dontott29 wrote:mothergoose wrote:During the hot summer my daughter said she was too hot in bed and had decided to sleep naked. This didn't bother me as my husband always sleeps naked as do I if the weather's hot otherwise I would normally wear a nightshirt. It was hardly surprising then that she had decided it was ok to go between her room and the bathroom while still naked. I didn't mind as it's something I've often done myself during the night.
While the weather was hot we had a family sized inflatable pool set up in the back garden. My daughter, eager to use it when she returned home from school, would often run into the garden, strip off and jump straight in without dressing in swimwear. I was a little shocked at first but wasn't worried about her being seen as our garden is very secluded and not over looked. I even tolerated her sneeking into the kitchen for a drink while still undressed.
However, as the months have gone by, she has been pushing the boundries further and further.
I have often caught her naked in her room at a time when it would normally be unusual to be like that. This has sometimes happened when she has had friends over to play; although when questioned she would say they were playing "dress up".
She has also started to come down to breakfast without getting dressed. I've told her that this is naughty and to put a robe on next time. Sometimes she does this but it isn't long before she's coming down naked again. Hubby is at work by this time. When I told him he just laughed. He thought it was "cute" to have such a young "nudist" in the family and said not to worry as she would probably soon grow out of it.
On bath nights I would dry her, then wrap the towel around her body and she would often go downstairs and sit with us on the sofa. Now it's obviously not healthy to sit around in a damp towel for too long so after a while she would be told to remove it and put a robe or T-shirt on. Needless to say the towel would be removed but that's as far as it went. When I challenge her hubby would say "What does it matter? There's only the 3 of us here and she would be going to bed shortly anyway!"
I'm not against nudity but I feel this is getting out of hand. Hubby just sees it as harmless fun but I worry that this "obsession" with being naked will get my daughter into trouble. Please help.
My 13 year old daughter can be the same,even more when she comes out her bath,when i say something,i get told,will we all ladys,so wants the problem,as i am a single mum with 3 girls,
dontott29,
I wouldn't worry about, I too am a single mother, so my 2 daughters and I have been pretty casual around the house in the same way. Were not nudists, we don't hang out all night in the nude, but we usually undress in our own bedrooms and just walk nude down the hall to the bathroom to shower, or then back to our bedrooms. I would never allow that if there were males in the house, but with it just being us 3 females no one is bothered by it.
