Whats wrong?

[kell0]

I am so confused.

I met this guy back in August 2004 he made all the moves chatting me up flirting etc. he asked for my number a few weeks after we met so i gave him it, he seemed really keen. It was a week before he txt me which i thought was really strange, then he was txt me everyday. At the end of the week he told me his ex was wanting to get back with him and that he was considering it as they had been together for 2 years and he still loved her. which knocked me a bit, why try and get in about with me if he was going to get back with her.

Anyway they got back together and we stayed friends but he was always flirting and carrying on like he was before, except when his girlfriend came in then he would stay away from me all nite. so in November i said enough was enough and that we couldnt be mates.

That was the end of it until March this year he called me up and told me how long he'd been missing me for and that him and his ex had split up before xmas. Anyway we got back in contact started talking and getting along. I ended up back at his house and we slept together. The next morning he was talking about how he really liked me and wanted to be together. That was teh last i heard form him now he wont talk to me and its all excuses about why he hasnt called me and stuff. so i walked away from him. obviously he was only after one thing.

This week i got a txt from a number i didnt know which turned out to be him he wants to see me. what's he playing at? do you think he never really wanted me he just likes using me? or do you think he's just scared i'll try and tie him down.

[*sarah*]

If i were you i would delete his number from your phone and not reply to any texts you get, why should you be messed around, your not at his beck and call, when he feels like getting his touch, move on if i were you, but only you can make the choice.


gook luck

[Pargac143]

I was in the same exact situation you are, about 6 years ago. My advice is just stay away. Me and my guy didn't speak for a year after I finally said no to him going back and forth b/t me and the other girl. Then he showed up on my doorstep and it started all over again. You know it has been 4 years since we were last together and I still think about him sometimes. So save yourself the heartache and get out now.

[Pink Blues]

I thought I had posted on this one before but maybe I only read and had the intention of posting...anyway...I'm sure you don't care.

I agree w/ the others...this guy is a cad of the first order, a playa, a jack ass...I could say other things but it would be to vulgar. He used you and that is just plain messed up. Why people do this to others I will never get for one second. He sounds pretty weak and needy...and in that pathetic parasitic kind of way...not quite a fungus..or a mold...more like a tape worm or bacteria. Don't fret about it too much that you slept with him ( I hope he was at least good in the sack ) you can shake him out of your hair and chalk it up to a pessamistic lesson in life and move forward. I wouldn't respond to any atempts he makes to contact in the future...which he most likely will...most perasites do.

Give yourself some good self love and tell yourself your a good gal you has a right to be pissed and a right to feel hurt and then let it go. He isn't worth wasting a good heart on.


Take care,
Pink

[babes]

I thought I had posted on this one before but maybe I only read and had the intention of posting...anyway...I'm sure you don't care.

I agree w/ the others...this guy is a cad of the first order, a playa, a jack ass...I could say other things but it would be to vulgar. He used you and that is just plain messed up. Why people do this to others I will never get for one second. He sounds pretty weak and needy...and in that pathetic parasitic kind of way...not quite a fungus..or a mold...more like a tape worm or bacteria. Don't fret about it too much that you slept with him ( I hope he was at least good in the sack ) you can shake him out of your hair and chalk it up to a pessamistic lesson in life and move forward. I wouldn't respond to any atempts he makes to contact in the future...which he most likely will...most perasites do.

Give yourself some good self love and tell yourself your a good gal you has a right to be pissed and a right to feel hurt and then let it go. He isn't worth wasting a good heart on.


Take care,
Pink

Well said

[preciosa]

kell0,

You was asking these...
"what's he playing at? do you think he never really wanted me he just likes using me? or do you think he's just scared i'll try and tie him down."

My personal opinion is that he looks for you whenever the gf lets him down, as a way to feel powerful and revengeful and be like.. "Well, she was bad, so I have someone else available for me out there (u)".

Some people do this, they have a second card awaiting and ready to get in the game, because that´s what it is, a game that suits him because you let him.

I´d suggest to STOP this, because you worth more than that. Tell him off next time and good luck, Im sure you will find a man good enough 2 offer you a serious relationship based on love and care...not in impulsive ways!

[babes]

I think he's only txting you again cause he's after one thing, if you allow this and have sex with him he's going to think it's okay to carry on doing it. You seem like you have more respect for yourself than that, find someone who wants you for you and not just sex.

Good luck xx