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Should I make my wife's fantasy come true

Postby sevensisters on Thu Aug 23, 2007 3:12 pm

I was reading an old post from 2005 on the subject of 3some sex where a married lady was deliberating as whether or not to agree to her husbands request to have a MFM experience. My wife and I have been together for over 20 years and I have asked her on may occasions if she would like to have a MFM experience as while we are having sex she has her best orgasms when I talk to her about another man being present. However, when we talk about it later she says it is only fantasy. I would love to make her fantasy reality as the idea really turns me on. We have, what I consider, a healthy sex life and have tried many things in private but should I fix it to happen as I am sure we would both love it.

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Postby IVAN on Thu Aug 23, 2007 3:40 pm

I dont see why any man would want to see his wife or gf being shagged by another bloke!???.... all seems a bit gay to me!... :o :? :shock:

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Postby genekelly on Thu Aug 23, 2007 3:57 pm

Trust me, once you've shot your load you won't have that fantasy any more. Your wife is trying to protect you.

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Postby WHO on Thu Aug 23, 2007 4:32 pm

I for one have enjoyed my wife's being with another man. I was not present. But her telling me about it was very erotic. But it is obvious that this is not for everyone.

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Postby Guest on Thu Aug 23, 2007 5:47 pm

WHO wrote:I for one have enjoyed my wife's being with another man. I was not present. But her telling me about it was very erotic. But it is obvious that this is not for everyone.


You should charge the guys for her services.
You don't want ytour wife to look dumber than a street w h o r e do you?

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Postby Guest on Thu Aug 23, 2007 9:39 pm

. wrote:
WHO wrote:I for one have enjoyed my wife's being with another man. I was not present. But her telling me about it was very erotic. But it is obvious that this is not for everyone.


You should charge the guys for her services.
You don't want ytour wife to look dumber than a street w h o r e do you?


She's already smarter than than him. She isn't the one thinking about going through with it. If she does, I have a fiver!

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Postby Guest on Fri Aug 24, 2007 6:46 pm

genekelly wrote:Trust me, once you've shot your load you won't have that fantasy any more. Your wife is trying to protect you.


seconded

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Postby sexy co on Sun Aug 26, 2007 5:23 pm

This is a major fantasy for my SO. He loves to talk durty with me during sex, about other guys shagging me. I must admit, I get really wet and cum like a train when he tells me about what he fantasisies about.

For some reason, he likes me to tell him that the other guys were way bigger than him and better. Dont know why he likes that??? In his fantasy, i am on the bed with one or two "big" guys and he watches me, then joins in later for seconds. As I said, the sex is ace when we talk this way, but I dont see what he gets from it. Any guys want to comment?

I know he has no gay interests, so that cant be it

Any help?

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Postby lucylegs on Mon Aug 27, 2007 12:43 am

sexy co wrote:This is a major fantasy for my SO. He loves to talk durty with me during sex, about other guys shagging me. I must admit, I get really wet and cum like a train when he tells me about what he fantasisies about.

For some reason, he likes me to tell him that the other guys were way bigger than him and better. Dont know why he likes that??? In his fantasy, i am on the bed with one or two "big" guys and he watches me, then joins in later for seconds. As I said, the sex is ace when we talk this way, but I dont see what he gets from it. Any guys want to comment?

I know he has no gay interests, so that cant be it

Any help?
He's one of them pansy types that likes to be dominated and humiliated

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Postby jinjin on Mon Aug 27, 2007 4:07 am

She already told you that it is a fantasy and she has no desire to turn it into a fetish. No matter how adventurous you may be, you need to respect her wishes. Otherwise, you risk destroying your relationship.
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Postby azraelle on Mon Aug 27, 2007 6:20 am

jinjin wrote:She already told you that it is a fantasy and she has no desire to turn it into a fetish. No matter how adventurous you may be, you need to respect her wishes. Otherwise, you risk destroying your relationship.

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Dunno bout that

Postby sexy co on Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:06 am

He is not submissive and I can tell you, he is no wooos.

Any guys or gals have similar experience to share. What do you think he gets out of hearing me talk this way/

Co

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Re: Dunno bout that

Postby lucylegs on Mon Aug 27, 2007 5:13 pm

sexy co wrote:He is not submissive and I can tell you, he is no wooos.

Any guys or gals have similar experience to share. What do you think he gets out of hearing me talk this way/

Co
Well i'm sorry but if he wants to be humiliated by a bigger guy banging his girl then he is a wuss. My man is a real man and thats the way I like it

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Postby sexy co on Mon Aug 27, 2007 8:01 pm

For the record, we have not and are unlikely to ever actualy do this. For us, it's just a role play.

All I was wondering, was what he got out of this, as per my comments above.

Is there any other gals out there, or even guy's who do sinilar that can tell me what he gets out of it. For me it's just the dirtty talking, either me telling him or vice versa of what I got up to in our imaginations.

C

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Re: Dunno bout that

Postby Guest on Mon Aug 27, 2007 8:03 pm

sexy co wrote:He is not submissive and I can tell you, he is no wooos.

Any guys or gals have similar experience to share. What do you think he gets out of hearing me talk this way/

Co

so hot :wink:

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