I have never lost my
bikini bottoms swimming in the sea with the ways, however i have lost my
bikini top jumping off a really high diving board into a diving pool at an aquatic centre in Auckland

it was so embarrassing because I had my little cousins with me who i was looking after for the day.
Jinjin with you finding it hard to pee in cold water, that is normal too. Alot of people have to be completely relaxed to do it, esp if you are a bit nervous or embarrassed to go in the ocean. I figure if i cant go then that great because i can hold it but mostly it comes out anyway.