I want other men to screw my wife...how common is

[creamypie]

i 'fed' my ex cuckold creamy(from f'buddy) pie daily for nearly 5 years, him submitting to it as part of the power i held his submissive wimpy excuse for manhood with until a real man fancied me and we made escape to Belize plans but he got killed in an auto accident 3 weeks before we were to leave for new life.

[egypto]

well, we swaped wives, and i shared her with him, she was super horny, she sucked him a way that she never didfor me, also his dick is 3 times bigger and thiker than mine, I am so jelous now. also after me andhim slept with her, now i cum so fast, less than 20 seconds, and she complain, i think i distroyed my mariage. she says i love you, but i doubt. i am still good with any other women but her. also whenever i start ot make love to her, she starts to talke about his big dick and that she wants him to F*** her, i used to like this before we share. but now i only like it when i am horny. dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!. I wish i can stay longer with her as i used ago.

[lynnann]

In total my wife has f*cked,

8 other guys in front of me
2 of those 8 we have seen a second time
she has also sucked 1 guy off twice in front of me
then there is the chick she has now f*cked twice in front of me.

I love it and every time is different. We will keep doing this for years yet.
No its not for everybody but it works for us.

for the last 12 years I have had way more men than your wife and love them all.there is a treat I get sometime he joins in and s**ks the men to get them hard or get them hard again for me.why don't more men join in and s**k or jerk the men off with the women??we have such a good marriage and I am so happy with our open life styles.really not sure why more marriages are not open as ours is.less tension at home and more fun in bed.

[guest3451]

i have just read this whole thing.

i am getting married this summer and have begun really fantasizing about her with other men; however i lso know i naturally get very jealous of her as she is f****ng fantastic.

I do wonder what it would be like; but am afraid of my own reaction. My guess is she would bne fine.

Any advice or should we just get on with it and let a bunch of guys F*** her?

[lynnann]

It's much more common than you might think. My husband made this suggestion to me over ten years ago. I didn't know what to think of it at the time but, after a year or so of talking about it and him gently urging me to try it, I did.

It was strange having another man inside me, since my hubby was the first. But to my amazement -- and with some guilt -- I loved it. And I got over my feeling of guilt after a couple of times. From that first time it slowly graduated to doing it more, until now we have threesums (or moresums) with other men, at least once a month, sometimes more. My husband watches, takes pictures and joins in. I am very comfortable with it and love the extra attention.

I also love my husband even more (and he me!) and I know he gets very excited watching me with another man. Having him there is a turn-on. Infrequently I have sex with one of our "regular" friends alone, with my hubby's knowledge. That happens when he's away for his work. But I always give him a full account when he gets back and we make mad, passionate love. We've been doing that now for nearly 10 years since he first suggested it. GREAT!!!

It's easy for anyone who hasn't tried it to make judgements but they don't know what they're talking about. Besides, it's OUR business so if you don't like it, don't do it. It's your loss.

right on girl! in all the men I went to bed with the biggest troubles is a guy that pushes his wife or girlfriend into doing it and then he does not like when a guy pleases his wife better than he does,or the c*** is better or bigger.if you guys keeps a open mind there should not be any troubles, and everyone will enjoy it.I also do it for the fun of it not for love of any other man but my sweet hubby. marriages would be so much better if we all could have sex for fun and thats all.

[Guest]

Did you have a troubled youth?

[Aureus]

After reading all of the posts on this topic, I have to say that many miss the point. It is not about the man watching his wife or his fantasy. It is about the woman being allowed to follow her sensuality and act on it NOT the guy getting to watch. Today's society closets and pressures us into monogamy once married. And this is so much truer for woman than men. Women who have affairs etc are labeled whores and sluts which is sad to me. I believe that women are, by nature, much more sensual and sexual than men but are not allowed to follow their natural desires.

