theunsilentgrave wrote:Dear Dianne and all others who believe urination is gross:
In response to all of the feedback left previously on this interesting thread:
We normally always think of peeing as “excess waste” and a dirty fluid that we must eject from our bodies, and that it’s so disgusting. The smell and sometimes even the look of pee can really be offensive. Most of us (not me personally) see going to the bathroom to go pee as a “nuisance” or as wasted time, or an inconvenience everywhere we are, and would never think different of that for a second, nor do most of us feel there would be any reasons to further explore anything about pee. It goes down the toilet, and that’s that, right?
Peeing is such an intimate, and beautiful thing that we all do, however not all of us really realizes how beautiful it is. Pee is our own precious waters that escape from our bodies. It is NOT waste, it is merely water, with vitamins, minerals and excess substances such as that, which were in excess so they could not be processed by the body. We often think pee inhibits tons of bacteria, especially because if left out for a period of time, begins to stink and turn brown. Urine is actually VERY sterile, even more sterile than your saliva from your mouth. Bacteria are very much attracted to the urine, and immediately begin to infestate it, much in the same way they do when an apple or banana is eaten and left out for a little while. The only time it is unsafe to drink urine, is if someone has an underlying STD, Hepatitis, Urinary Tract Infection, etc. The only thing to be concerned about in urine at the most disregarding diseases such as those is the sodium content. And, unless drunk in extremely large amounts consistently, it would have no adverse effect on one’s sodium levels. Urine, actually has a lot of positive elements and vitamins in it, it often is said to be a healing agent, as like a medicine, very good for your skin, dried or cracked skin, and for reducing cancer, heart disease, and all sorts of other illnesses with consumption or using it on the external body. It is also important to note that urine tastes nothing like it smells like. In fact it can taste much better than it smells, typically. Urine usually tastes very good when one has been drinking real fruit juices, lots of water or alcoholic beverages. Coffee, eating high amounts of protein and foods like asparagus, can make the pee extremely bitter and not desirable to taste. Generally, urine tastes like a hint of what you previously ate or drink, with an EXTREMELY salty taste, and a slight hint of acidity.
With all respects of the fact that it is essential for us to be “potty-trained” these days in this society and the customs we live in, unfortunately, it affects our ability to see the positive and rewarding and natural attributes that make our urine so special, and not waste.
It is only human and natural for either sex to be very intrigued by how the opposite sex urinates. The statement that “once you’ve seen one, you’ve seen them all” does not apply to urination, as there are all different ways in which pee comes out of our peeholes.
Neither sex is capable of more or less efficiency, trajectory, or speed capabilities of peeing over the other. However, the nature of each sexes plumbing does affect some of the attributes of how the streams work. Typically, Women require less pressure to force their pee out than men do, and can initiate pee faster than men, physically. Since Man’s plumbing is longer in length, it takes more time for the pee to exit, and more pressure to push it through its way. However, the length of time it takes one to initiate urination truly depends on the mind over body control primarily. Depending on the style of the urethra in each sex, it can also affect the stream. Also, women’s urethra locations differ. Some women have their urethras directly under their clitoris. These women usually have more ability to pee standing up and to shoot their streams faster and farther. Other women have their urethras located below their vagina, in which the urine more likely jets out in violently large, hard streams or multiple streams, and tends to dribble a lot. That being said, both types urethras and both mean as equally of women can be capable of urinating in all said ways. As with men, some men can urinate while having an erection, and other’s cant. That being said, I hope this justifies the differences between male and female urination, and does not constitute prejudice or arguments about the differences of plumbing between the sexes.
Getting back to pee being a special “intimate” thing. Our morals and ways of civilization today have taken our minds far away from what could be so beautiful about peeing. The fact is, is that we are ALL blind humans, and as humans, we are still all animals, and try to deny ourselves of being that. We belong to nature. From it we came, and to it we shall return. Peeing in front of your lover can bring a man and a woman so much closer together. How is it so special and beautiful you ask? The fact that, a man, and a woman, can free their inhibitions from one another, and have a place, and time where they can be true humans around each other, unafraid, and unashamed to share and show them the special times they spend privately with themselves during their daily lives. Being able to pee in front of your lover, is a sign of trust, and feeling at ease, and comfortable with them. Feeling you can let yourself loose, and be free, and to be the natural animals we are. Please take my statements about us being animals within reason. In fact, if you feel very uncomfortable about peeing around your partner, you do not have an established sense of trust, and should likely not be having a sexual relationship with your partner until you feel ready about being able to urinate in front of them. I am not saying you have to urinate on them or have fascinations with it, I’m saying you should be able to comfortably take a pee in the toilet or wherever, comfortably around your partner.
