Should I make my wife's fantasy come true

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Postby Guest on Mon Aug 27, 2007 11:43 pm

As a guy, I can tell you I do get off on the idea of another guy banging my girl. But! Only cause i don't love her she's just a F*** buddy, and I def don't have no desire to be humiliated by a bigger guy, thats just weird.

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Postby the ashamed on Wed Aug 29, 2007 12:29 pm

Hi sexy co
Well, this is how I see it, firstly this is quite a common fantasy for blokes, some go through with it and some keep it a fantasy, I also fantasize with my G/F about her and another guy, and the reason is, it is the proverbial forbidden fruit, I dont really want it to happen, but the thought of it makes me as horny as hell, I guess blokes like us like the idea of the sexy slut in the bedroom who has no limits to what she would do. If the idea also turns you on, then keep the dirty talk going as long as you both want to.
next time you talk dirty with him, before he reaches the point of no return, tell him you have been thinking about it and you are really going to do it and make him watch, then tell him after you were only kidding, you will drive him crazy with lust and passion. hope that help:)

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Postby dealer on Sun Sep 02, 2007 6:12 pm

sexy co
I let another guy join us once. It was nothing to do with being submissive, gay or inadequate as many seem to pressume we have a fantsatic love life and chose to do this as a one off experience and as part of an ongoing fantasy.

I get a huge amount of pleasure and satisfaction from seeing her happy stimulated, aroused and satisfied. This makes the whole sex thing much better, in fact I would rather not bother if in any way she wasn't enjoying it. So to see her massively turned on in this one off situation was a very erotic thing for us both.
The whole thing was set up to ensure it was about the two of us having fun. The other guy was only involved when we wanted and in the position we wanted, we could say we used him, but he was more then happy with that!
We f*cked like mad together as soon as he left.

You have to only do this kind of thing after considerable discussion, agreement and understanding of limits and why you want to and when both agree.

My wife now plans to get turned on watching a woman give me a handjob for just the same reasons.

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Postby Guest on Sun Sep 02, 2007 10:50 pm

dealer wrote:sexy co
I let another guy join us once. It was nothing to do with being submissive, gay or inadequate as many seem to pressume we have a fantsatic love life and chose to do this as a one off experience and as part of an ongoing fantasy.

I get a huge amount of pleasure and satisfaction from seeing her happy stimulated, aroused and satisfied. This makes the whole sex thing much better, in fact I would rather not bother if in any way she wasn't enjoying it. So to see her massively turned on in this one off situation was a very erotic thing for us both.
The whole thing was set up to ensure it was about the two of us having fun. The other guy was only involved when we wanted and in the position we wanted, we could say we used him, but he was more then happy with that!
We f*cked like mad together as soon as he left.

You have to only do this kind of thing after considerable discussion, agreement and understanding of limits and why you want to and when both agree.

My wife now plans to get turned on watching a woman give me a handjob for just the same reasons.


I got a $20 bill for her! :twisted:

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Postby mr incredible on Sun Sep 02, 2007 11:12 pm

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nope
on the balance of probabilities its true!!

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Postby BIGBOY500 on Mon Sep 03, 2007 3:33 pm

dealer wrote:sexy co
I let another guy join us once. It was nothing to do with being submissive, gay or inadequate as many seem to pressume we have a fantsatic love life and chose to do this as a one off experience and as part of an ongoing fantasy.

I get a huge amount of pleasure and satisfaction from seeing her happy stimulated, aroused and satisfied. This makes the whole sex thing much better, in fact I would rather not bother if in any way she wasn't enjoying it. So to see her massively turned on in this one off situation was a very erotic thing for us both.
The whole thing was set up to ensure it was about the two of us having fun. The other guy was only involved when we wanted and in the position we wanted, we could say we used him, but he was more then happy with that!
We f*cked like mad together as soon as he left.

You have to only do this kind of thing after considerable discussion, agreement and understanding of limits and why you want to and when both agree.

My wife now plans to get turned on watching a woman give me a handjob for just the same reasons.


