I'm out shopping so it is easy to get away with it. My wet underwear dries pretty quickly, so no one really knows. I think I learned the technique from my cousin and her mother. They both did it.

Our families had gone to a resort for the weekend and while sunning ourselves at the pool I noticed a dripping coming from under Sarah's lounge chair. She was wetting in her blue bikini as though it was the most casual think to do. Later we walked up to the bar for a glass of wine. She was walking in front of me and it was fairly obvious that she'd wet herself. When I asked her why she wet in her bikini, she said it was nothing and that a lot of people do it. She also said that her mother regularly wet in her swimsuit rather that walk all the way to the bathrooms.

[Sarah64]

Elaine, your message struck a chord with me. It is some years since I had a full flood in my knickers but I do find that if I have an urgent need to wee and have to hold on a long time I leak. You are right, it is easier wearing a skirt and can save embarrassment. Sometimes my knickers do get quite wet.

I was interested in your comment about your mother and cousin. While |I did not have that experience I do remember, when I was still living at home, twice finding a pair of my mother's very wet knickers in the laundry basket.

[rough silk]

It happens to blokes as well but usually when we have waited to get home with a bellyful of beer and then we can't find our keys.

Then, after the keys turn up, the keyhole goes into hiding and the little dance of urgency - hopping from one leg to the other - stops working its magic and things start to get get really desperate. What happens next depends on where we live and it might include risking the possibility of arrest but it doesn't include peeing in our pants.

[Skimpy]

I have no problem with peeing outside. Infact I get turned on by it! Is there any other girls out there who finds it arousing?

I dont do it in full view of everyone like alot of men do which I think is horrible especially if its in a doorway, stairwell, lift etc. They may as well have a sign on their back saying "I only care about myself". Discusting and inconsiderate. They want to be seen which is odd.

If Im out somewhere and theres no loos I just find somewhere else to go. I can do it standing up and against a wall if i wear a skirt. Women are taught to sit but if you spread and lift your lips the right way it shoots out big style. I think the shortage of public loos is bad too. They have those stinky outdoor urinals for men at the weekend but theres nothing for women. This is so wrong.

I recently bought a Whiz and I highly recommend it for every woman out there. I think it is. You will never have to worry about dirty public loos ever again. Its a device that makes it very easy to pee standing. You can use it even when wearing trousers. I bet in time there will be urinals for women. Imagine using the Whiz on a night out in 1 of those outdoor urinals! That would definately cause a stir amongst the men wouldnt it! Ha!

[Guest688]

damn rite that would cause a stir against blokes haha!

[Guest688]

Sorry meant to say amongst blokes :L

[Guest]

Something would stir!

[suki&pete]

I wouldnt pee were people could see me if I was out for a walk in the country and needed to go I would go behind an bush or somthing and get my husband to watch out for me

[AngelaSF]

I think your cousin was probably right, Elaine, and wetting ones swimsuit is not all that uncommon. Once my mother told me to just do it, but in my knickers, not my swimsuit. We were on the way home and I was absolutely bursting. I told my mother I did not think I could make it and , to my surprise, she told me just to do it in my knickers. Well, I was so desperate that I did. I was not a lttle girl but 16 at the time. When we were home, my mother said it was nothing to worry about and that on several occasions when she had been desperate she had wet her knickers.

[taragon]

I think your cousin was probably right, Elaine, and wetting ones swimsuit is not all that uncommon. Once my mother told me to just do it, but in my knickers, not my swimsuit. We were on the way home and I was absolutely bursting. I told my mother I did not think I could make it and , to my surprise, she told me just to do it in my knickers. Well, I was so desperate that I did. I was not a lttle girl but 16 at the time. When we were home, my mother said it was nothing to worry about and that on several occasions when she had been desperate she had wet her knickers.

I just thought I would add that during the 19th century this was not uncommon. In those days most women wore full skirts but no undergarments. Of course there were seldom any public facilities. Men peed wherever they wanted whilst women usually found a patch of grass, opened their legs a little, then relieved themselves discreetly.

[Drummer]

Um. Pissing in public, other than in dire emergencies are acceptable in two circumstances.

One, is if you do it on natural terrain, such as soil, grass or against trees. The only time it is acceptable to do it on concrete or tarmac is when its pissing rain and its gonna get washed away anyway.

Obviously, it should only be done when toilets are unavailable. Doing it during the day with lots of people around is distasteful. The exception being if you are in a rural setting where there are little or no people around anyway.

[McPee]

Very true, so are some nightclub toilets; bogs would be a more appropriate word for them. There was one night I went to the gents, and there was a bit of a queue coz all the cubicles and spaces at the urinal were full. While I was waiting, a drunk guy pushed through the queue, saw that there was a queue, and decided to piss in the corner instead. Thank God he was quickly thrown out by the bouncers

[McPee]

Some public loos are disgusting.

Very true, so are some nightclub toilets; bogs would be a more appropriate word for them. There was one night I went to the gents, and there was a bit of a queue coz all the cubicles and spaces at the urinal were full. While I was waiting, a drunk guy pushed through the queue, saw that there was a queue, and decided to piss in the corner instead. Thank God he was quickly thrown out by the bouncers

[r2]

I often need to pee urgently when I am out - the solution - nappies ! It may sound a bit odd but they have really helped me ! You can just go wherever and whenever you need to. I now wear them whenever I am going to be out for more than say 30 minutes and it means I can completely forget about my bladder and I just don't need to stop what I am doing to find the loo. ..... and there is never a need to queue!
r2