That being said, there is absolutely NOTHING disgusting or wrong or dirty, about one having the desire to have his/her lover pee on them, and to return the favor to their lover. As the same, with the desire to drink of his/her lover’s urine as well. The feeling of having your most special soul mate be close to you, being able to hold them, and then stare into their eyes and truly admire them, while feeling a warm jet of fluid escape from their privates can be heart-melting, and make a couple truly come closer together, and feel “as one.” The pee is special in that it is sharing something so intimate, and the fact that it is enjoying the sacred nectar or champagne that comes from one’s body. A nectar that could not be created by any other methods, except the very nature of our own bodies. Drinking one’s nectar is even more beautiful because it is the lover wanting to consume his/her partner’s precious waters, because they want to consume their own precious wine, which comes from their body, to make it symbolic as two becoming one. Drinking one another’s nectar is very meaningful, bringing the fluids from one’s body into their lover’s body. I love to drink my own lover’s nectar, because I feel as though I am drinking her love and her soul, and I am becoming a part of her. I also love to drink it because it tastes good, and on the more erotic side, drives me wild. There is nothing that feels more better, or more like heaven, than being with your partner in bed, or where have you, having you or your lover on top of one another, and urinating on each other, especially when it’s so cold. On those cold winter nights, it brings a soothing warm feeling for both of your bodies to experience and embrace. Unlike anything you could imagine.
Urination as a fetish (Golden Showers & Watersports) is quite common, many times accompanying the intimate beauty of urination with your lover. Often times, urination can be a very sexually satisfying fetish, which can majorly enhance sex, and get both partners very excited. Watching someone urinate, watching their golden flow of urine coming out of their genitals can be very exciting to see, and to watch their partner in relief as they have to go. Watching their lover wet themselves through their jeans or
knickers, or in certain private or public places and conditions can also add to the fetish, to make it more interesting. The thrill of the possibility of getting caught can also make the fetish much more appealing. The reason behind all this is because we have the mentality of peeing as being something gross, and that we aren’t supposed to do. It’s something we feel we have to hide. By saying that, I’m not suggesting you should go out in public and pee in front of everyone! What I am saying is that, this is the perfect time to stop being conservative and narrow-minded about peeing as being gross, and start using the time to explore the beauty and erotic attributes to it. You may be surprised. Urinating hobbies are not for everyone. Some people just feel it’s gross, pointless, and that urine destroys clothing or bedding. Such is untrue, and any trouble at all costs, is much worth taking out the acts of having fun with urination. It is my opinion that anyone and everyone who experiments with urination, especially with urinating with their lover and sharing it together, that there is no possible way for anyone to NOT enjoy doing it, or get some amount of excitement. However, there will be people who it does absolutely nothing for. This is not necessarily a bad thing, but if after urination experimentation, if you feel it does nothing for you or your lover, it is because you mentally have not been able to let yourself go, or find the real reasons to enjoy it. It takes a lot of mind-power, and it is also normal to have trouble peeing during situations you aren’t used to, in front of people you don’t usually pee around. You may feel you are physically unable to urinate. Not so. This is where your mind comes into control of your body. Our minds are built around the thoughts of “no toilet, no pee”. However, you can overcome the difficulty with time, practice, patience, and an open mind. Now, I’m sure you can recall times when you have to pee so bad but can hold it till the very last minute till you get to your door! Once again, your mind is in control of this because it knows you aren’t supposed to pee anywhere else but your toilet. Once you get to your house or near the bathroom, you are either almost about to pee your pants, or even have a small (or sometimes complete) accident.
