have you ever considered being 1 of 2 or 3 spouses to just 1 of the other gender?
an old friend not seen for ages and i ran across each other and talked for hours in a coffee shop last week. she is in a committed relationship where she is the third 'wife' and has been for several years.
it was ironic this subject came up since my husband mentioned his desire to add another 'wife' since he and i work different schedules and rarerly 'get together' as lovers like we used to before kids and careers complicated the ability to do so.
he thinks this will be improved for me also since there will be another 'mommy' figure around to keep kids away and lessen house-chores load on both of us.
at first i was taken aback quite a bit, but after seeing the old friend am now considering that yes; it could be good for my too in many ways and hence am giving it considerable thought.
all on-top and not of smart-ass type comments are not only welcome, but also encouraged. have any others here at
(this wonderful set of forums having only a few troll types) FF had experience with such a lifestyle intended to last forever?














