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Postby Guest on Sat May 10, 2008 9:21 pm

glamour boy/girl wrote:I love wearing my sisters tights and her dress and then finishing it off with some high heels
There is only one strange thing, i get an erection whilst doing it,


Is this a normal thing for m
boys who cross dress/ i am only 14

Please help!!!


As the previous posters said, getting an erection while wearing your sister's clothes is completely normal. If your erection is causing a bulge in your skirt, try wearing a pantygirdle to hide your male parts.

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Postby Goodie on Fri May 30, 2008 11:29 am

Let him be and he will be alright. I loved putting on my sisters things too when i was that age. i looked up to her so much. One Easter my mom bought me & my sister matching pink Easter dresses and I think I wore it for a whole week straight!
Don't make it such a big deal!

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Postby Guest on Fri Jun 13, 2008 6:52 pm

I'm a 16 year old guy who had liked to cross dress a little, but I recently got a girlfriend, she doesn't know I've done that before, anywho, our relationship I have to say the gender roles are reversed, and it actually works out well for us and I haven't dressed that way since.

I think you should let him dress up, I agree with the forbidden fruit thing. and let him get in touch with his feminine side, hes not gay. Crossdressing is not a sign of being gay, it just means he likes more feminine things. He may grow out of it, though I doubt it. but yes, just tell him he can't wear his sisters clothes but tell him if he wants, you will buy him a dress or something. it will make him happy, and will strengthen your bond with him.

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Postby The Colonel on Fri Jun 13, 2008 7:21 pm

. wrote:I'm a 16 year old guy who had liked to cross dress a little, but I recently got a girlfriend, she doesn't know I've done that before, anywho, our relationship I have to say the gender roles are reversed, and it actually works out well for us and I haven't dressed that way since.

I think you should let him dress up, I agree with the forbidden fruit thing. and let him get in touch with his feminine side, hes not gay. Crossdressing is not a sign of being gay, it just means he likes more feminine things. He may grow out of it, though I doubt it. but yes, just tell him he can't wear his sisters clothes but tell him if he wants, you will buy him a dress or something. it will make him happy, and will strengthen your bond with him.


There is no way you are 16!

In order to be in touch with one's "feminine side" one need not dress up in a females clothes. :roll:
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Postby Guest on Sat Jun 14, 2008 4:19 am

how do you know this?

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Postby a 14 year old boy on Sat Jun 14, 2008 3:11 pm

i am 14 year old boy and i like the idea of wearing a skirt becuase of the freedom and comfort do i have a problem

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Postby The Colonel on Sun Jun 15, 2008 2:33 pm

a 14 year old boy wrote:i am 14 year old boy and i like the idea of wearing a skirt becuase of the freedom and comfort do i have a problem


Yes, you do have a problem. Because you are not 14.
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Postby KiltyCol on Sun Jun 15, 2008 10:07 pm

Just to look at the other side of the coin - How many girls cross dress? Surely that is more common than boys cross dressing.
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Postby Guest on Sat Jun 21, 2008 4:52 pm

a 14 year old boy wrote:i am 14 year old boy and i like the idea of wearing a skirt becuase of the freedom and comfort do i have a problem


The problem is that society will judge you simply because you enjoy women's clothing. We don't have a problem with women who wear men's clothes, but men simply aren't allowed the same freedom. People will give you different explanations for this (and the Colonel will tell you that everyone else's is stupid) but I believe it stems from an historic view that men hold a higher position in society than women - and no man should ever want to lower himself.

You're curious about girls - that's natural at your age, I also was fascinated by my older sister and her life when I was growing up. I loved wearing her clothes when no one was around. Over time I learned more about girls, then about women and came to realize that girls are just as curious about boys.

In a few years you'll be dating and seeing girls as equals and your 'problem' may dissapear.

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Postby The Colonel on Sat Jun 21, 2008 6:16 pm

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a 14 year old boy wrote:i am 14 year old boy and i like the idea of wearing a skirt becuase of the freedom and comfort do i have a problem


The problem is that society will judge you simply because you enjoy women's clothing. We don't have a problem with women who wear men's clothes, but men simply aren't allowed the same freedom. People will give you different explanations for this (and the Colonel will tell you that everyone else's is stupid) but I believe it stems from an historic view that men hold a higher position in society than women - and no man should ever want to lower himself.