Men; this should be your focus. If you are into this, then encourage your wives and girlfriends to follow their own sexual desires but not just to satisfy YOUR fantasy. Allow her to fulfill hers and by doing so, you will have yours fulfilled as well. This may or may not include you watching or participating. My wife and I have a great relationship and sex life. Over the years, we have discussed this topic and explored it many times. Now, she has the comfort and confidence that she can allow herself to be turned on and act on it if and when she wants. I can tell you from experience, that there is nothing more satisfying than seeing your wife incredibly turned on and sexual and satisfied.

[aureus]

right on girl! in all the men I went to bed with the biggest troubles is a guy that pushes his wife or girlfriend into doing it and then he does not like when a guy pleases his wife better than he does,or the c*** is better or bigger.if you guys keeps a open mind there should not be any troubles, and everyone will enjoy it.I also do it for the fun of it not for love of any other man but my sweet hubby. marriages would be so much better if we all could have sex for fun and thats all.[/quote]


I couldn't agree more! As I man, I admit that men actually are sissies and usually can't handle the jealousy. But, if you can; ther sight or even knowledge that your wife/girlfriend is free to explore and experience sex and sexuality is very freeing and exciting.

[Rhodie]

MY husband begged me for years to have sex with another man. He also had an affair with my cousin, and another one with my best friend. Instead of leaving I tried to please him. He had made up a female persona and had been communicating with a number of men as a female. The men would send him pictures and masturbate

So what happened? have you slept with other men?

[Guest]

I have had this fantasy too. Unfortunately or fortunately - which ever way you look at it - so far my wife has refused. I have a deep desire to watch her being brought to orgasm by another man or men. Strange but true.
She flirts with other guys - kisses etc but will not go any further. YET!

[Tina69]

Funny how some guys can't get their head around men you actually get off on other men F****** their wives. Its a great turn on and you have to be in a very good stable relationship to be able to enjoy this kind of fun, all those who are insecure should stay well away. Your wife just might like the other guy more and leave you.

Married only 10 years this Oct. we have had a open marriage about 5 years.You have a very good point about a stable relationship.Jimmy wanted me to have sex with men, and I went for it.Soon after he was not so sure if he really liked it or not.We had several long talks and fights, about our feelings.It was not easy to not say I will not do it anymore after I had the best of both worlds.I told Jimmy that he was the one who wanted it and now after he got me liking it so much you want me to stop,that was not fair.We stopped for a while and he came to me after about 3 years and said it was alright with him again.Thats when I told him,I will not stop this time just because he was not happy about it.We have new rules and the last 5 years has been great!

You want to try watching,then be really really ready for all your feelings to come to the surface.It may sound good in a magazine,but some just can not handle the real life thing.

[Rhodie]

Lucky Jimmy......

[stevycab]

hi just to say its common and we r doing it at moment i watch and when she has been screw i take my turn then we all join in

[lynnann]

Our situation is a little different. Two years ago, I started suffering from ED. I have tried all the medications, both prescription and herbal, but they do not help.
My wife and I have been married 35 years and we never had any problems in the bedroom until...we call it "my problem".
About a year ago, my wife's libido went into overdrive. I was afraid that because of "my problem" that she would be forced to go behind my back to satisfy her needs.
I started encouraging her to find someone she could have physical sex with and then come home to me for her emotional needs...which I am very good at meeting.
Well, this weekend it happened. She had sex with another man on both Friday and Saturday night. She insisted I go along, but would rather that I wait outside in our car for her...which I did.
I think I am alright with all of this, but not sure just yet.
I am eat up with guilt over her having to seek sex outside our marriage in order to satisfy her needs...and because of "my problem" cannot meet.
Any supportive advice?

Your so cool in what you did.There are only a few men that would step up to the plate and do that for a wife, and a marriage.You both must love each other loads.Real sorry to hear of your health troubles, but do not give up there is lots of help out there with real doctors not the tv ones ok.LOL It is so nice to hear a real man talk about his love for his wife.Gold stars to you and I sure hope she knows how lucky she is.

[Guest]

Jimmy wanted me to have sex with men, and I went for it..

Suppose I rewrote this phrase as follows: Jane wanted me to have sex with women, and I went for it...

In other words: why is it that men want women to have sex with other men, whereas the opposite (women wanting men to have sex with other women) does not happen? Can anybody explain?