Torn wrote:Maybe that is where I am at. I kind of feel like I deserve this, with "my problem" and all. And I sorta feel like the more punishment I inflict the better I will feel.
Please don't see this as a punishment but rather as something your wife deserves, something you owe her. And rest assured that it will not weaken your marital bond but strengthen it, as she will be grateful to you for granting her this freedom without grudging.
One word of advice: it's not fair to listen in (even less to watch!) while she is with her date. She deserves privacy, so be courteous and let her have that; be content with her recounting afterwards, I'm sure she will gladly do so.
On another note, we men will often complain about the lack of equilibrium between male and female demand for sex. In our world, finding a sex partner is nearly always more difficult for a man than for a woman. One of the major reasons for that remains with us men, since we treat women with multiple sex partners as sluts. Only men can change that. If we would think more highly of liberated women, we would find many more women willing to have sex with us than today.