You're curious about girls - that's natural at your age, I also was fascinated by my older sister and her life when I was growing up. I loved wearing her clothes when no one was around. Over time I learned more about girls, then about women and came to realize that girls are just as curious about boys.

In a few years you'll be dating and seeing girls as equals and your 'problem' may dissapear.


The person you've replied to has created so many rubbish threads here.
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Postby Guest today on Mon Jun 23, 2008 4:46 pm

I do not see what the issue is here at all. So what ! does it matter how old the person is who is interested in the Wearing of female attire. I know that it is an old argument, but Females are able to wear Male attire without issue, and quite honestly some of them look great in it. I wonder whhy there is this hang up about things when the tables are reversed.

My Mother is no longer with us, but made me wear Girls Clothes as a punishment, accompanied I may add with a strap liberally applied to my backside. I have to say that after a Strapping when I was made to keep the skirt, tights, and or dress on, that I did sectretly liked how the clothes felt, smooth, tight and exciting. I have to say it was also embarassing to be dressed this way which is why Mum did it I think. My resistance to this regime usually gave her the excuse she need to strap me aswell. That said what is the issue? they are only Clothes, and I will maintain that it taught me respect for the fairer Sex. People are to hung up on this issue. I will say this in closure, if the little B's that are around today were Strapped in a School Skirt and tights instead of being aloud to run riot, we would have a much better place to live in !!!!!!!!!

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Postby Guest on Mon Jul 07, 2008 1:09 pm

a 14 year old boy wrote:i am 14 year old boy and i like the idea of wearing a skirt becuase of the freedom and comfort do i have a problem


Is it just for the freedom or is it also sexual? Do you get aroused when you wear girl's/women's clothing? As others have pointed out, society doesn't look kindly on men who choose women's clothing. It's not fair, but that's the way it is. If it is a sexual thing for you, then you'll find that you're not alone. Many men find women's clothing erotic.

You may need to talk to someone to find out whether you truly have a problem or not. It just may be natural curiosity - in that case, I wouldn't worry about it.

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Re: boys wearing skirts

Postby Transgender Woman on Thu Jul 10, 2008 2:01 am

loki_uk wrote:
. wrote:If you confront him he'll probably just carry on and hide it, but on the other hand I remember a kid a school wanting to play hockey and wear a girls clothes for it and they really got bullied so probably best to make sure he only does it at home for now


I hate this discrimination against transgirls. I hate society. I wish to punish the guys who bullied that effeminate boy.

I am against tomboys but I support effeminate boys.

I believe in reverse discrimination.

Because of my experiences in this sick world, I tend to support transgirls who rape real girls. Society cares about real women but likes to brutlize transwomen, like me. The only way to punish society is to go "Columbine" on its real gals.

I'm too upset to post coherently.

I encourage male-born patients of gender identity disoroders to backlash against society. They should be girly and sexually-abuse real women.

Once again, I'm too upset to post coherently because I'm too upset at society.

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Postby Guest on Sun Jul 20, 2008 1:19 am

KiltyCol wrote:Just to look at the other side of the coin - How many girls cross dress? Surely that is more common than boys cross dressing.


How about all of them? Females can wear whatever they like whenever they like and do it without comment. For males to not have the same freedom is blatant sexism.

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Postby Guest on Mon Jul 21, 2008 12:48 pm

. wrote:
KiltyCol wrote:Just to look at the other side of the coin - How many girls cross dress? Surely that is more common than boys cross dressing.


How about all of them? Females can wear whatever they like whenever they like and do it without comment. For males to not have the same freedom is blatant sexism.


That's true to an extent. If a girl wears something that's predominantly male, such as a tuxedo, she is likely to be labeled as eccentric or assumed to be a lesbian. That's still nothing compared to what a boy gets labeled if he expresses a preference for girls' clothing.

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