my husband wears panties bras and stockings

[Horiana]

I am a 65 year old man who has been wearing ladies underwear as my normal everyday wear ever since I was a teenager. I adequately fill a 40B bra, I wear panties, girdle and stockiings and ladies shoes. I usually wear a woman's top, but wear men's trousers as I like having pockets and you don't often get those in ladies. I have been married twice, widowed both times, and neither of my wives raised any objection. I make no secret of the way I dress. In fact ,today I was in a shop choosing a couple of bras , there was couple next to me and the husband was obviously embarrassed to be there, the wife told him not to be so silly, here was a man buying bras for his wife, so I turned round and told them, no, they're for me actually, I've worn a bra since I was about 16.

I have often discussed bras in such a way with shop assistants that they realise that I am shopping for myself, or have said something like, 'In case you are wondering, yes, they are for me' . If I want a new pair of shoes, I openly go into shops and try on any that I like. No shop assistant has ever said anything negative to me, in fact I think many are quite used to men buying ladies things, as the lady who owns one shop locally has told me that she has a lot of male customers who are buying for themselves, but I am only the second who has ever actually told her.

When not wearing a jacket, it is quite obvious from the bulges that I have breasts, and in warmer weather when I am only wearing a blouse or shirt, my bra straps are there for all to see. Nobody has ever said anything to me about it, in fact I do not think that people really notice what anyone else is wearing.

So for all you men who worry that what people will think if you are wearing ladies lingerie, take heart, they'll probably never notice, or even care if they do.

[panty play]

I jus found out the love of my life wears lingerie. I have always suspected a secret between us and thought it might be something else. Never imagined pantie play. Well maybe it crossed my mind briefly when I found mine in his drawer. Initially I thought it was because he was turned on by my scent and used them to masterbate but it always nagged at my subconcious. I came out and asked him rexcently and he admitted he does wear them for sexual arousal. I am extremely open minded ...or so I thought. We have always had a very adventurous lifestyle and I tried to apply the same mindset to this kink but I am having a really hard time with it. It turns me off to think of him this way. Any suggestions? I want to get throught this and find someway to wrap my head around it.

[MELODY 63]

[guest232]

A college girlfriend of mine got me to wearing panties. We had just started dating. One morning, I was getting dressed and put on my briefs (I always wore black bikini briefs until that day). She slid over to my side of the bed and started feeling me up and said she had something for me to wear. I was confused, but turned on. She then got up and got a pair of her panties - a cute little pink Thong from Victoria's Secret. She asked me if I would wear it. I was reluctant, but let's just say she convinced me.

On our way to campus that day on the shuttle bus we were standing (the bus was crowded). She had her arms wrapped around my waist and started playing with the Thong (I was wearing low rise jeans). Some girls on the bus saw it and giggled. I heard one comment that she found it sexy and that she wished her boyfriend would wear her panties. After that, my then girlfriend always picked out my undies for me. She even got rid of all my guys underwear. Even after we broke I kept wearing panties. My current girlfriend finds it incredibly sexy. We even go to lingerie stores together to buy my panties and she "makes" me tell the sales staff they are for me.

Since then, all I wear are panties - mostly bikinis but some thongs.

[mannymonkeyto]

you should let him if thats what he likes you should accept him just like my girlfriend do to me(she gets excited when i wear panties,and i like it)

[scottishtightslover]

each to their own. i enjoy the feel of nylon against my skin. me and my partner both wearing tights without pants makes for great sex.

[mareng2]

I started dressing up in my mum's underwear when I was about 4. I used to do it when my grandmother, who was looking after me, would fall asleep. I was invariably caught and made to feel awful. After puberty, I started again but was terrified of being caught and some years later after getting married started dressing in my wife's stuff when she was away. I tried to introduce this to her, she was horrified and threatened to tell my friends, needless to say that the marriage ended in divorce!

A friend of mine who split from her husband because of his drinking and violence stayed at my house for a few months while I was working overseas and until she sorted out her divorce. By this time I had started wearing lingerie full-time, panties, hold-ups and camisoles and when I came back she, in trying to be helpful, had done my laundry and had obviously found out.

She never said anything but as time went by and she sorted her life out we got closer and closer and are now married. She had always ended up with the wrong sort of men, violent or dominating and her view is that anyone man wearing a silk slip has got to be close enough to his feminine side to be gentle.

We have fun when we go out wearing the same underwear and stockings, our little secret, but it makes us very close and at 50 have a great sex life.

Crossdressing never caused anyone real harm, woman can wear anything including men's clothing and nobody bats an eyelid!

[Equal Rights?]

I was with this gal a while back. One night just chatting in bed after about 3 months of being together, I said to her "I umm have this little fetish".

At first she was freaked out as she thought it was some real gross thing or whatever. Anyhow after waffling for a bit, I finally told her that I like to wear panties.

Well, that was the smartest thing I did. She at first thought it was odd, but as time went on, she started having fun with it. Buying me various items and then taking me to the lingerie store etc.

One thing she really liked about it, is if i was wearing hers she felt like I was "close" to her in a secret and kinky way.

Anyhow bottom is line is, she had fun with it. I didn't feel like a freak and it hurts no one.

ER?

[fatzke]