advice (anyone)

[sweetie44]

Can you help with a question I have

I (female) have recently become attracted to another female
and I think she is in me to, but she's always sending mixed signals,
(blowing me kisses, kissing me on top of the head, temping me once to kiss her and with tongue, telling me if she were a lesbian she's be hitting on me, she likes my but _but then she blows me off like she doesn't even like me at all) and snaps at me alot.


she swears she's madly in love with this new man
(which I believe) I'm married so that doesn't surprise me.


Is there a way to know for sure if she is attracted to me and how to get her to make a move.
Is there a way I can make her jealous?

Desperate

[goingnuts]

Sweetie, register yourself here so I can send you an IM.

In the meantime, it sounds like your friend is just leading you on, and playing stupid games. Is there any way you can ask her if she is being serious or not?

[sweetie44]

No I can't ask her (Not only am I very shy) but I have never even thought about being with a woman till her, Plus (she's my boss)

[Baby_Baby_Girl_12345]

Why don't you try to make little hints/moves...like brush by her in a discrete way once and a while, or "accidently" place your hand so it's touching hers and see how she reacts... that way...if she seems to be interested...you might be more comforable bringing it up...just a thought GOod luck

[sweetie44]

thanks I'll try it. (I just hope I can read any signals) I'm new to this and I've been told I'm naive