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Postby Karenndavid on Tue Apr 22, 2008 5:02 pm

You have a dinner date - first date - with a man because you got lonely for the man you really love. During dinner, he goes through your purse and then grabs your phone and checks your list of friends asking who is this for every one on the list? Would you go on a 2nd date with this guy?

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Postby Verve on Tue Apr 22, 2008 5:17 pm

F*ck No!

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Postby coolman on Tue Apr 22, 2008 5:20 pm

A guy perspective: I don't even go through my wife's purse. I don't open her mail and get mad if she opens mine. Dump the loser.

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Postby ZiaAries on Tue Apr 22, 2008 6:50 pm

I'd have him arrested for trespassing on my personal property. A second date? He wouldn't want a 2nd date with me after he got in my purse.
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Postby no no no on Fri Apr 25, 2008 1:05 am

never a 2nd date, would not have completed the 1st in such a case of weirdo control freakyness!

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Postby Guest on Sun May 25, 2008 1:03 pm

coolman wrote:A guy perspective: I don't even go through my wife's purse. I don't open her mail and get mad if she opens mine. Dump the loser.


well stated. Me neither after so many years. We just respect each other's privacy, without exception, but it has to do with trust as well.

Dump this guy, who appears to be a control freak. No good to come from this.

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Postby splinkygb on Sun May 25, 2008 4:39 pm

I've never done that with my GFs phone or email either.

Though she has done that with my emails. But after me telling her I wasn't happy she seems a little more relaxed now fortunately! Her ex cheated on her so I suppose thats were the insecurity came from.

He sounds a bit of a control freak to me!
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Postby minigirl on Sun May 25, 2008 4:45 pm

no way..... and once i'd finished with him he wouldn't want to either.
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Postby theblackpanther on Sun May 25, 2008 6:59 pm

DUMP---- THE LOSER ----------- :!:
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Postby Guest on Sun May 25, 2008 7:11 pm

Notta Friken Chance!

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Re: would you date a man a 2nd time who...

Postby brunettebimbo on Fri May 30, 2008 11:25 am

Karenndavid wrote:You have a dinner date - first date - with a man because you got lonely for the man you really love. During dinner, he goes through your purse and then grabs your phone and checks your list of friends asking who is this for every one on the list? Would you go on a 2nd date with this guy?


Not a chance! Could you imagine what a relationship would be like with this guy when that was only a date!

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Postby susan2434 on Sat May 31, 2008 10:16 pm

Nooo way! If he can't trust you now, he never will.

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Postby Taylor K on Sat Jun 14, 2008 6:02 pm

You said you were lonley not desperate. :lol:


First the phone....

Now:-

Imagine, you've just finished work, your co-worker is walking out with you just talking, and this guy is in his car watching, congering up all sorts of images...

Stalker..................

Scary S***...

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Postby jeyarr on Fri Jun 27, 2008 8:12 pm

No.

Don't ponder the reasons right now. There are a lot of people experienced in relationships telling you -- NO. You will know the reasons with time.

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Postby Starshine on Wed Jul 09, 2008 6:31 am

One word "No!:

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