please offer some advice

[needhelp]

i know this is a women's forum, but what a better place to look...

i am going to have sex with my virgin girlfriend for the first time in the next week. i love her and she loves me, nothing will ever change that, we will get married unless one of us dies in the next 5 years, we are inseperable.

she's on the pill, but i'm still wearing a condom

when i fingered her in past months, i never went in, nor has any guy at all

she's VERY tight and sensitive down there, as you can imagine

i was wondering, besides a water based lube + lubricated condoms, if there is anything i can do to make the experience more pleasurable and less painful, so she isn't so scared.

i'm 8 inches, we measured, and i hear that the vagina is only 6 long, is that a rumor? if not, help

btw, we're doing it on valentines day, so if theres anything romantically special i could do to make her feel more aroused and stuff, please leave ideas...

mind you, my parents live with me, i'm 17, so keep it in retrospect. ( but i can still do nice things in my room, with a lock on the door )

[BoyWonder]

I suggest for one, alot of foreplay, especially with giving her oral while using your fingers inside her. This will help her to relax and accept you more when you dive in. It will also make her extremely wet.

If her Hymen is still intact (they do break without having sex, from like physically demanding things like sports, karate, cheerleading etc..) she will likely feel a bit of pain when you break it. If she does, dont move for about 15-20 seconds, then begin slowly moving in and out.

But you pretty much got the most important part, lube. Even though she will be extremely tight, you should be able to fit.

And don't worry about how deep her vagina in. Noone ever said the penis has to go to the hilt But the fact is, the average vagina is 6 inches deep. Not every vagina.