Here’s what I recommend you do:
IF YOU ARE SINGLE: Had a bad day at work? Are you bored? Are you tired, upset, or looking for something to do, or something to entertain you, or make you feel better? Clear your mind from all your thoughts, and take a deep breath. Do not undress yourself. Sit or stand somewhere in private, preferably a place you would go to or be in times when you need to think or be away from people, and be in touch with yourself. Close your eyes, and forget that you’re even wearing any clothes, or what you might be about to urinate on. After you have reached the point of complete relaxation, just let your flow come out. Just feel the warmth and enjoyment and pleasure it gives you, and enjoy a special twenty seconds of your life.
IF YOU HAVE A PARTNER/LOVER: The best way to either introduce or start with your partner if you are new to this, is to surprise them with it. Be creative, as well. When you are in a very special moment with your partner, like lying on top of each other in bed, or taking a shower. Just begin to stare in your lover’s eye. Just be taken by how much you love each other, and being close and spending time with each other. Then, clear your thoughts and fears, and without hesitations, just urinate. Do not worry about what your partner may think. TIP: If your partner is offended or disgusted by the urination, please feel free to explain to them anything you agree with on what I wrote. Your best thing to say is that you felt so close to them, and just felt like you were melting in their arms, and that you just couldn’t control your urine because you felt so relaxed around them.
Please, before making such negative comments about urinating, try these practices yourself. Also, feel free to be creative with them. If it fails the first time, try it again, and try it differently until you find it to be enjoyable. Chances are if you are not finding the practice to be enjoyable, you are not letting yourself enjoy it, and you are concentrating to strongly on the fact “oh my god, I’m peeing my pants” or whatever way that you are choosing to urinate. You have to let go of these thoughts, and you have to clear your mind and be open and willing to do this.
In Conclusion, having urine play and enjoyment with our partner has added a very special, and vital part to our relationship in all aspects. It has brought us closer together, and I enjoy being able to share something so intimate as this with her. Whenever we spend time alone and can urinate with each other, and when I can drink her urine, I feel as though I am literally bring a part of her body into mine, and I am consuming her most sacred wine. The feeling her warm trickles of sweet champagne on my body are so arousing, and it feels so heavenly. In addition to this, there are many other ways and reasons that I enjoy my lover’s urine, of which no words can describe. You must simply experience it to believe it, enjoy it, and to understand it. I love watching my lover urinate herself, and to have her watch me urinate as well.
If you chose not to do any of this, then that is your decision. But please do understand that you should be respective to those who do enjoy the wondrous magic of urine. But if it is not something you enjoy or that you are into, it is due to a lack of understanding on one level or another. Understanding this logic of enjoying urine can be very difficult, especially depending on standards of which you were raised, or other contributing factors.
There are some people out there who love urination because of the humilation, or feeling degraded, however, most do not enjoy it for these reasons. I personally do not enjoy it for purposes of humiliation or being degraded. I in fact, feel no humilation by being urinated on, or urinating in public, or the fact that I enjoy urine games/play as a whole.
The individual “sir shootsalot” is an extremely ignorant, conservative, arrogant, narrow-minded individual. For one, urine is NOT toxic waste, as this user has tried to describe. Perhaps what is taught in the bible (as he seems to be religious) could be more referred to as toxic waste. The fact that this guy SERIOUSLY does not know what a “period is” leads me to believe he would be the type of person to go ahead and rape little boys in the rectory, not knowing what the word “rape” is, and not seeing anything wrong with doing that. I would say it could be acceptable if he is unfamiliar with the term “I’m on my rag”, but the word “period” is the primarily word used, and the secondary term used is the medical term.
I hope that I may have helped explain the whole aspect behind Urophillia, and Urine in itself. I hope that those of you who already enjoy the pleasures and beauty of urine, feel that I have helped reflect their own feelings and thoughts towards this.
FOR FURTHER READING: An individual who I claim has “stolen the words from my mouth” has written his own manual to express his own beliefs, thoughts, and feelings on urination and watersports.
I welcome all feedback, comments, thoughts or opinions you may have, whether you are still in disbelief, are having difficulty trying to enjoy this, or to convince someone you know or love on why it’s a beautiful thing. I want to be as a valuable resource to help you become closer to your mate, as I have with mine with this. I will help you.
You can also IM me at that SN as well.
Take care, and enjoy yourselves.
JASON
Personal Quote: “In my world, it’s always better to be pissed on, than pissed off.”
