how long you going to be "Bi curious" for.

[naughty_girl]

Hiya Girls

I have read many posts from 'bi curious" girls wanting advice to talk, ect, and wondered if its a new thing, like being "bi curious" is a new label for women? like it separates you from any other people that are bored in a hetrosexual relationship?

Sorry but loads of you are married (many "happily") and it seems like you not actually ever going to do anything about these fantasises/desires but you get your kicks from this site?

[Lena]

Hi , Not me . Bi is my life.........................

[constantly becoming]

very curious. a woman expresses herself in what is self-titled as a safe forum and is condescended to by those who don't seem to recall their own first uncertainties. i wonder if naughty girl would care to suggest a timeline after which someone who has "fantasies" not acted upon is outed as just a poser trying on the flavor of the month, and not the "real thing", like her.

[goingnuts]

I have to agree with Constantly Becoming.
I suppose have been "Bi-Curious" since i was 14, having never actually taken the plunge and slept with a woman. Not because i wanted to sit on the fence and have some fashionable label, but because i just couldn't pluck up the courage to find out if the women I fancied were that way inclined also.

Now it is worse...I am married, and I truly believed that getting married would squash the feelings towards women. ...I was wrong...Now I have much more to lose if I come out of the closet!
I have been very much attracted to a woman who has now become a close friend. I have been fighting inner turmoil over her for the past couple of years. Who knows if i will ever take the plunge...though i truly want to. I just don't have the confidence.

[tattoodles]

I am exactly the same. For some strange reason we seem to think that marriage will "cure" us when all it actually does is make things even more complicated!. I too have become very close to a female friend. I think I made friends with her because I was attracted to her and now I'm scared of telling her how I feel because of the fear of rejection...hope this makes sense. Anyway, its good, in a way, to know that there are other women out there that are in similar situations as me and I would love to talk to anyone who thinks they can help or just wants to chat.

I guess i'm looking for someone who I can start a friendship with and then who knows what might develop.

[sweetie44]

I have been attracted to a woman who has now become a close friend. I have been fighting inner turmoil as well over her for the past couple of months. Who knows if i will ever take the plunge...though i really really want to. I just don't have the confidence. I'm scared of telling her how I feel because of the fear of rejection. she also has just gotten involved with a man and is trying not to have feelings for me ( which I'm sure she does). I can't make a move on her, she will have to make the move on me. She has teased me in ways that drive me mad and then tortures me by acting like she doesn't want near me. She feels for me what I feel for her, but because of her actions (mixed signals) I will not make a move and if she doesn't nothing will come of it.
She's making me crazy!

[tattoodles]

Well, I've already taken my first steps....i have told 2 of my friends that I am bi, guess I was just looking for a reaction, practising for when I drop the bomb shell on my best mate. So far so go, 1 friend was totally fine with it and the other has mixed views, guess its just gunna take a while for her to get used to it. I found it easier than I thought to tell these two but the big one is my best mate.

In a way i'm hoping that she be fine with it but the fear of rejection worries me. But, as she is my best friend I guess she deserves to know. At the end of the day by not telling her I suppose I am lying to her which makes it worse.

Part of me thinks "just go out there and have some fun 1st to make sure that I am definately bi" but trying to meet someone is proving extremely difficult!!

Anyone think they can help