I wear spiked heels because I love what they do for my legs and looks. Of course, my stilettos press dents and holes into some types of flooring. A "friend" of mine recently asked me to please not wear my heels in her house because I have apparently pressed permanent dents into the linoleum.

But that's not my gripe. It's what she said next: "Pam, you're just too BIG A WOMAN (she mean't "heavy") to wear spike heels."

Yes, I am a tall and big-boned woman, but I'm sure I'm not the only heel wearer that presses heel prints into things she walks on. This gal makes it seem like I'm a 15-ton bus and the only woman in the world who leaves her "mark".