Doesnt it bother you though to see the woman you love having fun by being shagged by another bloke???.... I find that plain weird to be honest!... I find the thought of any other bloke porking my gf absolutely disgusting!... other ladies though are fine!.... :lol: 8) :lol:

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Postby similar? on Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:17 pm

my guy encouraged me so i got another guy to eat me out *After he had loaded me up.

what *Fun that was having another guy eat me clean and marveling at how wet and `lubricated i was. :lol:

took a pic of the clean-up eater and showed my guy who laughed cuz its a higher up at his work!

another fantasy idea my guy has that im also wanting to try is finding a sub guy to use abuse and treat as a pos sex slave.

am a bit concerned about getting stds but i dont plan on doing-it or giving oral either so not to woried.

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Postby Guest_1001 on Tue Sep 04, 2007 11:44 pm

Sexy co, there's a fetish that involves guys being aroused by being cuckolded. In other words, a bigger guy (a "real man") having sex with you while you have to watch. It's kind of a "you can't satisfy my needs so I have to find someone who can" mentality. It's a turn on to be humiliated in such a way. Personally, I think it's something I would prefer to keep as a fantasy. Even though I'm submissive, I wouldn't like my wife or girlfriend to be involved with another man.

As for jumping in for seconds . . . that's a bit more unusual. I've heard of the submissive one (i.e. - the man who just watched you get humped) "clean up" afterwards but not actually having sex with you himself afterwards.

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Postby sexy co on Thu Sep 06, 2007 11:34 pm

Guy's,

For the record, we won't ever do the share/watch thing. We love it as a fantasy, but I just wondered what he got out of it.

I did as suggested in an earlier post and told him I was going to do it and even who with and he went wild with the horn. After I told him quickly I was only teasing.

But, I still dont have a definitive reply on what he really gets out of this...........any ideas??
Co

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Postby Guest on Sun Sep 16, 2007 7:42 pm

I am not sure what he gets out of it, but my fantasy is to see my boyfriend having sex with another woman! the thought drives me mad, and me and my boyfriend are planning on acting out this fantasy soon.

for me its weird, I think i like the feeling of a little jealousy, the fact that MY boyfriend is giving pleasure to a woman, the fact he comes to me after, not sure!

I always felt a bit weird! to be honest, I have never ever found a guy who was willing to act this out and you would have thought they would be jumping at the bit! until this guy!

Dont worry about what others say, whether they think its weird, silly or plain stupid, its YOUR fantasy, and if we were all the same we would be boring!

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Re: Update

Postby avantissimo on Wed Sep 19, 2007 3:38 pm

sexy co wrote:Guy's,

For the record, we won't ever do the share/watch thing. We love it as a fantasy, but I just wondered what he got out of it.

I did as suggested in an earlier post and told him I was going to do it and even who with and he went wild with the horn. After I told him quickly I was only teasing.

But, I still dont have a definitive reply on what he really gets out of this...........any ideas??
Co


What drives me crazy when my girl tells me that she is sucking one C*** (what is a dildos
Like your bf im not bi curious or a sub or anything like this... i just want her to be my little slut that wants get gangbanged... har har har :lol:

I want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed :D

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Should I make my wife's fantasy come true

Postby pjay on Wed Sep 19, 2007 6:33 pm

Sexy Co,

We are all differant but I have never experienced a level of excitement comparable to when my wife told me something naught she wanted to do!

I am not bi-curious into humiliation or domination but my wife being so horney she could take on two guys, takes me to unbelievable heights of arousal, I even came once without being touched just by her telling me what she would like.

Is it that it is raw sex with no question of it being wifely duty or is it a throw back from caveman days to ensure more likely hood of women being impregnated by more than one partner.

We only discovered the effect this has on me by accident, but it seems quite a common fantasy but in various guises which can include humiliation etc. but that is not my cup of tea.

Yes we took it further and it was amazing and neither of us regret it!
Look again and you will see the cup of water is half full!

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Postby sexy co on Wed Sep 19, 2007 6:48 pm

Thansk for your reply.

I am not complaining cos the sex is ace when we talk this way, but I still dont know what he gets from me telling him what i would or did do with other guys. He is wild with lust and 2 b honest, it makes me wild.........and have the most intense orgasms.

Dont know if I wld actually do this tho.....have you??

C

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Postby WhiteTrash on Wed Sep 19, 2007 6:56 pm

Co, can you join FF?

I'm in the same boat as you...
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