by Guest on Thu Jul 03, 2008 5:53 pm
Quote by guest: <why do some men hate women so much, they hate women who do what they do, for instance they do not like women who have had more than 5 sexual partners. some think women should not even have sex until they are married? they do not apply this to themselves, women are suppose to just accept that they have been around the track more times than a greyhound! >
Methinks you have just had an unhappy ending to an affair and are feeling a bit miffed.
I promise you that all men don't hate women, nor do they see them as anything other than equals - different, but equal. As for your having had more than five sexual partners, it's your body to do with what you will, so you enjoy yourself. But don't expect to enjoy a successful long-term relationship if you sleep around. "round the track" is OK, but twice round the equator is a bit much.
There are many reasons why men prefer their wives/girlfriends to have limited experience. To name a few: If a woman has had many lovers, chances are she'll continue to do so. The male partner will be expected to provide for and help raise any offspring when there is no guarantee they are his. The man is afraid his "performance" and size will be compared constantly against those that have gone before. We are told constantly that, whereas men can separate the sex act from love, women cannot and always see it as an emotional thing.
It's probably a good thing for men to have had some experience before they embark on a long term relationship because that way there is a chance that they will be able to please their long term partner. I avoid use of the word marriage although it has more chance of lasting.
So if you are prepared to supply that experience for others to benefit ultimately, then good luck to you. It sounds to me, though, as if you are being used.