lost the 1 i luv

jfk202 · Guest

i need sum feedback on what to do next. i was dating this girl for 2 years. as most relationships tha beginning was picture perfect. tha last 6 months everything changed. i gave her tha best sex she ever had which is 5 inches when erect. but she started talking to a co worker and they eventually had sex and he was much bigger than me. so she eventually left me for this guy. its not that she left me but tha way she did it. i knew what was goin on cause i called her phone 1 night and he answered. my heart had dropped because this was sum one i planned on getting married to. for sum reason she still denied everything. she could have told me it was over but she was out to hurt me i guess. then 1 day she changed her # and i aint hear from her since. but resently i heard that she is pregnant with his baby and i took it hard cause i felt that should have been my baby she was having. so for those of u that been or know sum 1 that been it this situation , give me sum advice on what i should do next. those of u that aint been or know any1 that been in this situation let me know what u would do.

coolman · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 18 Apr 2008 Posts: 5967

all I can say is . . . be happy you found out how she is BEFORE you married her. The average woman needs just 3 Inches to be able to have an orgasm, so don't worry about your size either.

Pick up the pieces and find someone new.

Kitty88 · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 11 Jun 2008 Posts: 17

SLEEPY · Guest

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jeyarr · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 27 Jun 2008 Posts: 3

First, realize that it's not the size. Stop feeling insecure about it. She may have found the other guy more compatible for her future, or she could have made a wrong decision. Stop thinking about it in a negative way.

Whatever happened, she was not loyal to you. And be glad you found this out before the marriage. She SLEPT with some other guy after dating you for 2 years. She didn't even know his size before making that decision -- you understand?

There's nothing wrong with you physically. It's the emotional part that you have to keep sane, and go find another woman who you find compatible and she finds you too. There are a lot of women in this world who could be your special one. Go out, socialize more, and find another.

Good Luck!