how do you show a girl you love her?

[cheesy]

and how different are you towards her if you are cheating ? i mean more sex less sex nastier, nicer ,, what??

[Buffed]

Cheated and want to try to make up for it?

Rather than trying to find ways to "make up for it", just don't cheat. If you don't want to be in an exclusive relationship, then don't. There's nothing wrong with dating several women at the same time, just don't agree to be exclusive with any if them unless you really want to. And then if you do, don't betray that trust.

If you have, and regret doing it, then don't ever let her know. It'll only ruin things. She'll likely never trust you again (and justly so). You're better off repenting on your own and making sure you stay faithful from this point on.

[cheesy]

no nothing like that i am a woman and i suspect my man of cheating so just looking out for changes u know how it is

[Buffed]

In that case, why do you suspect him? (specifically)

[Guest]

F*** her up the arse

[cheesy]

i found out he was flirting with a co worker ( stuff he said to his mates when he thought i couldn't hear) so i decided to see if it was just flirting or something more did a little detective work and caught him saying that he couldn't stop thinking about her and stuff well i confronted him and he was like it was flirting mmmmm yeah ok then so anyway i have just been wondering if he may show any guilt through his actions with me ,, because i honestly can't find anything that says he did anything and believe me i have tried even going as far as to record his conversations sad yes but i need to know

[Buffed]

If you can't find anything, then it sounds like you are taking this either out of context, or too far, or maybe even both.

Certainly you are going too far in your pursuit of this. It sounds as if you flat out do not trust him and refuse to do so. You are then running everything through that filter and taking the stance of just not having found the evidence "yet".

I can't tell you any specific action or comment that any given guy will take in such a situation, but I can tell you that perhaps you're better off just leaving and finding someone you feel you can trust, because this one is on the road to destruction. It's no basis for a good relationship. And remember the Judas Priest back-masking trial. Often, if you look hard enough for something you will find it, even if it's not actually there.