why not be slutty?

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Postby Buffed on Tue Jun 14, 2005 11:52 pm

. wrote:And to slutty, slutty can have many meanings. I used one type of slutty, people who sleep around because of low esteem and/or peer pressure.
There are ''sluts'' who F*** around without having low esteem and slutty behaviour isn't reserved for people who F*** around, slutty can be found in the bedrooms of people with deep connections.

I said it's valueless for me and i would say counterproductive for those who F*** around because of low selfesteem. It's empty for some and enough for others, and not enough for me. My choice. You have yours.


On the one hand, you still denounce the concept of "slutty" as somehow bad for everyone, not just you, then espouse freedom of choice.

If the latter comment is your view, then we have no argument. But that doesn't jive with the stance you've been taking and still took in the first half of your post there.

But, there's no need for us to hijack this into a 2 person argument. If the last sentence is your view, we have no point of contention. So we can just let it go then, agreed? :)

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Postby Guest on Wed Jun 15, 2005 2:08 am

Buffed wrote:On the one hand, you still denounce the concept of "slutty" as somehow bad for everyone, not just you, then espouse freedom of choice.


No, i'm a slut in my own way.

If the latter comment is your view, then we have no argument. But that doesn't jive with the stance you've been taking and still took in the first half of your post there.


I think there are different types of sluttiness, as i've pointed out before.
Some i agree with, others i have problems with and some i find downright sad to yucky. I believe many people sleep around due to low selfesteem (i've seen this often enough in women) and peer pressure. I find nothing enlightening in that but rather desperate and that in all the wrong ways.

People who have no problems sleeping around are also of no interest to me, i'm immediately turned off when i know a guy has been with many women, anti-aphrodisiac. There's a non deepness in having no strings sex that puts me off heavily. I need the big thing, fullstop. everything else just doesn't cut it.

But yeah, you do your thing, i do mine.

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Postby Guest on Wed Jun 15, 2005 2:11 am

I can be pro choice, even if i don't like the lifestyle someone has. After all, it's not my life. I'm not arrogant enough to tell someone how to live but i can tell them what i think about how they live.

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